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Been There, Taught That



Joined: 10 Apr 2007
Location: Mungyeong: not a village, not yet a metroplex.

PostPosted: Mon May 12, 2008 7:58 am    Post subject: Here's why I'm taking my time Reply with quote

I'm still in the Wisconsin, US, and plan to come to Korea with my wife and daughter in October.
After having been solicited by a recruiter (English Apple) and faxing documents, getting apostille and all that, including giving specifics about preferences for bringing my family--wife and daughter (two years old)--and trying to sound tentative, as if I was flexible to different possibilities, I received this email reply this morning:

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Hello,

Thanks for the resume, documents and your pictures.

In order to address your concern, you will be responsible for the airfare, health insurance for your dependents This I knew; we never discussed insurance. But maybe she was just sayin'.. The sponsoring school will only be paying for your benefits and not for your dependents. The salary you will earn is not enough for 3 people to live on. I think it can well be; but, maybe this is genuine concern for me. I think, though, that it's a thoughtless untruth.Do they say this to every family who wants to come over? and it is tough to find a position with more than 2.7 million KRW salary. Granted. Especially here I tried to communicate flexibility. If your wife could work, things will be little better but child care in Korea is expensive and it will be hard to find a nanny who speaks English. Never wanted a nanny. My wife will be caring for her 24/7. You (and your wife) will likely be gone 7-9 hours a day, please consider if this would be the best situation for your daughter.

Also the school will not find you a housing for the whole family. They will be providing single room studio apartment big enough for one and unfortunately they would not be spending extra to accomodate. Please let me know what you think. This sounds to me as if they only have one school up their sleeve, and therefore as if they don't want to work with me.

* And where in the world does this come into play?If you are looking at taking dependents to another country as an English teacher, the Middle East is really the only region that consistently offers benefit packages to families. Maybe this recruiting agent has a side business in Saudi Arabia.

Sincerely,

Unfortunately, they made a lot of assumptions right off. If they have bigger fish to fry, fine; so do I. I've contacted at least ten recruiters of all kinds. Admittedly, I don't really have enough revealed hear to implicate or exonerate the motives, but the point is I should have. I don't even know what they thought of the documents. The only thing I'm sure about is that this sounds like a brush-off and that it was a sudden turn, and that now they have scans of my documents.

Maybe they had their reasons for saying all these things, maybe they didn't mean to sound like they didn't want to work with me. If that's the case, they weren't careful about the impression they made.

I think, personally, that they want some body NOW, not in October.

Anyway, it's all just to say that there's more than one recruiter in the sea, and some of them could be sharks. I hope they all reveal themselves so quickly.
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Return Jones



Joined: 06 Feb 2004
Location: I will see you in far-off places

PostPosted: Mon May 12, 2008 8:09 am    Post subject: Re: Here's why I'm taking my time Reply with quote

Been There, Taught That wrote:
I think, personally, that they want some body NOW, not in October.


You're probably right. Things are often done last minute in Korea. October might as well be the next ice age.
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Fresh Prince



Joined: 05 Dec 2006
Location: The glorious nation of Korea

PostPosted: Mon May 12, 2008 10:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Korean hokwons are famous for not paying on time, early firings, dodgy contracts, etc. Sounds like they are trying to do you a favor since you have a child.

20000 won per hour would get you 3.2 million per month if you worked a 40 hour week. It sounds like the recruiter is saying that the hokwons' will want to make a profit by only going as high as 2.7 million.

An alternative would be to find a low hour standard gig and get them to agree to a second job.
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SirFink



Joined: 05 Mar 2006

PostPosted: Mon May 12, 2008 10:57 am    Post subject: Re: Here's why I'm taking my time Reply with quote

Been There, Taught That wrote:
The only thing I'm sure about is that this sounds like a brush-off .


In this case, I think the recruiter is just being honest (imagine that!). A wife and kid on 2.-something a month? In a tiny, tiny little one-room apartment? It's become hard enough to obtain a visa for a single foreign teacher, but the wife and kid too? AIDS test for the baby, too? Who knows but I can't imagine the nightmare of getting everything in order and legalized.

There's no bias in the recruiter recommending the Middle East. If only you had an MA in Applied Linguistics. If only we all did...
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ontheway



Joined: 24 Aug 2005
Location: Somewhere under the rainbow...

PostPosted: Mon May 12, 2008 11:18 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

There are good schools (hogwans) that provide two bedroom condos as standard housing to all of their teachers.

You need to look for something OUTSIDE of Seoul, where it is cheaper to live and more family friendly.

You can live on your teacher's salary here, support your family and save money if you stay out of Seoul and find the right school.

It is true that teachers are in short supply, especially now with the new rules. Public, private and hogwans are always looking and they all need teachers right away.

So, have your documents ready and keep looking. Be ready to come ASAP when the right job comes along, fly over, get set up, and bring your family a few weeks later.

Good luck.
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raketbaler



Joined: 14 Apr 2008

PostPosted: Mon May 12, 2008 12:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have English Apple as my recruiter and they've been very helpful. They were recommended to me by someone who's had them before.
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PRagic



Joined: 24 Feb 2006

PostPosted: Mon May 12, 2008 1:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hakwons are not the place to be if you are married with a kid! The recruiter is perhaps just trying to steer you away from the wrong path. If you want to work in Korea as a teacher, go with a public school. If you have better qualifications, try for a university position.

Not an easy move to make with a kid. Good luck.
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thatwhitegirl



Joined: 31 Jan 2007
Location: ROK

PostPosted: Mon May 12, 2008 6:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Public schools outside Seoul would probably be a better bet. Try to go directly through the school, rather than through EPIK, GEPIK or any one those. We had a recruiter that got us hired directly by the school, and so we could negotiate.
We are a married couple, so they gave us a 3-bedroom place, plus an extra $200 a month for 'bills'.
If you work in a rural area, you'll also get paid extra.
You can possibly make up to 2.4 or more with the rural bonuses, which should be enough to support your family well.

Good luck. There are lots of jobs over here, so you can afford to be choosy.
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ronnietijuana



Joined: 08 May 2008

PostPosted: Tue May 13, 2008 12:51 am    Post subject: english apple Reply with quote

Is english apple legit? I went through them and they told me I had 72 hours to sign a contract offer or decline it. they sent me two of their teachers emails, but something just didn't sound right. I want to know if I should still be working with this recruiting agency.

My agent's name made a random black list, but all of that stuff is just as shady. I mean who really knows about people that would sell someone out on the world wide web? She seems to be very honest, probably the same lady that the OP is dealing with. I mean obviously she wants her money, but at long as that is out in the open, it can be dealt with.

Most of what english apple will get you will put you into a hakwon. From reading the posts here, if you got a family just live out in the sticks. or apply to PAGODA or YBM and teach adults. That is a pay for play, so if you take the OT, you can stretch, to 3 or so. That might work out best, cuz I think those guys let you pick where you want to live, but they don't pay the rent. just the key money.

sounds like you know what you are getting into though, so just be patient.
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NightSky



Joined: 19 Apr 2005

PostPosted: Tue May 13, 2008 1:24 am    Post subject: Re: Here's why I'm taking my time Reply with quote

Been There, Taught That wrote:
I'm still in the Wisconsin, US, and plan to come to Korea with my wife and daughter in October.
After having been solicited by a recruiter (English Apple) and faxing documents, getting apostille and all that, including giving specifics about preferences for bringing my family--wife and daughter (two years old)--and trying to sound tentative, as if I was flexible to different possibilities, I received this email reply this morning:

Quote:
Hello,

Thanks for the resume, documents and your pictures.

In order to address your concern, you will be responsible for the airfare, health insurance for your dependents This I knew; we never discussed insurance. But maybe she was just sayin'.. The sponsoring school will only be paying for your benefits and not for your dependents. The salary you will earn is not enough for 3 people to live on. I think it can well be; but, maybe this is genuine concern for me. I think, though, that it's a thoughtless untruth.Do they say this to every family who wants to come over? and it is tough to find a position with more than 2.7 million KRW salary. Granted. Especially here I tried to communicate flexibility. If your wife could work, things will be little better but child care in Korea is expensive and it will be hard to find a nanny who speaks English. Never wanted a nanny. My wife will be caring for her 24/7. You (and your wife) will likely be gone 7-9 hours a day, please consider if this would be the best situation for your daughter.

Also the school will not find you a housing for the whole family. They will be providing single room studio apartment big enough for one and unfortunately they would not be spending extra to accomodate. Please let me know what you think. This sounds to me as if they only have one school up their sleeve, and therefore as if they don't want to work with me.

* And where in the world does this come into play?If you are looking at taking dependents to another country as an English teacher, the Middle East is really the only region that consistently offers benefit packages to families. Maybe this recruiting agent has a side business in Saudi Arabia.

Sincerely,

Unfortunately, they made a lot of assumptions right off. If they have bigger fish to fry, fine; so do I. I've contacted at least ten recruiters of all kinds. Admittedly, I don't really have enough revealed hear to implicate or exonerate the motives, but the point is I should have. I don't even know what they thought of the documents. The only thing I'm sure about is that this sounds like a brush-off and that it was a sudden turn, and that now they have scans of my documents.

Maybe they had their reasons for saying all these things, maybe they didn't mean to sound like they didn't want to work with me. If that's the case, they weren't careful about the impression they made.

I think, personally, that they want some body NOW, not in October.

Anyway, it's all just to say that there's more than one recruiter in the sea, and some of them could be sharks. I hope they all reveal themselves so quickly.


Recruiters always work for themselves first--they probably don't want you because with a spouse and child you are potentially more troublesome than your average backpacker. lots of schools will want you though and will be more than willing to offer good sizeable accommodation so don't worry about that. the other posters who said you should look outside of Seoul are right.

if I were you I'd write back in no uncertain terms that you a) are aware that they won't pay for your wife and daughter's airfare b) that they MUST find you a two or three bedroom apartment and if they can't then you will look elsewhere and moreover c) their opinion of your ability to support three people on one salary is utterly irrelevant.

they don't sound professional at all.
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NightSky



Joined: 19 Apr 2005

PostPosted: Tue May 13, 2008 1:26 am    Post subject: Re: Here's why I'm taking my time Reply with quote

Been There, Taught That wrote:
You (and your wife) will likely be gone 7-9 hours a day, please consider if this would be the best situation for your daughter.


also, your recruiter saying this made me snicker...as opposed to the West where mom and dad are free to dance around in green fields with their kids and not work for a living?? what do they propose you do?
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esetters21



Joined: 30 Apr 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Tue May 13, 2008 1:33 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I honestly don't know what to say about this. You have a wife and daughter and are considering Korea as a means for teaching and supporting a family by yourself on an ESL salary? I worry enough about myself and my dog here.
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Been There, Taught That



Joined: 10 Apr 2007
Location: Mungyeong: not a village, not yet a metroplex.

PostPosted: Tue May 13, 2008 1:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Here's the response I sent:

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Thank you for responding.

I do plan to come to Korea to work as an ESL teacher, and I do plan to bring my wife and daughter. My wife and I are aware of the concerns regarding caring for our daughter, and we are well prepared in our minds to live on the equivalent of US$2,000 per month. As a teacher in Korea in 2003, I was earning that exact amount and sending half of it home to the US and paying the costs of that, because my wife was not with me and I was paying rent here and my expenses in Korea.

So, I would say that having my family with me is far better on our budget than that situation, especially since I plan to teach and raise our daughter for several years in Korea. In fact, we are surviving here (Wisconsin) and planning for extra plane tickets and paying rent and bills (and gas for the car) on far less than $2,000 per month in a country I consider more expensive to live in than Korea. I will have no car and none of those expenses, and taxes are lower, so in many ways we will be prospering by comparison.

My daughter will not be of school age for 3 years, and my wife is looking forward to spending the days with her because she will not teach; she will stay all the time with our daughter, who is two and at just the correct age to be exposed to the Korean language (I have spoken German with her since she was born). She will likely learn it faster than I, although I have a head start. My wife is, I must admit, not inclined at the moment to learn another language, but I think that she will not fail to pick up some phrases and expressions despite herself, especially with the help of our daughter Natalie. Beyond that, my wife is excited to meet other English speakers, so I am confident that we will all learn to fit in very comfortably.

Did you say that no private nor public school employer will offer anything larger than a studio apartment? If so, I will have to do more research with teachers, other recruiters, etc. I wasn't aware that that was absolutely the only option, so I appreciate your information. I have some preferred schools in mind that I have looked into myself, so I will really try hard to have them help me. In the end, to come and teach, any accommodation will be worth having. We will be sacrificing almost everything we have and will bring next to nothing with us; we can modify and move up as we earn income and spend time getting to know our area, but I do want to make every effort to find the best we can.

I am sorry that English Apple cannot help us, but, yes, we will be planning to come to Korea. I am an ESL teacher, and have every reason to understand that Korea is in many ways the best option for me and my family.

Regards and Appreciation,

Upon reflection, being as far separated from her situation as she is from mine, I can't credibly assign any ill intent to the agent, no matter what the recruiter priorities. At least, I feel I wasn't singled out in the type of response I got: I'm sure it's all business. In fact, it is for me too. I can't afford to get personal with anyone until I have a secure situation. Thanks for the advice; I needed it.

One thing about taxes: I found out from the Internal Revenue Service that I'll have to earn minimum US$85,000 per year before we have to pay any US tax at all. Until then, our only obligation is to file an actual return. In fact, I was told that the following also applies: that you only have to be out of the country for a total of 330 days, not necessarily continuous nor in the same calendar year. I suppose that means between April 15 and April 15, US tax form-filing day. Now, all of that will be a definite advantage.
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teachergirltoo



Joined: 28 Oct 2006

PostPosted: Tue May 13, 2008 1:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have met several families here that live quite well on an ESL teaching salary. Thatwhitegirl made some very practical comments. The recruiter also made some very valid points, but if you aim for a public position outside of Seoul in a rural area you will have a good chance of getting exactly what you need.
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Zaria32



Joined: 04 Dec 2007

PostPosted: Tue May 13, 2008 5:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You will enjoy life in Korea more with a wife and child if you are not in Seoul, Busan or Daegu, but in a smaller ctiy.

Many hogwons are good to work for - it's just that some are so awful that those who have had the misfortune of working for them have been burned and paint all hogwons with a black brush. And standard hogwon pay of 2.2 to 2.5 is enough for a small family.

In my first hogwon job I was given a wonderful two bedroom apartment. In my second a spacious one bedroom.

This is what you're are likely to be offered outside of the larger cities. Ask for pictures of the accomodations.

And don['t send your documents until you have a signed contract...just send copies until then. Many recruiters try to get hold of your documents early on...once they have originals, you are pretty much glued to them...
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