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Oreovictim
Joined: 23 Aug 2006
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 9:02 am Post subject: Friendliest Group: Koreans, Chinese, or Japanese? |
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This is for the people out there who have done a lot of living/travelling in Asia. Who do you consider to be the friendliest out of the three? Koreans, Chinese, or Japanese? (If you want to choose "Thai" or something, be my guest.)
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jajdude
Joined: 18 Jan 2003
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 9:25 am Post subject: |
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7 Asian countries, Koreans least friendly.
Someone will rebuff or top this.
And you know what, many places, you really do only need a few days to tell.
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djsmnc

Joined: 20 Jan 2003 Location: Dave's ESL Cafe
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 9:26 am Post subject: |
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ALL the Chinese are the rudest
ALL the Koreans are less rude
ALL the Japanese are the most polite and friendly |
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bonanzabucks
Joined: 09 Jun 2007 Location: NYC
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 10:29 am Post subject: |
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Tough question...I'd have to say Filipinos or Thais are the friendliest in my experience. Japanese are definitely the most polite, but I'm not sure if it's genuine friendliness. |
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princess
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: soul of Asia
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 2:54 pm Post subject: |
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I thought the Chinese in Hong Kong were some of the nicest, lovliest, most well-mannered people I've ever met. So yes, I'd have to say they beat the Koreans. So do the Japanese. And yes, it only takes a few days to tell. Also, the turks in Istanbul were pretty nice, too. Thais were nice when I was in Bangkok a few years ago. So, I'd have to say, pretty much anyone is nicer as a whole than Koreans. The people in Bali were nice, too. Some Koreans are nice, but many are rude and have zero manners. Just my two cents. |
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thebomb
Joined: 13 Nov 2006
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 3:33 pm Post subject: |
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After just returning from the Phillipines, and it being my last south east asian country to visit, I would rank them as being the most friendliest and genuine, with the Vietnamese second. The Thais are nice as long as you get out the tourist areas. |
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mrsquirrel
Joined: 13 Dec 2006
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 3:47 pm Post subject: |
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Interestingly Thailand was rated as the most xenophobic country last year ahead of Korea.
Korea was even behind most of the middle eastern countries. I will need to try and dig up the ranking again. |
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Doogie
Joined: 19 Jan 2006 Location: Hwaseong City
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 4:42 pm Post subject: |
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thebomb wrote: |
After just returning from the Phillipines, and it being my last south east asian country to visit, I would rank them as being the most friendliest and genuine, with the Vietnamese second. The Thais are nice as long as you get out the tourist areas. |
I discussed this with a widely-travelled friend of mine a few months back. He made a small fortune early in his financial career so he's decided to take a 5 years hiatus from working life to travel. He's spent the last 3 years living all over Asia. He says, hands down, that the Phillipines has the friendliest people. His estimation put the Thai and the Japanese people a close second. In his view, Koreans are the rudest and least friendly. I guess that's why he keeps asking me why I'm here. I just keep telling him that this is the best option financially right now. He can't relate to needing money anymore . |
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Real Reality
Joined: 10 Jan 2003 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 6:30 pm Post subject: |
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A Society that Spares Greetings
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... There are many people who point out that it is rare to hear basic words like "sorry" or "thank you" in Korean society....
Why is that? Seoul National University Sociology professor Han Sang-jin pointed out that the extremely low level of maturity of people's mindsets, which lacks consideration for others, is associated with a social culture in which people do not exchange greetings. Professor Han said that due to the "rushing modernization," referring to a mad dash to accomplish one's goals such as attaining social success, Korean society is seriously lacking in consideration of other people. |
A Society that Spares Greetings
by Yi-Young Cho and Soo-Jung Shin, Donga.com (January 7, 2005)
http://english.donga.com/srv/service.php3?biid=2005010857368 |
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wo buxihuan hanguoren

Joined: 18 Apr 2007 Location: Suyuskis
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 6:34 pm Post subject: |
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I don't know - does one ajumma out of six saying thanks to me when I buy booze from her store constitute friendly?
If so, then yes - I like booze. |
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RACETRAITOR
Joined: 24 Oct 2005 Location: Seoul, South Korea
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 7:31 pm Post subject: |
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It's probably different for everyone depending on their personality.
In Beijing, there were a lot of old women shoving wooden ducks in my face yelling "You buy this!" Also, the Chinese people my age that I met didn't seem interesting.
In Japan, they seem very formal and strict about obeying rules. I didn't feel comfortable cutting loose there.
In Korea, people are friendly and forward. Sometimes irritating, but I prefer it. |
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Dev
Joined: 18 Apr 2006
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 7:39 pm Post subject: |
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I'm never sure in Korea if the friendliness I do get is genuine or if the person being friendly just wants something from me. The ways Koreans act toward strangers in public places give me doubt.
I would tend to agree with the other posters in this thread on other points. |
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aphong420
Joined: 06 Feb 2007 Location: KOREAAAAAAH
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 8:00 pm Post subject: |
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This whole thread is offensive. If you want to know where racism stems - look no further than people that judge entire groups, rather than individuals.
Pathetic. |
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Doogie
Joined: 19 Jan 2006 Location: Hwaseong City
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 8:42 pm Post subject: |
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aphong420 wrote: |
This whole thread is offensive. If you want to know where racism stems - look no further than people that judge entire groups, rather than individuals.
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Get off your puritanical high horse. I don't know the OP personally, but I really don't think there was any "intentional" racism in his post. He was just asking about everybody's thoughts based on personal experience. Just because someone might have had some negative experiences in a particular country or with a group of people doesn't automatically mean that you hate them. Frankly, I find your post offensive. Do you think a bunch of children are reading this? Everyone's capable and responsible enough to make up their own minds. |
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laogaiguk

Joined: 06 Dec 2005 Location: somewhere in Korea
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 10:45 pm Post subject: |
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aphong420 wrote: |
This whole thread is offensive. If you want to know where racism stems - look no further than people that judge entire groups, rather than individuals.
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He's not asking for us to say as fact which is friendlier, he is just asking for our opinions. There is nothing wrong with that, even if you or I don't agree with the opinions. I do agree with many of the opinions though. |
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