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I accidentally accepted a bribe(?) from a uni. student.
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chaz47



Joined: 11 Sep 2003

PostPosted: Sat Jun 14, 2008 12:24 am    Post subject: I accidentally accepted a bribe(?) from a uni. student. Reply with quote

I had a student try to bribe me at the end of a class after the midterm test. I of course declined to accept the money. Weeks later she comes to the main office of the department with a box marked "towel, handkerchief, etc.". For those of you who have worked in public schools it looked like your basic, generic complimentary towel or some other perfunctory gift. I accepted it, thinking this is what it was, along with some pizza bread from wherever.

I went back to my office and chucked it into a drawer. Two weeks later I opened it and it had $100 in gift certificates and some socks along with a letter written in Korean. I got my girlfriend to read it and it's pretty much an apology for not being a better student and not being a "brown-noser" (Korean translation for it anyway).

I didn't modify her grade. She got a C+ which she deserved.

So now what? Am I going to get fired if someone finds out I unwittingly accepted cash? I really had no idea the box contained a bribe. In the letter she never asks me to change her grade. So is it really a bribe?
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SuperHero



Joined: 10 Dec 2003
Location: Superhero Hideout

PostPosted: Sat Jun 14, 2008 1:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Tell her the truth, you didn't look at it for sometime and only now found the cash gift and return everything. Also tell you supervisor in case she complains.
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Bibbitybop



Joined: 22 Feb 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Sat Jun 14, 2008 2:23 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Why would the student admit to bribing you?

If she is that stupid, just lie about what was in the box.
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Young FRANKenstein



Joined: 02 Oct 2006
Location: Castle Frankenstein (that's FRONKensteen)

PostPosted: Sat Jun 14, 2008 5:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You need to sincerely show your remorse for your immoral accepting of 촌지. Immolate yourself.
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ChinaBoy



Joined: 17 Feb 2007

PostPosted: Sat Jun 14, 2008 2:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I only wish someone would pay me to inflate their already imaginary grades
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skdragon



Joined: 28 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Sun Jun 15, 2008 7:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

ChinaBoy wrote:
I only wish someone would pay me to inflate their already imaginary grades

I've always wished that!
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HapKi



Joined: 10 Dec 2004
Location: TALL BUILDING-SEOUL

PostPosted: Sun Jun 15, 2008 9:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I only wish someone would pay me to inflate their already imaginary grades


Funny stuff!!

Ask your Korean counterparts what they do, and try and get an honest answer. In my experience, even in a student-led conversation class (where classroom speaking activity counts the most), the tests are what they hold dear. If they bomb these, in their opinion, give them extra homework, or some other activity to bump their grade.

Of course, if you have the freedom to fail them, then do it. But as I know, students will do anything at test time. It's up to you.
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yingwenlaoshi



Joined: 12 Feb 2007
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 15, 2008 9:18 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Tell her that you want cash. Not gift certificates.
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genezorm



Joined: 01 Jul 2007
Location: Mokpo

PostPosted: Sun Jun 15, 2008 3:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Tell her you want to discuss it with her in private, in a motel.
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pkang0202



Joined: 09 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Sun Jun 15, 2008 4:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

[quote="HapKi"]
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But as I know, students will do anything at test time. It's up to you.


[quote="genezorm"]
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Tell her you want to discuss it with her in private, in a motel.



Student gave you some towels, handerchiek, and a gift certificate? Obviously, the gift certificate was to be used to buy you and her dinner and pay for a love motel room for the night. The towel was to be used to dry yourselves after a shower, and the handerchief is a blindfold. And the box everything was put in. It is a metaphor for another type of box, if you know what I mean.

Can't you see it's so obvious?
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RedRob



Joined: 07 Jul 2003
Location: Narnia

PostPosted: Sun Jun 15, 2008 9:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Contact the student, tell her she actually failed the course, but thanks to the gift-she passed. Then tell her next semester, its 100k per 10% increase over a C+ grade.
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640x480



Joined: 02 Apr 2008

PostPosted: Mon Jun 16, 2008 4:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Bribery in Korea is common like the cold.

Some teachers make more money off parents slipping them envelopes then their salary.

I wouldn't accept anything more than food from my kids or parents.
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Quack Addict



Joined: 31 Mar 2008
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Mon Jun 16, 2008 9:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

genezorm wrote:
Tell her you want to discuss it with her in private, in a motel.


great...a bogey666 disciple.
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ds_fan



Joined: 07 Apr 2008

PostPosted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 7:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

what a nasty situation to find yourself in, hmm, id ask for her number and get you korean girl to phone her and explain what happened in perfect korean so it can all be cleared up.

however- uni student? fit? this take a whole new meaning to doing anything for good grades, while westerners would just say stuff it im gonna fail.

high schooler? where is she getting the money from?
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brento1138



Joined: 17 Nov 2004

PostPosted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 8:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Tell your supervisor about it. Try to return the money. If you can't return the money, tell everyone free coffee supply for the next month!
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