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bogey666
Joined: 17 Mar 2008
Location: Korea, the ass free zone
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canuckistan
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Joined: 17 Jun 2003
Location: Training future GS competitors.....
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| Seems like the current in your life these days is a certain amount of loathing. |
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Gopher
Joined: 04 Jun 2005
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| Posted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 12:17 am Post subject: |
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| bogey666 wrote: |
| the truth... |
Let me propose an alternative "truth," one that I highly recommend embracing.
If you care about a woman, even just a woman as a friend, never discuss her weight, except to compliment her on losing it, whether she has or not, especially if she seems like she is trying to or even if it just seems important to her.
This is probably something your father or someone similar should have told you years ago.
If you do not care about women and just want to antagonize them, however, continue as you are. |
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bogey666
Joined: 17 Mar 2008
Location: Korea, the ass free zone
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| Posted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 12:23 am Post subject: |
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| Gopher wrote: |
| bogey666 wrote: |
| the truth... |
Let me propose an alternative "truth," one that I highly recommend embracing.
If you care about a woman, even just a woman as a friend, never discuss her weight, except to compliment her on losing it, whether she has or not.
This is probably something your father or someone similar should have told you years ago.
If you do not care about women and just want to antagonize them, however, continue as you are. |
my mother tells me dad had an alternative method.
(and I come from an European household, where today's Oprah PC sensitivity bullshit was never and never will be accepted)
he'd never say anything, but would pinch her sides when she was putting on weight.
without saying anything.
she'd of course knew exactly what he was getting at.. and would get kind of pissed off, but could never really go after him since he never said anything 
that said, mom as a self described "vain person" , would nefer allow herself to get fat.. not for my father.. but for herself.
and mr. Stan, no loathing at all , just happened to run across this - honest.
thought it was funny, so I posted it. and it's helping me with my own weight loss programme  |
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Stormy
Joined: 10 Jan 2008
Location: Here & there
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| Posted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 12:53 am Post subject: |
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| You definitely have a theme going on here. Try posting something without women and/or weight being the subject & we won't recognise you! |
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NightSky
Joined: 19 Apr 2005
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| Posted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 1:08 am Post subject: |
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| bogey666 wrote: |
he'd never say anything, but would pinch her sides when she was putting on weight.
without saying anything.
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she should have tugged on his wank without saying anything...  |
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bogey666
Joined: 17 Mar 2008
Location: Korea, the ass free zone
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| Posted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 1:12 am Post subject: |
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| NightSky wrote: |
| bogey666 wrote: |
he'd never say anything, but would pinch her sides when she was putting on weight.
without saying anything.
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she should have tugged on his wank without saying anything... |
that would/could work but apparently she was satisfied with his wank?
if a woman did that to me I'd strap on a John Holmes sized extension or dildo and give her exactly what she wanted. (if she didn't have a figure like Roseanna Barr or Rosy O Donnell that is)
that's how devoted I am
very common "comback" from gals on the fat theme.. the small tool theme.
Clever. Except illogical. A guy is born with the tool he has. Fat on the other hand is acquired and can be taken off, unlike tool size (whether you'd want to upsize or downsize, you cannot). Same thing for hair with guys. Out of one's control. Getting fat on the other hand is not beyond one's control, in fact it's completely IN one's control and you get or don't get fat because of your own voluntary actions.
I'm innately fair. I would never hold against a woman the size and or shape of her breasts either.. (for e.g. the typical too small guy complaint?)
It's what nature gave her and I appreciate "nature"
Nature doesn't give anyone a huge belly and a fat ass. You give that to yourself.
btw.. as a sidenote, it's amazing how I've met a lot of women who will tell me there IS such a thing as "too big". (and no that's not a veiled reference to my own)
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Interested
Joined: 10 Feb 2003
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| bogey666 wrote: |
| btw.. as a sidenote, it's amazing how I've met a lot of women who will tell me there IS such a thing as "too big". (and no that's not a veiled reference to my own) |
They're just trying to console you. |
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bogey666
Joined: 17 Mar 2008
Location: Korea, the ass free zone
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| Posted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 1:23 am Post subject: |
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| Interested wrote: |
| bogey666 wrote: |
| btw.. as a sidenote, it's amazing how I've met a lot of women who will tell me there IS such a thing as "too big". (and no that's not a veiled reference to my own) |
They're just trying to console you. |
perhaps. Some are such good "consolers" maybe I should start "complaining about it" just to see if I can get more consolation.
but as I said, I can always strap on the John Holmes extensor and see how much they cry out in "pleasure".
the alternative is the Sam Kinison approach when faced with similar situation. Flip them over and go down the Hershey Highway and we'll see if they hold a similar size complaint  |
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ciccone_youth
Joined: 03 Mar 2008
Location: Japan
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| Posted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 3:53 am Post subject: |
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yea weight is definitely a very sensitive topic for most women.
and honestly if i gained some weight i'd prefer if someone told me to put me back on the right track. maybe it's just me, though. |
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bogey666
Joined: 17 Mar 2008
Location: Korea, the ass free zone
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| Posted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 4:26 am Post subject: |
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| ciccone_youth wrote: |
yea weight is definitely a very sensitive topic for most women.
and honestly if i gained some weight i'd prefer if someone told me to put me back on the right track. maybe it's just me, though. |
ditto and I've actually known a couple of young women who felt the same way. They immediately got BIG points for that attitude. Huge.
funny thing is when I'm told, it's never "news' to me. I know how my clothes fit when others don't. I know which "loose" pants have gotten tight. etc etc.
we ALL KNOW.
some people for whatever reason choose to deny it. For me, a comment will annoy me.. but not because it was uttered.. it will annoy me because I will know that others are now noticing something I'd known for quite some time but have done nothing about. So it's MYSELF that I then get annoyed at.
I remember coming back to Cuba to visit some friends and I had been back in the US for a while so I get gotten back to my chunky causing American lifestyle.. and first thing my buddy says - Bogey, tienes una cara de luna. Bogey you have a moonface.
Something I've always been sensitive to because I have genetically had a round face that I only got somewhat rid off quite late in life.
Was I angry at my friend? hell no - though the comment burned...
cubans are notoriously blunt. |
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ciccone_youth
Joined: 03 Mar 2008
Location: Japan
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yes i'm the same, i notice right away if i gain a bit of weight (clothes not fitting properly, and i go to the gym regularly so i keep track of my weight).
but i can see how a lot of people don't notice right away if they put on weight-- actually it happened to me a few years ago, back when i did not go to the gym, or weigh myself, or did not care too much about my clothes and general health. lesson learned though. |
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theholyinnocent
Joined: 06 Apr 2008
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Honestly, if some stranger stopped me on the street and asked what I weigh, I would probably be wrong, because I don't weigh myself anywhere NEAR as frequently as my weight naturally fluctuates. I actually almost never weigh myself at all. A lot of the women on that video seem to kind of guess at their weight, like the one who said, "130?" and turned out to be a SHOCKING! 137 instead. Dude, you can fluctuate that much just based on a meal and PMS water weight. I'm really short, so I think that I fluctuate maybe 4 pounds over the course of the month -- but I also fluctuate based on the time of year (heavier in the summer, damn it all to hell) a couple pounds as well. (I go by how my clothing fits, not by numbers, so I am just guessing on the pound amounts.) I'm really short, so I can easily imagine that taller people might naturally fluctuate a bit more than that.
I think any woman who knows her weight dead on, to the pound, is probably stranger than a woman who is off by a few pounds. Of course some of those women were off by more than a few pounds, but still. This whole, "Women lie!" thing is a bit of a generalization. Many women just don't know. |
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yoja
Joined: 30 May 2008
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This is news?
People lie about a lot of things, especially when numbers are involved--their age, how much money they make, their IQ, how many partners they've had, hair color, GPA, golf game, cosmetic surgery, and on and on. Why? Because people want to be seen favorably by others.
IMO, who cares if someone lies about their weight? Assuming you're not blind, you can see just how big (or small) and how fit (or not) a person is anyway. It's not like someone who weighs 220 pounds is going to be able to convince you that they only weigh 110. Kinda like those people who lie about being members of MENSA...they're not fooling anyone.
And on a separate but related note...
There is a difference between being offended because sometimes the truth hurts...and being offended when someone you care about is deliberately pointing out (their perception of) your personal shortcomings in an insensitive and inconsiderate manner.
It is possible to be both honest and tactful. Deliberately pissing someone off isn't going to make them any more likely to change in the way you think they should change anyway. |
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Enrico Palazzo
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I was reading on some forum where the women retorted that many men misled them about their height. People like to present themselves in certain ways. It is part of the hazard of dealing with the opposite sex.
Not everyone plays ball the way you want them, too. |
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