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madowlspeaks



Joined: 07 Dec 2006
Location: Somewhere in time and space

PostPosted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 11:17 am    Post subject: should I be upset?? Reply with quote

I just yelled at my boyfiend after discovering that he has been using
my very expensive perfume for air freshner after his bowel movements.

WTF!!

I yelled at him and he acted like I was the one over-reacting
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Bigfeet



Joined: 29 May 2008
Location: Grrrrr.....

PostPosted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 11:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Laughing Laughing Laughing
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Czarjorge



Joined: 01 May 2007
Location: I now have the same moustache, and it is glorious.

PostPosted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 11:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Did he know it was very expensive perfume? Did he know that you would prefer he not do that?

Us dudes are kind of like kids sometimes. We don't learn unless taught, and you can't assume it's a common sense thing. Maybe he didn't know it wasn't air freshener? Maybe he was just trying to be nice and not expose you to his poo gas.

Everyone should get AT LEAST one strike.

Now, if he does it again once he knows it upsets you, you can freely nail him to the wall.
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Ya-ta Boy



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: Established in 1994

PostPosted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 11:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Should you not be judging people by their intentions? Clearly he was trying to do the right thing.
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rusty1983



Joined: 30 Jan 2007

PostPosted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 12:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Funny, you'll be angry for a while but then you'll see the genius of it
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OiGirl



Joined: 23 Jan 2003
Location: Hoke-y-gun

PostPosted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 12:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Why do you keep your fancy perfume next to the toilet?
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Cheonmunka



Joined: 04 Jun 2004

PostPosted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 3:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Everyone's nose is different: I got some Calvin Kilne spray - I call it fly spray - it has that chemically smell. I bet your boyfriend couldn't care less about the perfume. He probably doesn't like it, and would rather use it for other purposes than you putting it all over your body.
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JMO



Joined: 18 Jul 2006
Location: Daegu

PostPosted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 4:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Any guy who claims not to know what expensive perfume looks like either doesn't have sisters, mom left home early, never lived with a girl or was abducted by wolves at a young age.

Tell him he can use it, as long as he replaces it. He will stop. He knows its expensive, he just doesn't care.
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Young FRANKenstein



Joined: 02 Oct 2006
Location: Castle Frankenstein (that's FRONKensteen)

PostPosted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 7:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Make him replace it. Once he knows how expensive it is, he'll stop using it.
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Motto



Joined: 05 Apr 2008

PostPosted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 7:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

or buy a cheap one to use instead.
or don't leave it in the W/C


another point is i've seen cheap ones designed for that purpose but in designer bottles. not super expensive but ..

was your perfume Kenzo flowers?

if it was, easy mistake to make as its quite a common toilet air freshner bottle. sells for 1,000 won.
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oskinny1



Joined: 10 Nov 2006
Location: Right behind you!

PostPosted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 8:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

JMO wrote:
Any guy who claims not to know what expensive perfume looks like either doesn't have sisters, mom left home early, never lived with a girl or was abducted by wolves at a young age.


Don't have sisters, Mom never touched the stuff. My girlfriends bathed regularly so there was no need to spray something on to cover up the funk.

To the op

Is there another form of anti-stink in the area for him to use? Would you have complained if he left it a stink?
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JMO



Joined: 18 Jul 2006
Location: Daegu

PostPosted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 8:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

oskinny1 wrote:


Don't have sisters, Mom never touched the stuff. My girlfriends bathed regularly so there was no need to spray something on to cover up the funk.

To the op

Is there another form of anti-stink in the area for him to use? Would you have complained if he left it a stink?



Your mom and your girlfriends are most definitely not the typical woman. Perfume is not used to cover up funk either. Do you aftershave in a place of a shower?
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ciccone_youth



Joined: 03 Mar 2008
Location: Japan

PostPosted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 9:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i'd be mad too.

that's why i never leave my perfume in the bathroom.
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rsmm0224



Joined: 06 Feb 2008
Location: Changwon

PostPosted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 9:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

JMO wrote:
oskinny1 wrote:


Don't have sisters, Mom never touched the stuff. My girlfriends bathed regularly so there was no need to spray something on to cover up the funk.

To the op

Is there another form of anti-stink in the area for him to use? Would you have complained if he left it a stink?



Your mom and your girlfriends are most definitely not the typical woman. Perfume is not used to cover up funk either. Do you aftershave in a place of a shower?


Every guy in the world has on at least one occasion used a little more cologne than normal after over sleeping. So, yes.
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globalgirlk



Joined: 18 Jun 2008
Location: Livingston, La

PostPosted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 9:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Get cheap bottle and put it in the can. It works better than aire freshener any way. Laughing
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