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Should I burn my bridges? Yes, No, What Should I Do
Turn the tables and give them notice, and demmand my diploma back
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Just wait it out and when I get a new job just leave, and hope they don't still 'need' me?
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Play their game
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nathanksimpson



Joined: 26 Feb 2008

PostPosted: Wed Jul 02, 2008 8:41 am    Post subject: Removed by Author Reply with quote

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Roch



Joined: 24 Apr 2003
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Wed Jul 02, 2008 8:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Report to the police at once the hogwon owner's refusal to return your Degree to you! After that, go to the labour office in your Gu and make a formal complaint.

Please give us an update after you've done these two steps!

Good luck!

Roch
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yingwenlaoshi



Joined: 12 Feb 2007
Location: ... location, location!

PostPosted: Wed Jul 02, 2008 8:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

"Give me my fucking diploma."
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icicle



Joined: 09 Feb 2007
Location: Gyeonggi do Korea

PostPosted: Wed Jul 02, 2008 2:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

How much is your diploma worth to you?

There are options which are available to cover the diploma requirement that would allow you to get a new job without it. If you look on the Korean immigration website you will see what they are.

Maybe tell them that you do not need the diploma to get a new job but if they don't give it back to you immediately you will not continue to work for them. (And be prepared to see it through if you do that ... And maybe losing the money you would lose by taking that option - is worth it to you to be away from the stress of working there .... ).

The truth is that a potential new employer can apply in country for verification of your degree so them holding it hostage does not actually have the impact your current employer and you think that it does.
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reimund



Joined: 01 Oct 2007

PostPosted: Wed Jul 02, 2008 3:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Isn't it possible to re-order the diploma from your university, anyway? Sucks that it might cost you some money, but I don't think this problem is that bad.
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Khyron



Joined: 27 Jan 2005
Location: Japan

PostPosted: Wed Jul 02, 2008 3:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

...and those criminal (this is exactly what many of them are!) hagwon owners wonder why so many people pull midnight runners...

Listen, they are trying to screw you out of your money and your freedom. On your next payday, just leave. Come to Japan and get work here. The the problems you're describing are way too common in Korea, but few and far between in Japan. There's a lot more peace of mind in the land of the rising sun than in the land of the morning calm.

It's not so calm, is it...?
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AussieGav



Joined: 02 Sep 2007
Location: Uijeongbu

PostPosted: Wed Jul 02, 2008 7:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Korean Labor dept may be interested and that will scare the shit out of the owner. good luck
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Roch



Joined: 24 Apr 2003
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Thu Jul 03, 2008 12:13 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Khyron wrote:
...and those criminal (this is exactly what many of them are!) hagwon owners wonder why so many people pull midnight runners...

Listen, they are trying to screw you out of your money and your freedom. On your next payday, just leave. Come to Japan and get work here. The the problems you're describing are way too common in Korea, but few and far between in Japan. There's a lot more peace of mind in the land of the rising sun than in the land of the morning calm.

It's not so calm, is it...?


The poster known as Archeologist 2 - David Theissen - states all the time that the actions of the employer of the O.P. are not to be judged until we walk a mile in the hogwon boss's shoes.

Please check out the forums on the Korea Times web site for more juicy quotes from this poster who's surely one of the biggest sleazebags to ever inhabit Korea.
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sojourner1



Joined: 17 Apr 2007
Location: Where meggi swim and 2 wheeled tractors go sput put chug alugg pug pug

PostPosted: Thu Jul 03, 2008 12:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I told the hagwon director that this diploma means a lot to me as I take pride in looking at it every day when I get off work since it require 5 years of intense study, $40,000 of student loan debt, and allowed me to travel halfway around the world to get such a great job teaching for your hagwon in Korea.

This worked right on the spot. She immediately got it out of her lock box, but showed non-verbal expressions that she didn't want to. She had to or I would had been lost at sea and she'd lost her investment and then some.

If this doesn't work for you, then you can threaten to quit, tell her she will lose money and possibly the whole business, and tell her it only costs $10 to get a new one from your university that allows you to get another job, but the original sure carries sentimental value and it would be heartless for you to just take that from me. If she still hesitates, tell her, "I would hate Korea and pass bad words on for the rest of my life if you do such a thing like that."

Hammer that corrupt lying hagwon director with kindness, but direct and concise assertiveness. That was my strategy last year and it worked. It was a hard business relationship, but I followed through and completed the contract.

Remember, she knows or cares nothing about teaching and is only about money and business and will take any short cuts to realize profit. She's an executive.
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