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Immigration forcing me to marry a Kgirl!
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IlIlNine



Joined: 15 Jun 2005
Location: Gunpo, Gyonggi, SoKo

PostPosted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 3:10 am    Post subject: Immigration forcing me to marry a Kgirl! Reply with quote

Well, not exactly, but...

the current system -- E2, D2/4, E7, etc.. it's great for people who first come to Korea. It's a bit restrictive, but overall, not too difficult to stay within the rules.

However, those like me who have been here for a good number of years, have networked all through all levels of Korean society, and, because of this now have all kinds of opportunities, what are my options? right now I'm on a D-2 with an S-3 addition. While it's nice that they've now permitted students to have part time jobs, I'd really like to do far more than I'm legally permitted.

What are my options? Only one! Get married to a Korean lady.

I find it amusing that in being very restrictive to foreigners coming in and living in Korea, the one avenue that is 'open' is diluting the Han race.

Don't get me wrong, marriage is too much of a hassle to go through if you don't actually love the gal you're with... and to get married for a visa is pretty silly... but it has sort of put the idea in my mind. Maybe it's time to start looking for my one true love! Shocked
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Scotticus



Joined: 18 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 5:14 am    Post subject: Re: Immigration forcing me to marry a Kgirl! Reply with quote

IlIlNine wrote:
It's a bit restrictive...


That's a bit of an understatement...
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Lekker



Joined: 09 Feb 2008
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 5:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you marry a Korean girl, she will have control of your money. Not something I want to be a part of.
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BigBuds



Joined: 15 Sep 2005
Location: Changwon

PostPosted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 5:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Lekker wrote:
If you marry a Korean girl, she will have control of your money. Not something I want to be a part of.


Only if you give her control of it. There's no law saying she has control over your money once you're married.
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bluelake



Joined: 01 Dec 2005

PostPosted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 5:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Lekker wrote:
If you marry a Korean girl, she will have control of your money. Not something I want to be a part of.


It depends. Personally, I have been married to one twenty-four years this month, and I have no problem with it. We lived in the States for five years after we got married and I pretty much took care of finances, although I taught my wife the ropes and she gradually took them over. When we moved back to Korea in '89, she took care of the finances completely, and I'm happy with it; it's one less headache for me and I have not been restricted at all by it--contrarily, I've been freed up. Still, it would depend upon the person you marry; your mileage may vary...
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Young FRANKenstein



Joined: 02 Oct 2006
Location: Castle Frankenstein (that's FRONKensteen)

PostPosted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 6:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Lekker wrote:
If you marry a Korean girl, she will have control of your money.

Only if you're pussywhipped and unable to say No.
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MissSeoul



Joined: 25 Oct 2006
Location: Somewhere in America

PostPosted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 6:18 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

bluelake wrote:
Lekker wrote:
If you marry a Korean girl, she will have control of your money. Not something I want to be a part of.


It depends. Personally, I have been married to one twenty-four years this month, and I have no problem with it. We lived in the States for five years after we got married and I pretty much took care of finances, although I taught my wife the ropes and she gradually took them over. When we moved back to Korea in '89, she took care of the finances completely, and I'm happy with it; it's one less headache for me and I have not been restricted at all by it--contrarily, I've been freed up. Still, it would depend upon the person you marry; your mileage may vary...



When I marry to my American husband he told me " Mine is mine and His is mine too " and he lets me control everything he already had and never looked back, not only that, he also put me as a sole beneficiary of his several life insurance policies and put my name on every properties as a JOWRS. I have handled every finicial situation and he always praised me how great money manager I was.
The result ? I now understand about Wall Street/Stock Index...etc better than 95 % of American, I am excellent money manager and I give all the credit to my late husband, he was truelly a great man.
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nobbyken



Joined: 07 Jun 2006
Location: Yongin ^^

PostPosted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 6:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

MissSeoul wrote:
....and I give all the credit to my late husband, he was truelly a great man.

That a boy, marry old men.
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Kikomom



Joined: 24 Jun 2008
Location: them thar hills--Penna, USA--Zippy is my kid, the teacher in ROK. You can call me Kiko

PostPosted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 6:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Diluting the race is one of the consequences of war, happens every time. Military, Missionaries, War Brides, Adoptees--hate to say it, slaves even.

Blame Stalin. (ok, that was a troll remark, I admit it)

Blame the War Economy.
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tigerbluekitty



Joined: 19 Apr 2007

PostPosted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 7:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Maybe the Korean government wants white guys to marry more Korean women so that Korea will have more connections and support from the world.


Not only that, but the Korean wives will get half of the money upon divorce right?
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bassexpander



Joined: 13 Sep 2007
Location: Someplace you'd rather be.

PostPosted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 7:15 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you want to marry someone just because of a visa, then you are really stupid.

You can have a lot more fun and earn a lot of money as a young single person in Korea. You don't have to marry to do that.

I have known quite a few married individuals in Korea who really miss being single. Not speaking of myself.
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Bigfeet



Joined: 29 May 2008
Location: Grrrrr.....

PostPosted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 8:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm sure they do that on purpose. They want you there teaching for a few years but they don't really want you to put roots down.
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Kikomom



Joined: 24 Jun 2008
Location: them thar hills--Penna, USA--Zippy is my kid, the teacher in ROK. You can call me Kiko

PostPosted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 11:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ya know JEB Bush (chimpy's brother and former Gov. of Florida) married a Latino (Columba) when he was student teaching in Mexico--back in the 70's?

So there's your example (for fine upstanding conservatives) to follow?

C'mon guys, follow your hearts every once in a while.** But plan for a lifetime.



**famous last words from MotherKiko who could wind up with daughter-in-law on her hands. Shocked

For that I expect nature to take it's course, as I will hardly have much influence from this distance. That part is done.
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Eedoryeong



Joined: 10 Dec 2007
Location: Jeju

PostPosted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 12:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I know the OP is just being polemical, with a slight tint of selfish, and yet I don't want to dampen the spirit of entertaining hypothetical questions..

.. but if you truly are thinking of ruining someone's life for a few years of what - a second job? - then I do truly hope the Korean government can make Dave hand over your id and monitor the computers you're writing from so they can id you and blacklist you from *ever* getting a marriage visa.

I furthermore hope that your post is picked up by Koreans and translated into Korean on every Korean dating website there is.

Why is it that some of us think green card marriages are stupid but simultaneously think this is brilliant?

OP Pinkerton have you read your story?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Madama_Butterfly
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lastat06513



Joined: 18 Mar 2003
Location: Sensus amo Caesar , etiamnunc victus amo uni plebian

PostPosted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 2:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Why do you have to interpret the system like that?

Are you that desperate to stay in Korea that you are going to lock yourself in a marriage so you can stay in the country?


I am sorry.....this sounds pathetic!


One of my friends did it for the exact same reason......

.....I hope you guys know that adultry is a prosecutable crime in Korea where the guilty party can be imprisoned for what to 2 years if the spouse decides to report it to the police.......and it doesn't have to be the spouse to make a report, it can be anyone who knows the person is married..........

Marriage is all good if you love the person, but to do it to get an ARC, it sounds abit foolish and cowardly..........

I would have more respect for a person who would either come and work on a tourist visa or use fake documents to get a job..........at least more than those fucking squeamish pricks who go get married to get an F2 or an F5.........at least the prior person has more balls....
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