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princess
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: soul of Asia
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Posted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 4:37 pm Post subject: Feeling the need to rant...sorry |
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I just saw a Korean girl in a pic with some people in London on her cyworld page, and she called "them" "foreigners". Sorry, but she was the foreigner (a Korean in London).....Why oh why do Koreans go abroad and refer to the people there as foriegners, when clearly it is the Korean who is the foreigner. I hate to break it to Koreans, but oh my "gasp, they are foreigners when they step outside of Korea. I just think they like the way waegookin or foreigner sounds, so they say it as much as they can. |
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Bibbitybop

Joined: 22 Feb 2006 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 4:45 pm Post subject: |
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Well, they are still foreign to her.
And Korea is the number 1 country in the world, so everyone is "foreign" and substandard due the pure Joseon blood of Koreans. And Korea has 4 seasons, unlike other countries that have only 2 or 3. |
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Vancouver
Joined: 12 Dec 2006
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Posted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 4:48 pm Post subject: |
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did she use the word "foreigner" in English or Korean? Cause in korean, there's no word for "non korean person" other than waegookin. |
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ED209
Joined: 17 Oct 2006
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Posted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 5:05 pm Post subject: |
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Brits will often refer to food they have had on holiday as 'foreign muck'. Still glad to see you are still so easily riled and obsessed by people more interesting than you. Hardly the worst thing a Korean has done abroad. |
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Bibbitybop

Joined: 22 Feb 2006 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 5:06 pm Post subject: |
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ED209 wrote: |
Brits will often refer to food they have had on holiday as 'foreign muck'. Still glad to see you are still so easily riled and obsessed by people more interesting than you. Hardly the worst thing a Korean has done abroad. |
British people complain about other countries' food?? |
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Young FRANKenstein

Joined: 02 Oct 2006 Location: Castle Frankenstein (that's FRONKensteen)
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Posted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 5:17 pm Post subject: |
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Vancouver wrote: |
did she use the word "foreigner" in English or Korean? Cause in korean, there's no word for "non korean person" other than waegookin. |
You mean she can't use 영국사람? |
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regicide
Joined: 01 Sep 2006 Location: United States
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Posted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 5:23 pm Post subject: |
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ED209 wrote: |
Brits will often refer to food they have had on holiday as 'foreign muck'. Still glad to see you are still so easily riled and obsessed by people more interesting than you. Hardly the worst thing a Korean has done abroad. |
I don't agree. This kind of attitude is the basis for racism.
Recently, when I told an adult student of mine that I went to a local baseball game and cheered for "my" team she couldn't believe that I would do that. "What do you mean" , I said when she questioned that I had a favorite team or cheered for a certain team.
She said " you can't have a favorite team, you are American!"
Slightly taken aback I said " well, I am certainly not Korean but I am a (my city) saram, and I have lived in this city for several years.
At that point I was getting a little irritated and shared with here that no matter how long we live in her country , we never feel welcome. And you just gave a good example why.
I believe the locals have a distorted notion about sports due to the World Cup which is between countries. I can remember growing up and playing a team 7 miles away from my school's town. To me , it is about where you live or even who you feel like cheering for, not a nationality issue, including Expatriates.
I also discussed with her about the term "foreigner" and said while I think it is ok for her to us waygugin in her language , that there are several alternatives depending on the situation when using English. ( she works for a US company here in Korea)
"that is pretty complicated" she said.
"I see, better stick to foreigner then." |
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jackson7
Joined: 01 Aug 2006 Location: Kim Jong Il's Future Fireball
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Posted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 5:25 pm Post subject: |
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I always spend one of my business English lectures on this topic, although it sometimes bleeds into the next day or two if the students need more clarification or have many questions. Businessmen (and women) who are intent on being successful realize they need to be courteous and respectful to their outside business partners/clients/customers.
I advocate using "westerners" if one is sure that the people in question are from Europe, North America, etc. (Western culture, not necessarily geographically Western...so NZ, SA, and Oz are in there too).
When meeting with someone from outside Korea, I tell them to politely ascertain from which country the person comes, so that they can use the proper term when referring to them. "You're the first German I've had the pleasure of meeting, Mr. Beerstein," rather than, "You're the first foreigner I've..."
I make sure they understand that in general, foreigner is a term that we use to mean outsider, and it sometimes carries an unwelcome tone. "I went to the party at Dan's last night, but I really felt like a foreigner there, so I left early." (perhaps they know this and want us to feel unwelcome?)
I know there it is difficult to translate 외국인 to English, but in business, impressions can lead to sales and profits, so it's important to find ways around the language to make customers and clients comfortable. I'm not going to change a cultural habit, I know, but I feel good at the end of the lectures when I see bright-eyed business people with note pads full looking forward to their next client meeting. |
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samd
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Posted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 5:38 pm Post subject: |
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Foreigners who get annoyed by this are just ignorant.
Waegukin does not mean foreigner in the same way we use the word. It's not offensive or insulting, it is just used to describe a non-Korean.
It doesn't matter if she's in Korea or in the UK, it's still the word that comes to mind when she wants to describe someone who isn't Korean.
The fact that you get so annoyed about this, OP, says more about you than it does about the Korean girl. |
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jkelly80

Joined: 13 Jun 2007 Location: you boys like mexico?
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Posted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 6:06 pm Post subject: |
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samd wrote: |
Foreigners who get annoyed by this are just ignorant.
Waegukin does not mean foreigner in the same way we use the word. It's not offensive or insulting, it is just used to describe a non-Korean.
It doesn't matter if she's in Korea or in the UK, it's still the word that comes to mind when she wants to describe someone who isn't Korean.
The fact that you get so annoyed about this, OP, says more about you than it does about the Korean girl. |
It's annoying b/c the language reflects the thought, and no one has come up with another word for it. Korea is the center of the universe to Koreans, and it's aggravating. If you want to tie this aggravation to ignorance, that's your prerogative as an apologist. |
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PigeonFart
Joined: 27 Apr 2006
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Posted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 6:43 pm Post subject: |
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well said 'jkelly80.' |
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branchsnapper
Joined: 21 Feb 2008
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Posted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 7:08 pm Post subject: |
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It isn't about the lack, or otherwise, of words. If the photo was of me in Korea and I said "Here is me with a bunch of foreigners" I would sound like an ignorant twit who thought that the world was most importantly divided into British/non-British. Indeed, I would be one. I should say "Here is me with some Koreans/locals".
As Frankie said, "British people" would do very well, in Korean. |
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Adventurer

Joined: 28 Jan 2006
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Posted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 7:12 pm Post subject: Re: Feeling the need to rant...sorry |
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princess wrote: |
I just saw a Korean girl in a pic with some people in London on her cyworld page, and she called "them" "foreigners". Sorry, but she was the foreigner (a Korean in London).....Why oh why do Koreans go abroad and refer to the people there as foriegners, when clearly it is the Korean who is the foreigner. I hate to break it to Koreans, but oh my "gasp, they are foreigners when they step outside of Korea. I just think they like the way waegookin or foreigner sounds, so they say it as much as they can. |
I hate to break it to you, princess, but other nationalities do that, not just Koreans. For immigrants to the US or Canada, the dominant group is foreign to them, and they use the vocabulary they are used to. In relation to their group, the others are foreigners. If you knew more about immigrants, then you would understand this situation. It's nothing worth venting over. You can't expect immigrants to be like Londoners and talk like them in the first generation or as visitors. It is expecting too much, maybe. |
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cheeseface
Joined: 13 Jan 2008 Location: Ssyangnyeon Shi
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Posted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 7:14 pm Post subject: |
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If any of the kid/adults I teach call me waegookin they get taken to the huge map of the world in my school and I show them how much of the world is actually waegookin, they usually look quite sheepish after that!!!!  |
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Hobophobic

Joined: 16 Aug 2004 Location: Sinjeong negorie mokdong oh ga ri samgyup sal fighting
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Posted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 8:10 pm Post subject: |
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....terrible...worse than a picture of a unicorn that smiles menacingly as it impales a dolphin jumping through a rainbow to save a naive kitten from falling into a giant bowl of cream....no doubt....
...I like cheeseface's idea. |
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