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happy one
Joined: 05 Apr 2008
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Posted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 9:08 pm Post subject: help me win a fight with my bf!! |
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My beloved Korean boyfriend (who i'm planning to marry) showed his true colors last night... i told him i need to get a fan since summer is well and truely here, and he replied "ok, let's get one at the weekend...but make sure you open the doors and windows, because the fan might kill you." Completely straight faced, not a smidge of sarcasm, he actually meant it. After managing to contain my laughter i asked him how a fan can kill me. Apparently your body gets so cold, just like if you spent the night outside on a cold mountain! He had no explanation how the air conditioning hasn't killed us yet, but apparently the doctors in the news told him these scientific facts and just last week 4 people died of fan death! After an hour of arguing back and forth, he fell asleep, while i lay awake contemplating how this type of logic would effect our relationship in the future.
Could someone please send me a link explaining how stupid his fan death argument is~ the more the merrier! I want to hit him with good hard Western evidence when he gets home tonight! thanks! |
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Bibbitybop

Joined: 22 Feb 2006 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 9:10 pm Post subject: |
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The article on wikipedia about it should suffice. The Marmot's Hole had a blog entry and link about it last week. |
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happy one
Joined: 05 Apr 2008
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Posted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 9:19 pm Post subject: |
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Excellent! Thank you! |
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newteacher

Joined: 31 May 2007
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Posted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 9:21 pm Post subject: |
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You must be new. |
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Faunaki
Joined: 15 Jun 2007
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Posted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 9:21 pm Post subject: |
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This is easy. Don't argue about. My Khusband insists on the same thing. There is no changing their minds. Just open the window a little and it will suffice. Problem solved. |
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Underwaterbob

Joined: 08 Jan 2005 Location: In Cognito
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Posted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 9:26 pm Post subject: |
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Wait until he falls asleep then close all the windows and turn on the fans. When you wake up alive maybe he'll change his mind.
If you don't wake up, well... |
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happy one
Joined: 05 Apr 2008
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Posted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 9:28 pm Post subject: |
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I'm not new, just surprised because he's normally so logical.
Faunaki, how did it go meeting the parents? Have they accepted you? |
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victorology
Joined: 10 Sep 2007
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Posted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 9:35 pm Post subject: |
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I would also let it go. Is it really worth finding things to fight about in a relationship? |
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spliff

Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Location: Khon Kaen, Thailand
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Posted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 9:39 pm Post subject: |
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I don't understand why anybody would run a fan w/ the windows closed. |
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Gaber

Joined: 23 Apr 2006
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Posted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 9:45 pm Post subject: |
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I used to because my crappy first year apartment had holes in the mosquito netting. My land lady walked passed one night and heard my fan on. She freaked out and called my school. My manager seemed a little embarresed when I pressed her on the reasons for not sleeping with the fan on etc. She just ended up saying "we just don't do that in korea". Ended up getting my mosquito net fixed at least. |
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happy one
Joined: 05 Apr 2008
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Posted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 9:48 pm Post subject: |
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It's not a huge fight or anything, we were only mucking around. I don't see any harm in looking at both sides of the subject |
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orosee

Joined: 07 Mar 2008 Location: Hannam-dong, Seoul
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Posted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 9:58 pm Post subject: |
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Gaber wrote: |
I used to because my crappy first year apartment had holes in the mosquito netting. My land lady walked passed one night and heard my fan on. She freaked out and called my school. My manager seemed a little embarresed when I pressed her on the reasons for not sleeping with the fan on etc. She just ended up saying "we just don't do that in korea". Ended up getting my mosquito net fixed at least. |
If your landlady can hear your fan running from outside of your apartment then you either need to:
- buy a new and better (silent) fan,
- buy a thicker apartment door,
- get glass panes for your window, or
- lay off the sleeping pills, tranquilisers, booze etc. followed by advice #1
Seriously I have a $35 fan and I have to be under 30cm away from it to hear it run. But this is great leverage to get things fixed in your apartment: threat of suicide by fan!
ANother serious question: Has anybody ever tried to debunk the myth by self experiment (and lived to tell about it)? And I mean a semi-scientific study, e.g. several runs under controlled conditions. I would do it myself but then I am agnostic, not an atheist  |
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orosee

Joined: 07 Mar 2008 Location: Hannam-dong, Seoul
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Posted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 10:03 pm Post subject: |
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happy one wrote: |
It's not a huge fight or anything, we were only mucking around. I don't see any harm in looking at both sides of the subject |
I have had similar arguments with my Thai fiancee on the topics of the monarchy (the King is a living God) and the religion (mostly monk-related jokes). There is no way any of this could have a happy ending. It means a penny to me but a mountain of gold to her. Well she means a mountain of gold to me, so I've learnt to lay off these two issues.
I would see fan death as part of the Korean folklore/culture/religion stack. Keep it in mind for future arguments, a great way to get what you want by pressure through attempted suicide (beats pills and wrist cuts!).
Anyway, just joking. COngratulations and good luck for the future! |
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Otherside
Joined: 06 Sep 2007
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Posted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 10:05 pm Post subject: |
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Underwaterbob wrote: |
Wait until he falls asleep then close all the windows and turn on the fans. When you wake up alive maybe he'll change his mind.
If you don't wake up, well... |
Wouldn't work, to him it would be like you played russian roullette and just got lucky...you can only dodge fan death for so long... |
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KOREAN_MAN
Joined: 01 Oct 2006
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Posted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 10:06 pm Post subject: |
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Tell your boyfriend that you're blood type O and fan death only affects people with blood types A and B. Tell him that you read it in a Korean newspaper. Problem solved. |
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