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taobenli



Joined: 26 Apr 2004

PostPosted: Fri Aug 15, 2008 9:18 pm    Post subject: why make something easy so hard? Reply with quote

I'm a bit annoyed at a national homestay organization that I have been e-mailing back and forth yet for about a month. I will be staying in a smaller city for a month beginning next weekend and decided that a homestay will be cheaper and also less isolating than staying in a hotel or the university guesthouse. (Before anyone tells me to NEVER EVER do a homestay, I should make it clear that I already have done a homestay for 3 months, and while I wouldn't want to do one for that long again, it was overall a positive experience and I can handle another month in a family's house).

I haven't made the payment for my month-long homestay yet and have been intending to go in on a Saturday morning when the office is open, as I can't make it out during the week. The office is very far away from my suburban residence and I couldn't make it out today either. They gave me a link to make the payment online, but my card was not accepted by the system. (I've never had a problem with it elsewhere in Korea). So I e-mailed them and they said to wire them the money. But I don't have a Korean bank account and this seems like even more of a pain- plus I feel like wiring the money is even less secure than paying by debit card.

What annoys me even more is that the payment link they gave me was through paypal, even though I don't have a paypal account. If I paid this way (if my card wasn't rejected) then I would have been hit with a $26 paypal fee (on top of the $30 placement fee they charge). PLUS, when I went to check my account, Paypal had already taken out $1 US, even though the transaction wasn't completed. WTF?

I just want to have my card charged and be done with this. Why does this have to be so hard?
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taobenli



Joined: 26 Apr 2004

PostPosted: Sat Aug 16, 2008 8:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Bump....

I do realize my post was rather convoluted- but I really am curious. Why should it be so hard to use a debit/check card with this homestay place when I've had no problems anywhere else in the U.S. and Korea? And if they're going to make me do a wire transfer, how can I do this considering that my bank is in the U.S.? Can I just do a transfer online with my online banking?
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Ruraljuror



Joined: 08 Dec 2007

PostPosted: Sat Aug 16, 2008 9:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I feel stupid bumping this, but is there a word that means the direct opposite of "incredibly fascinating"? Cuz this post is like a perfect example of that word. Whatever that word is.
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taobenli



Joined: 26 Apr 2004

PostPosted: Sat Aug 16, 2008 10:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Oh, come on. I said I REALIZE that it is not an interesting post. But it is a legitimate question. As this board is for people looking for information on living in Korea, not all posts can be incredibly fascinating.

I suppose I could change the title to "I beat up an adjumma on the subway today" or "Why are K-chicks' elbows so yucky?" but that would be deceptive.
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seoulteacher



Joined: 18 Nov 2005
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Sat Aug 16, 2008 10:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ruraljuror wrote:
I feel stupid bumping this, but is there a word that means the direct opposite of "incredibly fascinating"? Cuz this post is like a perfect example of that word. Whatever that word is.


I'll give the OP the benefit of the doubt, and assume that he truly is annoyed, and as much as he says he is.

And I'm not trying to belittle this thread, but what I'd like to ask is that the moderators consider putting out an advice that subject lines should be to the point & non ambiguous, even if posters are attempting humour.

Does the particular issue that concerns the OP merit such a tantalizing and too-general subject line as 'why make something easy so hard?'?

Wouldn't something simple like 'They wouldn't take my debit card!' have been clearer? (But I suppose I wouldn't then have opened this thread, and I wouldn't be writing this, and neither would you have read this far...)
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toki



Joined: 06 Feb 2006

PostPosted: Sat Aug 16, 2008 10:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ruraljuror wrote:
I feel stupid bumping this, but is there a word that means the direct opposite of "incredibly fascinating"? Cuz this post is like a perfect example of that word. Whatever that word is.


LOL. I didn't actually get through your entire post Ben, but this reply had me laughing. Homestays are for the truly fearless at heart, good luck with that.
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wylies99



Joined: 13 May 2006
Location: I'm one cool cat!

PostPosted: Sun Aug 17, 2008 12:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Maybe no one can answer your question, OP, because no one else has done a "home stay."
I wouldn't do it, but whatever "floats your boat."

Can you tell everyone how it works?
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taobenli



Joined: 26 Apr 2004

PostPosted: Sun Aug 17, 2008 5:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Okay, but my question is not about the homestay. I'll break it down:

1) Why do you think this national organization wouldn't take my card, when it has worked fine for me everywhere else? Does this seem strange to anyone?

2) How can I send a wire transfer via Western Union if I don't have a Korean bank account?

3) If I opt to send a wire transfer, then I shouldn't still be charged for a "paypal fee," correct? Extra fees like a paypal fee really annoy me (and I know a fair number of people who have been victims of paypal scams).

I'm not an English teacher, I have done a homestay before, and believe me, it works for my situation. I am concerned about these financial logistics, though, as they seem unnecessarily complex.

And by the way, I'm a she.
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moosehead



Joined: 05 May 2007

PostPosted: Sun Aug 17, 2008 5:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

hey OP - why aren't you asking these questions to the people who are telling you to wire the money?

and yes, it's correct, there isn't much discussion on here about homestays
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tomwaits



Joined: 05 Feb 2003
Location: PC Bong

PostPosted: Sun Aug 17, 2008 6:39 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Wiring money is easy and safe (and cheap) Just use the bank they tell you.

I agree with you on homestay----good exp but wouldn't do it again for too long.
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