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Real Reality
Joined: 10 Jan 2003 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Fri Dec 05, 2003 9:58 am Post subject: Denounce the school and teachers |
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Grim discovery by teacher
Boy lived with dead mother for months
A 15-year-old boy who had been missing from school for months was found living alone with the body of his dead mother in a vacant house. Since the boy was absent from school for months, his teachers attempted to visit him, but reportedly had a hard time locating his home as the address listed in the school's records was wrong. The boy and his mother reportedly had moved frequently. Last month, when teachers finally located him, the boy lied to them, saying that his mother had left home, the teachers said. After finding the boy, the teachers have helped him in various ways, giving him food and other items.
Some observers, apparently shocked by the case, yesterday denounced the school and teachers, saying that they had been negligent toward the boy.
http://joongangdaily.joins.com/200312/06/200312060053024909900090409041.html
What about the neighbors, relatives, and friends? |
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Hank Scorpio

Joined: 18 Jan 2003 Location: Ann Arbor, MI
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Posted: Fri Dec 05, 2003 10:10 am Post subject: Re: Denounce the school and teachers |
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Real Reality wrote: |
What about the neighbors, relatives, and friends? |
No doubt. Months? I've got to imagine that the smell alone would hit you like a ton of bricks. |
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Real Reality
Joined: 10 Jan 2003 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Fri Dec 05, 2003 12:39 pm Post subject: |
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Home visits are to be made regularly, but only if the parents are agreeable in order to maintain learning experience for the special needs child.
http://www.fort-frances.com/jobs/index.php/254
Koreans are very close to each other. Strangers call other strangers, and are called by strangers, as close relatives in the street and train stations. When I ask information on the departure schedule from the train master, I call him Ajossi, uncle. An Ajossi is supposed to refer to one�s father�s brother, but it is most used in reference to a man older than I am. Ajumoni, is supposed to refer to one�s fathers sister. Any woman older than I am I call an Ajumoni.
http://times.hankooki.com/lpage/opinion/200211/kt2002112118240811320.htm
Calgary man found dead in home after 3 months
http://www.ctv.ca/servlet/ArticleNews/story/CTVNews/1037417639408_10/?hub=Canada
Tim found home visits to have a positive impact on parent participation. For example, after visiting all 19 of his first-graders' homes during the first few weeks of school last year, he reports that every child in his classroom had a parent or guardian show up at the school Open House.
The article notes that many schools have people specifically hired to make contact with families (such as social workers). It is noted, however, that visits from family liaisons do not replace those from principals and teachers. Instead, the schools that are most likely to benefit from such workers are also the schools that would most likely benefit from the extra outreach of faculty.
http://npin.org/pnews/1997/pnewd97/pnewd97h.html |
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batman

Joined: 24 Jan 2003 Location: Oh so close to where I want to be
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Posted: Fri Dec 05, 2003 2:55 pm Post subject: |
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re: "Koreans are very close to each other. "
Thanks for the morning laugh.
Truly, I enjoyed that one.
Back to the topic at hand though, there was a story in the Star a while ago about a woman who was dead for 8 years yet her relatives only recently noticed her missing.
"Police found the elderly pensioner's remains after a Mississauga relative called them Friday to check on Vasil.
The woman hadn't seen Vasil since 1995."
Couldn't imagine this scenerio. |
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khyber
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: Compunction Junction
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Posted: Sun Dec 07, 2003 7:14 pm Post subject: |
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The teacher made the discovery Thursday while visiting the home to repair a boiler. |
WTF is a teacher doing repairing a boiler in a student's house?
Sadly, when you're a teacher, and undue and overpronounced burden is placed on you. Moreso, legally, than a neighbour or friend.
That said, it's obvious that teachers made an effort to find and help the boy.
It's a sad story:
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"I wanted to let my mom stay with me forever," the boy reportedly told police. |
too bad a 15yr old said this.
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Koreans are very close to each other. Strangers call other strangers |
which Korea are YOU living in? Stranger call strangers to move cars. Otherwise it seems that strangers are, virtually castigated.
The fact that the woman was dead for so long is (strangely) not uncommon anymore. What is strange is that the 15yr old boy HID her from everyone
also, that was a poorly written article. Also, :roll: the author is making a BIG leap in logic: "we call each other aunt, uncle etc.... we must be close".
By the way Koreans (i'll specify ajoshis for now) look at each other, i wouldn't really call them close.
My friend's mother only recently has been in contact with her family, 15+ yrs after leaving them. She was abused and mistreated b/c her family thought she was ugly. She went to a few new year and chusok parties but the family just made fun of her. She was the "whanta" of her family.
HER FAMILY MAN!!! They abused her b/c she was ugly (no more than 80% of other ajumas i see on the street).
If families can be that disparate, why not strangers? |
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