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da_moler
Joined: 11 Nov 2006
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 Posted: Mon Sep 22, 2008 12:27 pm Post subject: Korean women and infidelity |
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Some may remember that sometime last year I started a thread here on Dave's regarding a dilemma I was having over whether to embark on an affair with a married colleague of mine.
What I'm now wondering is how common (if at all) is female adultery in Korea? While my colleague seemed very keen on me, I was never sure whether she actually would have gone through with it.
I suppose this is the kind of thing that's very hard to know about, but what does everyone think? |
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Butterfly
Joined: 02 Mar 2003
Location: Kuwait
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| Posted: Mon Sep 22, 2008 2:08 pm Post subject: Re: Korean women and infidelity |
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| da_moler wrote: |
Some may remember that sometime last year I started a thread here on Dave's regarding a dilemma I was having over whether to embark on an affair with a married colleague of mine.
What I'm now wondering is how common (if at all) is female adultery in Korea? While my colleague seemed very keen on me, I was never sure whether she actually would have gone through with it.
I suppose this is the kind of thing that's very hard to know about, but what does everyone think? |
They are no different from anyone else; they like sex. She'd have gone through with it if you'd have gone about it the right way. |
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bassexpander
Joined: 13 Sep 2007
Location: Someplace you'd rather be.
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| Posted: Mon Sep 22, 2008 3:21 pm Post subject: |
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Selfish. Unimpressive.
There are thousands of unmarried women you could chase after. |
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Newbie
Joined: 07 Feb 2003
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| Posted: Mon Sep 22, 2008 3:53 pm Post subject: |
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They're just women.
Lots cheat; lots don't. |
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IncognitoHFX
Joined: 06 May 2007
Location: Yeongtong, Suwon
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| Posted: Mon Sep 22, 2008 4:16 pm Post subject: |
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| Just because she's married doesn't mean she already has a sex life. Since this is a Korean marriage we're talking about, it's possible that she hasn't "had any" in the past five years. |
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samd
Joined: 03 Jan 2007
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| Posted: Mon Sep 22, 2008 6:01 pm Post subject: |
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| IncognitoHFX wrote: |
2. The opinions on Dave's are not credible or objective most of the time,
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IncognitoHFX
Joined: 06 May 2007
Location: Yeongtong, Suwon
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| Posted: Mon Sep 22, 2008 6:36 pm Post subject: |
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| samd wrote: |
| IncognitoHFX wrote: |
2. The opinions on Dave's are not credible or objective most of the time,
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I say lots of stuff. |
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R-Seoul
Joined: 23 Aug 2006
Location: your place
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| Posted: Mon Sep 22, 2008 6:43 pm Post subject: |
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| In my experience I would say casual sex and infidelity is much more common here, K-women are that much quicker to jump in the sack with you than the women back home... |
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poet13
Joined: 22 Jan 2006
Location: Just over there....throwing lemons.
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| Posted: Mon Sep 22, 2008 9:32 pm Post subject: |
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There's a reason why there are almost as many love motels as there are hakwons here....
Thank Aristuppus for loose women. |
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jkelly80
Joined: 13 Jun 2007
Location: you boys like mexico?
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| Posted: Mon Sep 22, 2008 10:18 pm Post subject: |
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| I would think if you're well educated yet still forced to marry by your parents because of a medieval paternalistic social schema you're not going to feel too constrained about getting some on the side. |
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steroidmaximus
Joined: 27 Jan 2003
Location: GangWon-Do
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| Posted: Tue Sep 23, 2008 1:13 am Post subject: |
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While I'd generally agree with this:
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They're just women.
Lots cheat; lots don't. |
It does make you wonder when you see the sheer number of love motels all over the place. |
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jajdude
Joined: 18 Jan 2003
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| Posted: Tue Sep 23, 2008 1:58 am Post subject: |
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| I'd suppose a lot of 'love motel' use is not just for adulterers, but I suspect adultery is very common. |
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bogey666
Joined: 17 Mar 2008
Location: Korea, the ass free zone
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| Posted: Tue Sep 23, 2008 2:31 am Post subject: |
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| I'd suppose a lot of 'love motel' use is not just for adulterers, but I suspect adultery is very common. |
the comments on "love hotels" are based on travel/global ignorance.
Their existence doesn't necessarily mean higher amounts of screwing.
What it does mean... (and in many other places outside of Korea )
is that there is a shortage of private housing, especially for younger people... so hence the demand for "love hotels". How many non Americans or non Canadians have their own appts/homes in their twenties? even thirties in some places?
they are UBIQUITOUS in Latin America.
The fact they're super convenient for people of all ages for screwing around on the side is icing on the cake. |
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endo
Joined: 14 Mar 2004
Location: Seoul...my home
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| Posted: Tue Sep 23, 2008 2:37 am Post subject: |
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I think the OP's down with OPP (yeah you know me!)  |
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pcs0325
Joined: 21 Sep 2007
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| Posted: Tue Sep 23, 2008 2:39 am Post subject: Re: Korean women and infidelity |
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| da_moler wrote: |
Some may remember that sometime last year I started a thread here on Dave's regarding a dilemma I was having over whether to embark on an affair with a married colleague of mine.
What I'm now wondering is how common (if at all) is female adultery in Korea? While my colleague seemed very keen on me, I was never sure whether she actually would have gone through with it.
I suppose this is the kind of thing that's very hard to know about, but what does everyone think? |
Basically you're in the same boat as you were before. Since you didn't get it on with her, you know nothing more than you did before. Try it out and see how it goes. |
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