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rocketdolphin



Joined: 28 Oct 2007

PostPosted: Fri Nov 07, 2008 10:13 pm    Post subject: Another interracial question Reply with quote

Koreans showed a lot of support for Obama, so does that also translate into families being more open if their son or daughter wants to date a Black person? Assuming of course that they're cool with their offspring dating non-Koreans.
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sarbonn



Joined: 14 Oct 2008
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 07, 2008 10:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm not sure I'd make that assumption. I believe the Koreans still have a long way to go when it comes to combating racism.
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rocketdolphin



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PostPosted: Fri Nov 07, 2008 10:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It would just seem, in my opinion, that it would change mindsets in a little way.
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esetters21



Joined: 30 Apr 2006
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 07, 2008 10:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Koreans for the most part aren't cool with the whole non-Korean dating a Korean thing. There are exceptions of course, but I don't think they are anywhere near ready to be more accepting just because of Obama's influence.

Hell, my CTs didn't even know that he is from a mixed marriage. They thought he was from Kenya. Shocked


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Bread



Joined: 09 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Fri Nov 07, 2008 10:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

esetters21 wrote:
Koreans for the most part aren't cool with the whole non-Korean dating a Korean thing. There are exceptions of course, but I don't think they are anywhere near ready to be more excepting just because of Obama's influence.

Hell, my CTs didn't even know that he is from a mixed marriage. They thought he was from Kenya. Shocked


Hell, at least they know Kenya exists. I had all my coworkers in the US telling me he was an Arab.
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in_seoul_2003



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PostPosted: Fri Nov 07, 2008 10:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

rocketdolphin wrote:
It would just seem, in my opinion, that it would change mindsets in a little way.


Well, I'm sure quite a few Koreans could acknowledge the admirable qualities of Martin Luther King but his long 'presence' as an inspiring figure hasn't done much so why would Obama?

Also, Afro-America hip-hop artists have been popular here for some time, but has that translated into a greater acceptability of interracial dating?

Alternatively, one can't help but ask why many Koreans supported Obama. From some recent newspaper articles I've seen there seems to be some implicit, sometimes explict, hope that the electing of Obama is merely one step closer to the possibility of a Korean-American president and this they find particularly titilating
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red_devil



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PostPosted: Sat Nov 08, 2008 12:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Koreans just want to love the USA again, not just our clothes and food.
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RACETRAITOR



Joined: 24 Oct 2005
Location: Seoul, South Korea

PostPosted: Sat Nov 08, 2008 2:58 am    Post subject: Re: Another interracial question Reply with quote

rocketdolphin wrote:
Koreans showed a lot of support for Obama, so does that also translate into families being more open if their son or daughter wants to date a Black person? Assuming of course that they're cool with their offspring dating non-Koreans.


Rich, successful, powerful black person, yes.
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PRagic



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PostPosted: Sat Nov 08, 2008 3:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Harvard law grad, law professor, politician...yeah, he'd probably do. Anyone with those qualifications would. Prejudice is funny that way.
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bangbayed



Joined: 01 Dec 2005
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PostPosted: Sat Nov 08, 2008 3:52 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Not sure if you guys have noticed, but this isn't a multi-ethnic society. The US is and there's still racism. I think it's more accurate to compare Korea to other mono-ethnic societies rather than America in regards to racism. Not excusing it, but you have to admit the definitions and expecations of the society are pretty different.
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Otherside



Joined: 06 Sep 2007

PostPosted: Sat Nov 08, 2008 4:57 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

PRagic wrote:
Harvard law grad, law professor, politician, President of the United States...yeah, he'd probably do. Anyone with those qualifications would. Prejudice is funny that way.


I fixed it to make it even better Wink

Back on topic, I think Obama will change the world's perspective of 'black guys' (forgetting that he's half white). Currently, most of Korea's exposure to African Americans has been via hip hop and the like, and let's be honest, would YOU want YOUR daughter dating 50cent?

I'd wager any Korean family open to the idea of their daughter dating a non-korean, would look at the person in question. If he presented himself like Obama I doubt there'd be few problems, if he came across as the kind of guy whose 'gonna bust a cap on yo ass' (like a lot of the Military guys do...with the Hip Hop look) different story.
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