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greedy_bones

Joined: 01 Jul 2007 Location: not quite sure anymore
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Posted: Sat Feb 07, 2009 1:36 am Post subject: Any suggestions for soon to be homeless Teacher? |
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This is a long story, but bear with me.
I have been teaching in Korea for just under three years. My first year was ok, but I didn't save much money because I wasn't making that much, took a trip to Thailand, flew to New York for a wedding, had to replace everything I owned when my aparment was robbed, and finally overslept on the day of my return flight. My second year, I saved a bit, but also spent a bit on travel, a laptop, etc... My third year, I didn't save anything, because I changed jobs twice, and lost a lot of money sending money back home to pay for student loans.
During my third year, I worked for an ok school that payed moderately well and was tolerable, but quit after six months because I hated the highly structured curriculum and wanted to actually teach rather than go through a prepared lesson plan that I thought was worthless. Everything went well with my leaving, and I was paid in full. I found a new job that was supposed to start a month after I left my previous job.
Everything sounded pretty good about the school except for the pay which was a little lower than what I was looking for. I agreed to take the job because the hours were very low and there would be opportunities to make extra money with privates and extra work through the school.
I had some extra money, so I decided to take a vacation/visa run to the Philippines. While I was in the Philippines, my visa number took a week longer than it was supposed to, so I had to change my flights and remain for another week in order to get my visa. I was told that I would be reimbursed for this by my recruiter.(I know I'm and idiot, and shouldn't have trusted anything a recruiter told me, but I had previously used a very decent recruiter who told me the truth about everything and actually helped me out at work.) The trip ended up costing me more than I had originally anticipated, and I ended up having a lot less money than I thought I would.
I arrived in Korea and moved into my new place. I wasn't given my schedule until day 1. I looked at the schedule, which I was told would be from 3-7:30 and have about 90 hours per month, and noticed that I was teaching from 2-9 most days, and 12:30-9 on one day. I was to teach 38 classes a week. I brought this up to the director, we argued for a bit and he adjusted it to make it a little better, and he promised I would teach fewer classes the next month. I hesitatingly agreed and remained there but browsed through job ads while teaching. Towards the end of last month, I saw some great ads, and was informed of another job in March at a school that a friend of mine worked at. I saw my schedule for February which had me teaching more hours, and tendered my resignation, giving a little over the required 30 days notice.
The director was pissed, and I agreed to have the recruiters fee deducted from my last paycheck. I don't agree with this, but my passport is still at immigration, and I didn't want to deal with any huge hassle with immigration and have a smooth transition to my new school. I figured, if I am a little bit accommodating, my boss would be more likely to not screw me over. Last week, everything was going fine, I found a new job that will pay a high salary, but won't pay for airfare or housing, other than the key money, and starts in March. My plan was to be very frugal this month, take the lower pay next month, stay in a cheap hotel for the first month at the new place, and move into a nice apartment after the first paycheck in April.
Thursday, I was paid, minus a huge recruiter fee. So, I had half a paycheck. Yesterday, my boss calls me into his office after my last class and tells me not to come into work on monday, because he found a new teacher who will start on monday.
So, now I have a little over a million won to last me until April, have to pay for housing, and a Fukuoka trip. Any suggestions? |
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madoka

Joined: 27 Mar 2008
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Posted: Sat Feb 07, 2009 1:46 am Post subject: |
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I'm assuming that you can't rely on credit cards, friends or family to bail you out for a couple of months?
Have you looked into a hostel in your area? |
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Xuanzang

Joined: 10 Apr 2007 Location: Sadang
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Posted: Sat Feb 07, 2009 1:49 am Post subject: |
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Couchsurf and bum off the charity of your friends? |
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greedy_bones

Joined: 01 Jul 2007 Location: not quite sure anymore
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Posted: Sat Feb 07, 2009 1:59 am Post subject: |
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In retrospect, I should have remembered that logic and honesty is not the best policy when dealing with Korean employers. I should have just said, "My mother is really sick." |
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D.D.
Joined: 29 May 2008
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Posted: Sat Feb 07, 2009 2:20 am Post subject: |
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Learn to take a job and stick to it for at least a year. You screwed yourself with all this changing. Why not teach in a public school. |
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Xuanzang

Joined: 10 Apr 2007 Location: Sadang
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Posted: Sat Feb 07, 2009 2:21 am Post subject: |
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I think he wants more money than public wages will offer. |
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greedy_bones

Joined: 01 Jul 2007 Location: not quite sure anymore
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Posted: Sat Feb 07, 2009 2:32 am Post subject: |
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D.D. wrote: |
Learn to take a job and stick to it for at least a year. You screwed yourself with all this changing. Why not teach in a public school. |
I did that for two years. My third year, I wanted to work at a job I really liked, or at least one that both paid well and had decent working conditions. I realize, I should have stayed at the job that I quit after 6 months, but at that time, I just wanted to actually teach. There is no reason I should have stayed at my current/soon to be former job. They lied to me from the get go. I have to use my stove to heat water for a "shower" because they won't fix my boiler and my boss is the landlord, so I can't ask the landlord. I also don't want to spend another 11 months working my ass off for peanuts.
I would do a public school, but I would like to make a decent salary, have small classes, not gamble with my location, and not gamble with coteachers. |
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madoka

Joined: 27 Mar 2008
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Posted: Sat Feb 07, 2009 9:55 am Post subject: |
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greedy_bones wrote: |
In retrospect, I should have remembered that logic and honesty is not the best policy when dealing with Korean employers. I should have just said, "My mother is really sick." |
Rather than blame someone else, how about realizing that YOU chose to blow your money traveling. YOU chose not to save any money or live within your means. Then YOU chose to leave your job while you were still vulnerable to this type of situation. You've just lost any sympathy I had for you.
I used to have to deal with a bunch of welfare clients with the same irresponsible attitude. Nothing was ever their fault and they could not see the connection between their actions and the crappy situation they found themselves in. |
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cruisemonkey

Joined: 04 Jul 2005 Location: Hopefully, the same place as my luggage.
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Posted: Sat Feb 07, 2009 11:17 am Post subject: |
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Being greedy AND a pushover is not a good combination.  |
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darkhorse118
Joined: 12 Jan 2009
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Posted: Sat Feb 07, 2009 12:51 pm Post subject: Re: Any suggestions for soon to be homeless Teacher? |
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greedy_bones wrote: |
So, now I have a little over a million won to last me until April, have to pay for housing, and a Fukuoka trip. Any suggestions? |
You're about to become a homeless and you're worrying about Fukuoka trip (whatever that is)?
Seriously, what's the matter with you? Haven't you learned your lesson yet? |
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asams

Joined: 17 Nov 2008
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Posted: Sat Feb 07, 2009 12:57 pm Post subject: |
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the fukuoka trip is for his visa run - he's actually worrying about the right thing
it's not a vacation. OP, you may be able to talk a new school into paying for that trip since they'll get out cheaper by sending you to Japan instead of bringing someone all the way from the US |
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Ya-ta Boy
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: Established in 1994
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Posted: Sat Feb 07, 2009 1:10 pm Post subject: |
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Call your parents and ask them to bail you out. In the meantime, move to the cheapest goshiwon you can find. While waiting for the new job to start, do two things: a) sit down and make a budget so you can start saving money; b) look up the meaning of 'instant gratification' and ponder the implications.
Everyone should use this story as a good reminder: Keep an emergency fund on hand so you don't end up in this kind of situation. It's more important than a feel-good trip to Thailand. W5,000,000 should be adequate to either pay for food and housing for a couple of months or a flight home. |
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Draz

Joined: 27 Jun 2007 Location: Land of Morning Clam
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Posted: Sat Feb 07, 2009 2:48 pm Post subject: Re: Any suggestions for soon to be homeless Teacher? |
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greedy_bones wrote: |
So, now I have a little over a million won to last me until April, have to pay for housing, and a Fukuoka trip. Any suggestions? |
Beginning of April or the end of April?
I hope you have either one very tolerant friend or many many friends who will tolerate you for a little while. That will save on housing.
I'd forget flying to Fukuoka, flights are insane right now. (Around 700,000 won. Ouch!) I'm trying to find info on the ferry (for my own trip) but everything I've found so far is several years out of date, or in Korean. I think that if you go with a friend you get a cheaper rate! Got your visa number yet?  |
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kaosjin
Joined: 06 Sep 2007
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Posted: Sat Feb 07, 2009 3:13 pm Post subject: |
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You are in this position after three years here. I suggest you stop whining and go home. |
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Scamps

Joined: 01 Feb 2008
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Posted: Sat Feb 07, 2009 3:20 pm Post subject: |
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I think you'd better find a roommate or go to the couchsurfing website to find people willing to let you stay at their place for free or maybe a small charge.
I'd take the ferry to Fukuoka.
You've got to live frugally. Do you need any tips on how to do that?
I can help you... |
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