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Would you let your mother work here?
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fence sitter



Joined: 17 Aug 2006

PostPosted: Mon Jan 26, 2009 4:01 pm    Post subject: Would you let your mother work here? Reply with quote

If you're still on the fence about whether or not Korea is a decent place, or sucks monkey balls, ask yourself this question:

Would you recommend to your mother that she teach over here? My mother actually asked if it would be worth it, since jobs in the U.S. seem quite unstable these days. My first response was "Of course, you could make tons of money with your experience!" (which includes several years of school administration). However, the more I thought about it, the more I realized she would hate the teaching experience (not perhaps Korea itself, mind you, but the whole "teaching in Korea" experience). Here's why:

First of all, she's a good person. I mean, a real, actual, sincerely nice person. Korea is NOT a place for nice people. Koreans are, in my opinion, hard, rude people. I don't care what their excuse is, that's just the way they come off, generally speaking. And those nutty taxi drivers would give her a heart attack.

Second, even with her experience, the buzzards would still try to rip her off. I've recruited for schools here before, and seen resumes from dozens of perfectly qualified older ladies and gentlemen. They were generally turned down because the boss didn't think he or she would be able to "manage" them.

Third, can you imagine bringing Mom over here, only for the school to provide her with some crappy, roach motel apartment?

Bottom line: Korea rocks for kids just out of college hoping to pay off some debt, and guys looking to get hitched and make a run of it over the long haul. For any other human being, I think it would be more of a depressing nightmare than an adventure.
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michaelambling



Joined: 31 Dec 2008
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PostPosted: Mon Jan 26, 2009 5:10 pm    Post subject: Re: Would you let your mother work here? Reply with quote

fence sitter wrote:
If you're still on the fence about whether or not Korea is a decent place, or sucks monkey balls, ask yourself this question:

Would you recommend to your mother that she teach over here? My mother actually asked if it would be worth it, since jobs in the U.S. seem quite unstable these days. My first response was "Of course, you could make tons of money with your experience!" (which includes several years of school administration). However, the more I thought about it, the more I realized she would hate the teaching experience (not perhaps Korea itself, mind you, but the whole "teaching in Korea" experience). Here's why:

First of all, she's a good person. I mean, a real, actual, sincerely nice person. Korea is NOT a place for nice people. Koreans are, in my opinion, hard, rude people. I don't care what their excuse is, that's just the way they come off, generally speaking. And those nutty taxi drivers would give her a heart attack.

Second, even with her experience, the buzzards would still try to rip her off. I've recruited for schools here before, and seen resumes from dozens of perfectly qualified older ladies and gentlemen. They were generally turned down because the boss didn't think he or she would be able to "manage" them.

Third, can you imagine bringing Mom over here, only for the school to provide her with some crappy, roach motel apartment?

Bottom line: Korea rocks for kids just out of college hoping to pay off some debt, and guys looking to get hitched and make a run of it over the long haul. For any other human being, I think it would be more of a depressing nightmare than an adventure.


From what I've been told, heard, and read here and elsewhere, Korea doesn't seem like a great place for women. It seems that young men, graduates looking to pay student loans, and couples enjoy the country the most, while single women seem to have the most problems.

I could be completely wrong, but that's the impression I get.
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sineface



Joined: 27 Feb 2006
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PostPosted: Mon Jan 26, 2009 5:34 pm    Post subject: Re: Would you let your mother work here? Reply with quote

fence sitter wrote:


Would you recommend to your mother that she teach over here?


Absolutely not
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Kimchieluver



Joined: 02 Mar 2005

PostPosted: Mon Jan 26, 2009 5:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hell no!
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Evanzinho



Joined: 10 Apr 2008
Location: California

PostPosted: Mon Jan 26, 2009 5:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Of course not. I love my mother.

Now, my worst enemy...nah, even he doesn't deserve this! Twisted Evil
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Xuanzang



Joined: 10 Apr 2007
Location: Sadang

PostPosted: Mon Jan 26, 2009 6:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

No, because it`s Russian Roulette and I want my mother to be happy. Not posting on here.
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I_Am_The_Kiwi



Joined: 10 Jun 2008

PostPosted: Mon Jan 26, 2009 6:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I wouldn't recommend my mother does 80% of the shit I do or the places I go.
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Yu_Bum_suk



Joined: 25 Dec 2004

PostPosted: Mon Jan 26, 2009 9:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Kimchieluver wrote:
Hell no!


Ditto. Actually, in some ways I can see how if my mother had to design a school from ground up, mine is quite similar to what she'd come up with (she said my student's uniforms looked 'really nice'), but all the same, I can't see her figuring broader Korean culture out in any way.
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Jane



Joined: 01 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Mon Jan 26, 2009 10:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

No way!!! My mom is a teacher back home, and she bitches to me on the phone about her crappy and unruly students and how 'they aren't what they used to be'! She also goes on about how terrific some of her students are.
If she were teaching in Korea, she'd have the same complaints and then a million more...not getting paid...no pension payments...no med. insurance...no respect...
I would never put my mom in this position. Never.
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wylies99



Joined: 13 May 2006
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 27, 2009 12:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

No.
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Ya-ta Boy



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: Established in 1994

PostPosted: Tue Jan 27, 2009 1:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I guess I'll have to break the string of all-too-predictable responses and say 'Yes'. When my mom was young, she liked to party and have adventures. I could see her having fun here. On the other hand, my dad would have fit in here at Dave's.
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Draz



Joined: 27 Jun 2007
Location: Land of Morning Clam

PostPosted: Tue Jan 27, 2009 2:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Lord no. I wouldn't even want my sister to come here.

Well... actually maybe I would. My sister, not my mom. It might be a shitty experience, but it's still an experience. She could stand to get out a little. Smile
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schwa



Joined: 18 Jan 2003
Location: Yap

PostPosted: Tue Jan 27, 2009 2:38 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

My adult kids approved my coming here.

I have no regrets.
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lisac1983



Joined: 14 Dec 2008
Location: sydney, australia

PostPosted: Tue Jan 27, 2009 2:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Oh wow, I feel I am in for a rude shock. I lived in Korea in 2004 as an exchange student and loved, loved, loved the place!! It seems, however, that nearly everyone on here tags the experience of teaching in the country as horrible. I don't want to end up despising the place like so many of you Shocked
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Faunaki



Joined: 15 Jun 2007

PostPosted: Tue Jan 27, 2009 3:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yah, it'd be ok for my mom to work here if I could get her a ton of privates. I would not want her to work in a K public school ever.

My sis is coming with her husband next year but that's more for the adventure and travel than the actual job.
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