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juane414
Joined: 20 Jan 2009
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Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2009 7:25 pm Post subject: Why did I come here? |
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So, I realized that my Hogwan is basically disregarding my contract. Why Korea is the only modernized country that doesn't view contracts as legally binding documents is beyond me... At any rate, I was up for hours last night reading about the various dirty tactics that Hogwans use against their English teacher employees, and how they can screw you a thousand ways to Sunday, I started to wish that I had found some of that information five months ago. I'm starting to think that it was a really bad decision to come here. It seems like I'm just going to get screwed, and anything I try and do well just get me in deeper.
Is it really as bad as I think? Can anyone offer me some good new or some encouragement? Between horrible exchange rates, impending war with N. Korea, and abuse from my boss, I feel like there is no reason to stay here. |
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cruisemonkey

Joined: 04 Jul 2005 Location: Hopefully, the same place as my luggage.
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Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2009 7:34 pm Post subject: |
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Cheer up! It's not all bad - there's cheap booze and cigarettes.  |
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PRagic

Joined: 24 Feb 2006
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Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2009 7:38 pm Post subject: |
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Relax. You could just be over reacting. A lot of times, people new to the country think that Owner Kim is plotting against them at every turn. In reality, the things that are an afront to many westerners don't even pop up on the radar in the Korean phyche.
Are you getting paid on time? If yes, then count yourself fortuntate.
Are you being asked to work several additional contact hours, but not getting paid overtime? Then we're talking about something that is NOT a cultural miscommunication. However, if it makes you feel any better, they're not screwing you over because you're a foreinger, they're screwing you over simply because you work for them!
The long and short of it is that unless you provide specific information, there is no way of knowing whether or not you have legitimate gripe, or whether you're making a mountain out of a molehill. |
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juane414
Joined: 20 Jan 2009
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Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2009 7:44 pm Post subject: |
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Well, so far I know that I am being asked to work more hours. I will know on Monday if I will be paid overtime. I'm assuming that I will.
I'm not overly paranoid, I just have an appreciation for law and politics. I find it absurdly shocking that this country functions the way it does! Even the legal system itself seems flaky! |
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nene

Joined: 11 Jun 2005 Location: Samcheok, Gangwon-do
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Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2009 7:45 pm Post subject: |
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PRagic wrote: |
Relax. You could just be over reacting. A lot of times, people new to the country think that Owner Kim is plotting against them at every turn. In reality, the things that are an afront to many westerners don't even pop up on the radar in the Korean phyche. |
Second that. And watch out for what you bring to the relationship. When you bring an attitude of suspicion, you likely manifest mistrust. At the same time, if you feel like you are being taken advantage of - being asked to work extra, not getting paid on time or the full benefits in your contract - be firm and let the owner know that you won't be messed around with. |
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juane414
Joined: 20 Jan 2009
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Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2009 7:56 pm Post subject: |
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Great advice guys. This makes me feel a little more comfortable. |
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losing_touch

Joined: 26 Jun 2008 Location: Ulsan - I think!
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Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2009 7:56 pm Post subject: |
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Seriously, you need to take a chill pill. I would suggest Xanex. You aren't in Kansas anymore. You cannot superimpose your values on everyone around you. You cannot assume the entire world works like things do back home. Koreans are not western. The line of thought here isn't quite as linear as it would be at home. The collectivist nature of things reveals itself time and time again. This is true in Korea, China, Thailand and all of Asia. If you can't adjust, then maybe you should take a long look in the mirror. Why can thousands of other English teachers in Korea do it? Why can't you? If you have some problems, just sort them out ...... |
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saw6436
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: Daejeon, ROK
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Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2009 8:00 pm Post subject: |
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don't over worry. I've been here 10 years and worked for alot of hagwons. Never been cheated or had problems with any of them. Dave's is full of negativity because people tend to post only the bad things in life. There are plenty of bad hagwons out there but there are also plenty of good ones.
Once you understand Korean history and ulture you will understand theit attitude concerning "law and order". Doesn't make it any better but at least you will understand it. |
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nene

Joined: 11 Jun 2005 Location: Samcheok, Gangwon-do
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Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2009 8:03 pm Post subject: |
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Yeah, things are different here. I think LT is being unnecessarily harsh, but it is a real adjustment for most of us to be able to operate in this culture. Personally, I think that adjustment is really good for you. Be forewarned though, it's tough. |
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losing_touch

Joined: 26 Jun 2008 Location: Ulsan - I think!
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Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2009 8:32 pm Post subject: |
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nene wrote: |
Yeah, things are different here. I think LT is being unnecessarily harsh, but it is a real adjustment for most of us to be able to operate in this culture. Personally, I think that adjustment is really good for you. Be forewarned though, it's tough. |
It isn't all that difficult to adjust. Maybe I am jaded from having been in Asia for such a long time. I didn't mean to come across as harsh. If it did, I apologize. It's just that people seem to get all twisted for nothing. |
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dmbfan

Joined: 09 Mar 2006
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Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2009 8:34 pm Post subject: |
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Seriously, you need to take a chill pill. I would suggest Xanex. You aren't in Kansas anymore. You cannot superimpose your values on everyone around you. You cannot assume the entire world works like things do back home. Koreans are not western. The line of thought here isn't quite as linear as it would be at home. The collectivist nature of things reveals itself time and time again. This is true in Korea, China, Thailand and all of Asia. If you can't adjust, then maybe you should take a long look in the mirror. Why can thousands of other English teachers in Korea do it? Why can't you? If you have some problems, just sort them out ...... |
Ya know, your response to the OP is rather unhelpful. The OP did not make assumptions and I'm sure the OP realized she/he is not in Kansas anymore.
Suggesting the OP to look in the mirror? What for? As if some hidden, deep truth will be exposed as to why Korea has a horrible rep in the ESL industry?
The OP did not suggest that she/he CAN'T do it. You are making assumptions....nothing more.
Lay off the OP. And, if you can't post anything a little more constructive, then perhaps YOU should look in the mirror.
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losing_touch

Joined: 26 Jun 2008 Location: Ulsan - I think!
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Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2009 8:41 pm Post subject: |
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dmbfan wrote: |
Ya know, your response to the OP is rather unhelpful. The OP did not make assumptions and I'm sure the OP realized she/he is not in Kansas anymore.
Suggesting the OP to look in the mirror? What for? As if some hidden, revealing truth will be exposed as to why Korea has a horrible rep in the ESL industry?
The OP did not suggest that she/he CAN'T do it. You are making assumptions....nothing more.
Lay off the OP. And, if you can't post anything a little more constructive, then perhaps YOU should look in the mirror.
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Please read what I just posted. I suggest a long look in the mirror because there are countless teachers here who endure the same hardships. They just learn to roll with it. Dave's is fine for venting, but this is craziness. The fact of the matter is that life in Korea is not the same as it is in KANSAS. Contracts are not the same. Why would one take such things at face value? |
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cruisemonkey

Joined: 04 Jul 2005 Location: Hopefully, the same place as my luggage.
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Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2009 8:44 pm Post subject: |
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juane414 wrote: |
Even the legal system itself seems flaky! |
It only seems "flaky" to someone who is used to a system based on British statute and common law - to the Ks it's perfectly logical. The concept of 'fault' doesn't enter into legal matters... if your actions cause damage, you pay!  |
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waseige1

Joined: 09 Oct 2008
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Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2009 9:55 pm Post subject: Immigrants... |
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juane414 wrote: |
Well, so far I know that I am being asked to work more hours. I will know on Monday if I will be paid overtime. I'm assuming that I will.
I'm not overly paranoid, I just have an appreciation for law and politics. I find it absurdly shocking that this country functions the way it does! Even the legal system itself seems flaky! |
Yes we are much more righteous in the USA. We would never take advantage of someone who could not speak the language. We would never take advantage of someone who had little legal recourse. We would never threaten someone with deportation or their families welfare.
Oh wait... There is that whole thing we do with (and to) the Latins.
Never mind. |
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plynx

Joined: 03 Jun 2008
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Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2009 10:41 pm Post subject: Re: Immigrants... |
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waseige1 wrote: |
Yes we are much more righteous in the USA. We would never take advantage of someone who could not speak the language. We would never take advantage of someone who had little legal recourse. We would never threaten someone with deportation or their families welfare.
Oh wait... There is that whole thing we do with (and to) the Latins.
Never mind. |
who in the world are "the Latins"?  |
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