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Gay , flower man thing not limited to Korea

 
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Caro wack



Joined: 13 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Tue Mar 31, 2009 3:44 pm    Post subject: Gay , flower man thing not limited to Korea Reply with quote

Although it thrives here. See Adam...

http://www.usatoday.com/life/music/news/2009-03-16-idol-meter-usethisone_N.htm
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Goku



Joined: 10 Dec 2008

PostPosted: Tue Mar 31, 2009 4:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Feminine looking guys score higher in terms of what younger females prefer in men appearance.

There's like this commonality according to when women mestrate, what their values are, and age that all help build up their preference in looks of men...

Here is what I've read and the general consesus of disscussion based on what I've talked about with girls... Keep in mind, this is only a very broad generalization and there are sure to be a lot of exceptions.

Younger girls prefer more femine looking men. As pointed why you stroke a metaphor of Adam and Flower Boys. Cross culturally pretty boys are well known phenomeon to teenage girls... ie. boy bands... etc.

Women in their 20's and late 20's is the age group that usually prefer the masucline men.

And above 30, value system changes and looks matters less and less (for most women) it becomes a fire sale where they'll take any scruffbag with lots of money OR they will choose the best man depending on their long term goals and how good of a father they will be.

It's mostly hormonal and the needs of the woman in question.
Young girls are looking for an ideal man that will treat them well, not harm them and be their prince charming. There is a bad boy element they like, but most girls at that age prefer someone who isn't going to harm or abuse them. The older they get they prefer more masculine boys. Boys that can protect them, are a little badder and are more interesting and share more in common with them. And then above 30 looks matters less, and it's really about can the man in question be a good father and support them?

Also it's found that women who are mensturating prefer partners who are masculine. But if they are not mensturating, generally they prefer men with more "feminine" features.

The idea is that men with femine features are better caretakers and provide better looking offspring. While masucline men are better protectors that have stronger children.

There are scientific studies to support that mensturating women prefer more masucline men. And I've read articles on the corelation of looks to primal instict... all theory though.
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harlowethrombey



Joined: 17 Mar 2009
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Tue Mar 31, 2009 4:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have nothing against pretty boys. Besides sometimes being amused at the purses, or hair that clearly took hours to mold into an anime flyaway look, I cant say they bother me.

If throwing some eyeliner on helps you score, go for it.

Hey, whatever works, right? Smile
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Guri Guy



Joined: 07 Sep 2003
Location: Bamboo Island

PostPosted: Tue Mar 31, 2009 9:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Goku's take on it is pretty accurate I think.

Funny article here on the subject.

http://www.t-nation.com/free_online_article/sex_news_sports_funny_grok/what_women_find_attractive
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bogey666



Joined: 17 Mar 2008
Location: Korea, the ass free zone

PostPosted: Tue Mar 31, 2009 10:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

yup. Goku's take is fairly spot on.
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