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poet13



Joined: 22 Jan 2006
Location: Just over there....throwing lemons.

PostPosted: Thu Apr 02, 2009 12:18 am    Post subject: Sometimes ya just wanna do a violence.... Reply with quote

The original title was, "3 strikes and knock you the feck out".

The setting...

I walk into a high school class and to see the coteacher changing the students seating arrangements.
They originally were organized with people of each level at each table to facilitate spontaneous co-teaching, inclusive group work and to avoid clique problems.
We had 4 and 5 to a table made for 4. Now we have 7 at one table, 3 and 4 at two others, 5 at one more, and one table has 1 person.
He has two boys and a girl standing in front of him. Their English level is really low.

So the conversation goes something like this.

Me: "Hey XXX. What's going on?"
Him: "I'm changing the seats....but only a few."
Me: "Oh?"
Him: "Well, some of the kids wanted to sit in different seats."
Me: "I thought we here settled on a seating plan? We're continuing last weeks dialogue writing exercise and changing the groups might make it difficult for them."
Him: "Well, the other students don't want to sit with the retarded kids." (They're standing in front of him and I know at least one knows what he said.)
Me: "So the inmates run the hospital now?"
Him: "Well, they're pretty stupid and they just drag the others down." (This is where the original title came from.)
Me: "Ok, well, I hope they don't embarass your smart kids."
Him: "Naw, they won't. (He's serious) They're not going anywhere in life anywhere. They'll just be farmers and workers so English isn't important for them." (Soooo?) Shocked

Wow. Just wow.
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Yu_Bum_suk



Joined: 25 Dec 2004

PostPosted: Thu Apr 02, 2009 12:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If your CT can actually speak English that well at least it's a start. I guess that's one advantage of not having your own English zone classroom. I always arrive before my CTs (the ones that come) so them doing something stupid before I get there isn't an issue.
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thegadfly



Joined: 01 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Thu Apr 02, 2009 11:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

As Sam Kinison said, "While I don't condone violence, I know what turns Mr. Hand into Mr. Fist!"

Good on you for not swinging, but I wouldn't have blamed ya a bit if ya had....
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poet13



Joined: 22 Jan 2006
Location: Just over there....throwing lemons.

PostPosted: Thu Apr 02, 2009 3:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Naw, I would never hit a person for that....but having the feeling is different.
Some people should never be let in a classroom....regardless of their level of English.
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oldfatfarang



Joined: 19 May 2005
Location: On the road to somewhere.

PostPosted: Thu Apr 02, 2009 4:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Violence isn't the answer Never is. But drinking - yes, excessive drinking - and coming to work completely hungover - now that always fixes a classroom's little frustrations - or so it seems for my 'nightmare' male co-teacher.
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Luciddreamer



Joined: 31 Mar 2009

PostPosted: Thu Apr 02, 2009 6:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

What happens if you punish by hitting a student in a public school? Fired?
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oldfatfarang



Joined: 19 May 2005
Location: On the road to somewhere.

PostPosted: Thu Apr 02, 2009 7:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Luciddreamer wrote:
What happens if you punish by hitting a student in a public school? Fired?


Why would you want to hit (or punish, for that matter), a little kid?
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creeper1



Joined: 30 Jan 2007

PostPosted: Thu Apr 02, 2009 8:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

oldfatfarang wrote:
Luciddreamer wrote:
What happens if you punish by hitting a student in a public school? Fired?


Why would you want to hit (or punish, for that matter), a little kid?


because they are misbehaving.
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Smee



Joined: 24 Dec 2004
Location: Jeollanam-do

PostPosted: Thu Apr 02, 2009 8:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yes, I had one coteacher call the special needs children "stupid" and "foolish" in front of the class. An English teacher with practically no ability to understand, use, or teach English probably shouldn't be calling people stupid or foolish. To say nothing of insulting the children in the classroom when they're supposed to be in a supportive environment.

The seating chart for me was one illustration of the futility of trying any long-term planning. I wanted to make a chart so I could try and learn the names of my 1,500-plus students, so I had them pass it around and write their names. The next week, all the classes were reshuffled according to level. Then after making the chart again the coteachers just let students change seats every month.
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ardis



Joined: 20 Apr 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Thu Apr 02, 2009 8:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

That would make my blood boil to be in such a situation. It's really, really disappointing to see the kind of treatment that many mentally handicapped students receive in the Korean school system, and how the teachers don't even try to understand why they don't grasp certain things...just kind of think that they're dumb. Ugh.
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mack the knife



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: standing right behind you...

PostPosted: Thu Apr 02, 2009 9:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You have no idea how far or deep this goes.

When I worked for GEPIK, I had often had problems with rambunctious children in my classes. I truly wanted every child to learn English, and I wanted to do my best for each (no child left behind, etc.). So one, the principal and I are talking at lunch, and I'm asking him why English classes aren't leveled in public schools, and he says "Just ignore the slow kids. They'll never amount to anything anyway."

That was the gung-ho principal of the school. But it really goes even deeper, to the heart of Korean society. As far as Koreans are concerned, you either have it, or you don't. That's the unofficial academic modus operandi here. Focus on the bright kids and let everyone else fend for themselves. It's a freedom-limiting, communistic approach to life. Koreans are pigeonholed from day one. Literally, day one. Their lives are, for the most part, predetermined.
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oldfatfarang



Joined: 19 May 2005
Location: On the road to somewhere.

PostPosted: Thu Apr 02, 2009 10:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

mack the knife wrote:
You have no idea how far or deep this goes.

"Just ignore the slow kids. They'll never amount to anything anyway."

That's the unofficial academic modus operandi here. Focus on the bright kids and let everyone else fend for themselves. It's a freedom-limiting, communistic approach to life. Koreans are pigeonholed from day one. Literally, day one. Their lives are, for the most part, predetermined.


This is Confucianism at its best. What your principal didn't tell you was that they're only interested in bright kids with excellent test scores because - wait ....... you guessed it - because of 'face' (for the school), and the teachers' promotion chances. Dog eat dog.

And, all kids misbehave - that's part of growing up and learning. All adults also misbehave (running red lights, evading taxes etc) - but very few people think it's OK to beat an adult (witness the Western disgust at whippings and rotaning in Moslem countries). It's a great double standard - if you're on the right side of it.
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