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slideaway77
Joined: 16 Jul 2007
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 Posted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 3:06 am Post subject: Sorry girl, have you mistaken me for a walking lang. lesson? |
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It's happened to the best of us. You meet a nice Korean girl you think she's into you then it sinks in your just a walking language lesson!
! AH HA! "I see the light" you say..
Key warning signs to watch out in the defensive Korean girl play:- 
1. You get a "date" then its changed last minute. 
2. She brings a friend at the last minute.
3. No cues during the date.
4. She refuses to come back to your place.
5. DONT TOUCH ME! I'M FRIGHTENED! (You try to hold hands)
6. Other annoying/random c*ck blocking activity. 
Please feel free to add more.. |
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Ya-ta Boy
Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: Established in 1994
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| Posted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 3:13 am Post subject: |
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| Maybe she's just not that into you. |
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jkelly80
Joined: 13 Jun 2007
Location: you boys like mexico?
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| Posted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 3:18 am Post subject: |
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| I find the best way to avoid this is to come off as a complete lothario/degenerate from the get go. |
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Xuanzang
Joined: 10 Apr 2007
Location: Sadang
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| Posted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 4:05 am Post subject: |
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| 7. Brings a textbook or assignment sheet |
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pangaea
Joined: 20 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 6:08 am Post subject: |
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4. She refuses to come back to your place.
5. DONT TOUCH ME! I'M FRIGHTENED! (You try to hold hands) |
I can see the others being warning signs, but these two? Are you talking about a first date or a long term situation? I don't think the fact that she refuses to hold hands or go home with a virtual stranger is a warning sign that she's just in it for the language lesson. Are you looking for a date or a cheap lay?
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ryoga013
Joined: 23 Nov 2008
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| Posted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 6:10 am Post subject: |
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| jkelly80 wrote: |
| I find the best way to avoid this is to come off as a complete lothario/degenerate from the get go. |
Maybe that was a given because we're English teachers haha
If it's just for an English lesson, they can pay or you can keep canceling the meetings to be just as annoying. |
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bassexpander
Joined: 13 Sep 2007
Location: Someplace you'd rather be.
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| Posted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 6:57 am Post subject: |
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| If she won't kiss you by the 3rd date, then stop calling. |
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Ilsanman
Joined: 15 Aug 2003
Location: Bucheon, Korea
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| Posted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 7:16 am Post subject: |
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You are a patient man.
| bassexpander wrote: |
| If she won't kiss you by the 3rd date, then stop calling. |
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Scotticus
Joined: 18 Mar 2007
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| Posted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 8:32 am Post subject: Re: Sorry girl, have you mistaken me for a walking lang. les |
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| slideaway77 wrote: |
4. She refuses to come back to your place.
5. DONT TOUCH ME! I'M FRIGHTENED! (You try to hold hands)
6. Other annoying/random c*ck blocking activity.
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Shit. You sound like a real charmer. |
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John_ESL_White
Joined: 12 Nov 2008
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| Posted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 12:35 pm Post subject: Re: Sorry girl, have you mistaken me for a walking lang. les |
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| Scotticus wrote: |
| slideaway77 wrote: |
4. She refuses to come back to your place.
5. DONT TOUCH ME! I'M FRIGHTENED! (You try to hold hands)
6. Other annoying/random c*ck blocking activity.
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Shit. You sound like a real charmer. |
quit picking on the canadians in Korea! The candian women back home only require proof that the man has enough for a six pack and enough gas in his truck to keep it warm during the special moment.
So, naturally, they [those from the canadia] get confused when they first come here.
...j/k |
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ChinaBoy
Joined: 17 Feb 2007
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| Posted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 3:22 pm Post subject: |
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| jkelly80 wrote: |
| I find the best way to avoid this is to come off as a complete lothario/degenerate from the get go. |
I concur. |
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cdninkorea
Joined: 27 Jan 2006
Location: Seoul
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| Posted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 4:09 pm Post subject: |
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| bassexpander wrote: |
| If she won't kiss you by the 3rd date, then stop calling. |
I've had it explained to me that in Korean culture, kissing is taken more seriously than in the West- it's on the same level, or close to it, as sex. So while it may take a month for a Korean girl to kiss you, when she does she's probably ready to go all the way.
That's been my experience as well, although my sample size is too small for a scientific survey. |
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slideaway77
Joined: 16 Jul 2007
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| Posted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 4:28 pm Post subject: |
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The erratic behaviour of the exotic Korean female creature "studius-for-freeius" baffles the best of us .
I think the point I missed out is context for points 4,5,6. Give me some credit please!
Acting like a player fair enough, but when the conversation is continuously grounded towards her major/English grammar exclusively something is WRONG dude! You've been elected to the position of "Mayor of waygooks I can study with town!" lol Yep, I've met some real ball breakers!
All I'm saying is just don't get caught out. Do you pay for her and her friend's drinks? Food even? A friend she invites at the last minute? All key "studious-for-freeius" activity! It's just funny and the jokes on us! |
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LURKER
Joined: 26 Mar 2009
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| Posted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 5:12 pm Post subject: |
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| SOLUTION: Speak Korean for extended periods of time, and see her reaction. If her response seems to be "OK that's nice, now let's go back to speaking English now," then you know you're just for learning Engrishee from. |
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agoodmouse
Joined: 20 Dec 2007
Location: Anyang
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| Posted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 5:21 pm Post subject: |
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| LURKER wrote: |
| SOLUTION: Speak Korean for extended periods of time, and see her reaction. If her response seems to be "OK that's nice, now let's go back to speaking English now," then you know you're just for learning Engrishee from. |
Or that could make one look like he's trying to get a free Korean lesson  Oh, life.
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