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afsjesse
Joined: 23 Sep 2007
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 Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 2:25 am Post subject: So I like this Korean girl...... |
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Yah I know what you're thinking. Another lost waygook who likes a Korean.... cool! 
So.... I've known this girl for awhile now and I went to Seoul this past weekend to see her. We ended up haning out one night and all day yesterday until the last bus to my home left. Did everything in the book from riding bikes near the Han to eating ice cream, dressing up in Hanboks for the Hi Seoul Festival, Having Sashimi with her parents (this was very interesting) etc.... I've been flirty with her and I quite enjoy being around her, yata yata yata... I think I've been very respectful and "slow" in pursuing this interest and quite frankly it's starting to drive me stir crazy.
She's going to America in June and I soon after. She's booked a flight to come see me in Minneapolis for 4 days etc..... Now it turns out I'm going up to Seoul again this weekend to hangout with her and I feel kind of in a bind as to what to do. I clearly like her, but I'm not sure about the other way around. Any idea on how to find out? (stupid question I know)
She's even invited to her cousins wedding in Gimhae in a couple of weeks, which I cant go to, but would in a heart beat if I could. She wants to hangout then...... maybe I"m reading this all wrong but either I'm a really good friend or maybe she likes me?
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afsjesse
Joined: 23 Sep 2007
Location: Kickin' it in 'Kato town.
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| Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 2:29 am Post subject: |
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| OH and any cool ideas on what to do this weekend? Already saw the sites (palaces, insadong etc..) Would really like something interesting. |
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mayorgc
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| Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 2:33 am Post subject: |
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| since there's obviously a natural language and culture barrier, why not just be blunt and to the point? You're obviously past the friendship level, so the worst that could happen is you ruin the friendship. Since you're no longer in it for the friendship, go for the juggular and be blunt. You've got nothing to lose. |
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bogey666
Joined: 17 Mar 2008
Location: Korea, the ass free zone
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| Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 2:36 am Post subject: |
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has tratado a besarla?
si no, HAZLO!
al menos para decir "buenas noches", pero necesitas hacerlo con gusto!
y despues espera que tenga los suenos muy dulces 
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Ultimo Hombre
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| Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 2:37 am Post subject: |
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| Get drunk with her. It will work itself out. |
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Forward Observer
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| Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 2:38 am Post subject: |
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Pass her a note that reads: Do you love me? Check one box, yes or no.
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lifeinkorea
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| Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 2:41 am Post subject: |
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Be careful she isn't just using you as a cushion to get over to America. By cushion, I just mean support. I had something on a much smaller scale happen to me in Japan.
Also, 4 days in your home country is nothing to brag about. Find out where she will be, ask her straight out if it is ok to visit her and then the answers and truth will come. She will establish trust with teachers, and in turn that will be spread out to the female students she will bond with. Your cushion will no longer be needed.
See how she acts then. |
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Surfer Rosa
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Let's see... you've met her parents, she's invited you to a family wedding, and she's flying to visit you in the US?
If you like her I think just ONE of the above would be enough to have the DTR talk. If you're not feeling forward, bust out some Soju like the other guy suggested and get some answers. |
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Ukon
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| Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 3:27 am Post subject: |
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| Sounds like your in the friend zone.....I wouldn't worry about it much....just have fun and make a move...but don't get your hopes up....if something was gonna happen it would have already happened unless your both total shy klutzes. |
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afsjesse
Joined: 23 Sep 2007
Location: Kickin' it in 'Kato town.
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| Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 3:35 am Post subject: |
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| mayorgc wrote: |
| since there's obviously a natural language and culture barrier, why not just be blunt and to the point? You're obviously past the friendship level, so the worst that could happen is you ruin the friendship. Since you're no longer in it for the friendship, go for the juggular and be blunt. You've got nothing to lose. |
Good point! Have to grow a pair and do this perhaps.... stop being a chicken $R$#% |
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afsjesse
Joined: 23 Sep 2007
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| Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 3:37 am Post subject: |
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| bogey666 wrote: |
has tratado a besarla?
si no, HAZLO!
al menos para decir "buenas noches", pero necesitas hacerlo con gusto!
y despues espera que tenga los suenos muy dulces |
Y como hazlo?!!!!! jaja si me gustaria esto... cuando le dije 'adios" ayer, bese su mano como un caballero. hahaha |
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afsjesse
Joined: 23 Sep 2007
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| Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 3:38 am Post subject: |
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| Forward Observer wrote: |
Pass her a note that reads: Do you love me? Check one box, yes or no.
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This could work! BTW there is no language barrier. She speaks very good English. And she had plans to go to America before I met her, it's for a job not a vacation. |
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afsjesse
Joined: 23 Sep 2007
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| Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 3:39 am Post subject: |
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| lifeinkorea wrote: |
Be careful she isn't just using you as a cushion to get over to America. By cushion, I just mean support. I had something on a much smaller scale happen to me in Japan.
Also, 4 days in your home country is nothing to brag about. Find out where she will be, ask her straight out if it is ok to visit her and then the answers and truth will come. She will establish trust with teachers, and in turn that will be spread out to the female students she will bond with. Your cushion will no longer be needed.
See how she acts then. |
I think you just gave me an anuerism (sp?) haha... I'll take this warning. |
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Xuanzang
Joined: 10 Apr 2007
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| Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 3:41 am Post subject: |
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| afsjesse wrote: |
| mayorgc wrote: |
| since there's obviously a natural language and culture barrier, why not just be blunt and to the point? You're obviously past the friendship level, so the worst that could happen is you ruin the friendship. Since you're no longer in it for the friendship, go for the juggular and be blunt. You've got nothing to lose. |
Good point! Have to grow a pair and do this perhaps.... stop being a chicken $R$#% |
Para hacer eso hay que tener muchos cojones.  |
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afsjesse
Joined: 23 Sep 2007
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| Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 3:41 am Post subject: |
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| Ukon wrote: |
| Sounds like your in the friend zone.....I wouldn't worry about it much....just have fun and make a move...but don't get your hopes up....if something was gonna happen it would have already happened unless your both total shy klutzes. |
You really know how to bust a bubble Ukon... haha. j/k! I am indeed having fun! People always talk about going slow etc.... and I'm just wondering Hoowwww slowwww.... haha |
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