Site Search:
 
Speak Korean Now!
Teach English Abroad and Get Paid to see the World!
Korean Job Discussion Forums Forum Index Korean Job Discussion Forums
"The Internet's Meeting Place for ESL/EFL Teachers from Around the World!"
 
 FAQFAQ   SearchSearch   MemberlistMemberlist   UsergroupsUsergroups   RegisterRegister 
 ProfileProfile   Log in to check your private messagesLog in to check your private messages   Log inLog in 

Brining Chinese Girlfriend to Korea
Goto page 1, 2  Next
 
Post new topic   Reply to topic    Korean Job Discussion Forums Forum Index -> General Discussion Forum
View previous topic :: View next topic  
Author Message
Rob Aston



Joined: 04 Jun 2009

PostPosted: Sun Jun 07, 2009 6:51 am    Post subject: Brining Chinese Girlfriend to Korea Reply with quote

Hi, Im a British guy teaching in China. I live with my chinese girlfriend and have talked about getting married, im pretty interested though at going to Korea at the end of my current contract in just under a years time.

Im not going to do it if she can't come with me but is there a visa provision for bringing a partner with you? Is marriage a requirement? Also is it an issue that we are of different nationality?

Would really appreciate any advice as ive been searching online for weeks without much luck. Cheers.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Cerriowen



Joined: 03 Jun 2006
Location: Pocheon

PostPosted: Sun Jun 07, 2009 7:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I know there's a way to bring a wife or husband with you. I doubt they'd recognize a girlfriend/partner.

I'm sorry I can't offer anything more constructive.

*edit* Oh... why don't you talk to a recruiter about this. Rather... talk to several, because they tend to be snake-oil salesmen. Make sure they're all telling you the same story. They should know about this or be able to find out easily
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
js99



Joined: 25 May 2009

PostPosted: Sun Jun 07, 2009 12:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I know what you are talking about- there are several countries, including Thailand, that allows your girlfriend to travel with you there.
Unfortunately, Korea isn't one of them.

If you see yourself being with this person for the long-term, then go for it and get married. If you want to wait, then do so (you might as well wait as to let the exchange rate go up and to bring over more start-up money as the RMB is worth more now than the won)
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Cedar



Joined: 11 Mar 2003
Location: In front of my computer, again.

PostPosted: Sun Jun 07, 2009 1:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

When I had been living in Korea for years already, and had been with my husband (then fiance) for years, and had lived with him in China and had tons of proof for all of this, I was able to get him a visa to come and stay with me in Korea for three months. This was a few years back. We had to supply all kinds of stuff, like Korean language letters from me, forms verifying my status in Korea, background documents on the two of us (like his previous passport with visa for Korea from when he first met me in 2000, my documents showing my visits to China) and so on. I think I had to show my most recent bank balance. I might have been able to get it for longer-- not sure. Didn't try.

Getting married to a Chinese citizen in China is pretty easy (fast, painless once you have proof that you aren't already married -- divorce documents from previous marriages) but getting a dependent visa for your then-wife in Korea will need the support of your school, and they don't have to give you that support, so if you get married, you still need to find an employer willing to have you and your non-English teaching spouse.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Yesterday



Joined: 15 Aug 2003
Location: Land of the Morning DongChim (Kancho)

PostPosted: Sun Jun 07, 2009 1:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Quote:
Brining Chinese Girlfriend to Korea


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brining

She will be hot if you brine her in Korea
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message Visit poster's website
Sector7G



Joined: 24 May 2008

PostPosted: Mon Jun 08, 2009 3:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yesterday wrote:
Quote:
Brining Chinese Girlfriend to Korea


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brining

She will be hot if you brine her in Korea


Haha. That was the first thing that came to my mind too.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
crossmr



Joined: 22 Nov 2008
Location: Hwayangdong, Seoul

PostPosted: Mon Jun 08, 2009 4:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You might have better luck seeing if she qualifies for some other visa if you don't want to rush to get married.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message Visit poster's website
Gaber



Joined: 23 Apr 2006

PostPosted: Mon Jun 08, 2009 5:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

One of my friends who works for SMOE recently married his Mongolian GF and was able to get her a depend visa, so I guess the public school system is ok with sponsoring spouses.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
digsydinner



Joined: 24 May 2009

PostPosted: Tue Jun 09, 2009 2:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

are you sure your gf really wants to live here in korea? based on what i get from my korean friends, chinese people have a very tough time here...often considered lower than your ESL teacher on the social totem pole.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
digsydinner



Joined: 24 May 2009

PostPosted: Tue Jun 09, 2009 2:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

sure she wants to move to korea with you? from what i get out of the koreans, chinese folk aren't considered that high on the social totem pole... probably lower than your average esl teacher. lots of racism exists... i guess the trick would be to blend in as much as possible.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
eIn07912



Joined: 06 Dec 2008
Location: seoul

PostPosted: Tue Jun 09, 2009 3:49 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

digsydinner wrote:
sure she wants to move to korea with you? from what i get out of the koreans, chinese folk aren't considered that high on the social totem pole... probably lower than your average esl teacher. lots of racism exists... i guess the trick would be to blend in as much as possible.


ditto

i worked with a guy (canuck) a few years ago, that brought his chinese wife over. her visa was kind of easy to get actually. not sure if it was working holiday or what, but getting here was easy. staying here on the other hand was not.

it was difficult for her to work and to adjust. i thinks he taught chinese at a kindi but it was all under the table stuff. nothing official. neither of them speaking korean (and being rather anti-social people) made it difficult for them to get basic stuff done (cable/internet hook up, shopping, etc). most days after work they'd both just go home and we'd never see them again till work the next day. he did mention a few times that when people found out she was chinese there would be some dirty looks and uncomfortable situations. they did a "runner" just a few months after they got here. not sure if her being chinese was the cause, but never the less, they didnt last long.

so, ya know, as far as getting here, i think its kind of easy. maintaining is another story...
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Johnny_Bravo



Joined: 27 May 2009
Location: R.O.K.

PostPosted: Tue Jun 09, 2009 5:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

kind of interesting that the Chinese are held in low regard. The Japanese I can kind of understand simply as a hate filled reaction to them coming here and kicking Korean behind whenever they felt like it.

but China?

Look at the countries today, and look at their respective histories and you tell me if Korea can "look down" on them.

Shocked

Laughing
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Xuanzang



Joined: 10 Apr 2007
Location: Sadang

PostPosted: Tue Jun 09, 2009 9:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Johnny_Bravo wrote:
kind of interesting that the Chinese are held in low regard. The Japanese I can kind of understand simply as a hate filled reaction to them coming here and kicking Korean behind whenever they felt like it.

but China?

Look at the countries today, and look at their respective histories and you tell me if Korea can "look down" on them.

Shocked

Laughing


Korea always looked up to the Chinese court.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Robot_Teacher



Joined: 18 Feb 2009
Location: Robotting Around the World

PostPosted: Tue Jun 09, 2009 9:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You're going to brine her!? Surely China girls are not that good eating to be brined before BBQ. If you insist on cannibalizing her. Soak meat for 12 hours in a solution of 3 cups of salt, 10 gallons of water, jug of gochujang, and 2 cups of assorted spices before BBQing.

Other than being your dinner, she's just a tourist unless getting a work visa for some 3D job in a factory of some sort.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
weatherman



Joined: 14 Jan 2003
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Wed Jun 10, 2009 5:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Cedar wrote:
but getting a dependent visa for your then-wife in Korea will need the support of your school, and they don't have to give you that support, so if you get married, you still need to find an employer willing to have you and your non-English teaching spouse.


Cedar, have always liked your posts, but this isn't true. If you are married and gain employment and have an e-2 visa, you yourself will be able to sponser her in Korea. Will even be able to put her under your health insurence, if your employer provides health.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Display posts from previous:   
Post new topic   Reply to topic    Korean Job Discussion Forums Forum Index -> General Discussion Forum All times are GMT - 8 Hours
Goto page 1, 2  Next
Page 1 of 2

 
Jump to:  
You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot vote in polls in this forum


This page is maintained by the one and only Dave Sperling.
Contact Dave's ESL Cafe
Copyright © 2018 Dave Sperling. All Rights Reserved.

Powered by phpBB © 2001, 2002 phpBB Group

TEFL International Supports Dave's ESL Cafe
TEFL Courses, TESOL Course, English Teaching Jobs - TEFL International