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minnesota
Joined: 21 Dec 2008
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Posted: Fri Jul 03, 2009 4:38 pm Post subject: Meeting the "boss" soon, any great gift ideas?! |
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Hey everyone! I would love to hear some fantastic gift ideas for meeting your boss and co-workers. Even perhaps other administrative workers at the school.
Of course, no one wants to spend hundreds of dollars of these formalities, but I've heard it's important and makes a good impression to give a gift.
With that said, I have a couple different ideas. Let me know what you think:
-Fine wine. (studied in Florence, Italy, have a bunch left collecting dust) I've heard it's hard to find suitable gifts for middle aged Korean men, but one thing they all have in common: drinking?
-SPAM? I've heard SPAM is popular in South Korea...could someone validate this? If so, I was thinking of some SPAM products or gift sets. Since I'm from Minnesota where it originated, it would be a cheap/easy pickup.
Any other ideas would be great!! Thanks in advance! |
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alphakennyone

Joined: 01 Aug 2005 Location: city heights
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Posted: Fri Jul 03, 2009 5:56 pm Post subject: |
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yes, spam gift sets are a very generic gift (i received one myself for christmas) in korea. tuna gift sets as well. but if it's cheap for ya, go for it. those spam gift sets run at least $50 in Korea (for 6 or so small cans and a bottle of cooking oil)
i'd choose a bottle of decent whiskey (a well known brand name especially) over wine. wine is more of a lady thing in korea it seems. whiskey is 2x (sometimes 3x) as expensive in korea, so just make sure you buy a whiskey that is well recognizable (johnny walker or something like that) and they'll think you did them a huge favor. if it's a great whiskey, but one they've never heard of, they will be less grateful. |
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cruisemonkey

Joined: 04 Jul 2005 Location: Hopefully, the same place as my luggage.
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Posted: Fri Jul 03, 2009 7:25 pm Post subject: Re: Meeting the "boss" soon, any great gift ideas? |
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minnesota wrote: |
-Fine wine. (studied in Florence, Italy, have a bunch left collecting dust) I've heard it's hard to find suitable gifts for middle aged Korean men,... |
'Fine wine' in K-land is considered to contain as much sugar as pancake syrup... don't waste your money.
minnesota wrote: |
... but one thing they all have in common: drinking? |
Most likely. An inexpensive bottle of burbon (I see you're from the U.S.) will go over well. I say "inexpensive" because he will probably mix it with: Coke/Chilsung Cider, soju and brandy/cognac... then drop it in a beer before doing it in a 'one shot'.
minnesota wrote: |
-SPAM? I've heard SPAM is popular in South Korea...could someone validate this? If so, I was thinking of some SPAM products or gift sets. Since I'm from Minnesota where it originated, it would be a cheap/easy pickup. |
Spam is indeed popular. However, considering the weight and airline luggage restrictions these days, it's akin to bringing coal to Newcastle.
minnesota wrote: |
Any other ideas would be great!! |
Don't give him anything upon first arrival. Save 'gifts' for reinforcement of the behaviour of granting exended holidays.
minnesota wrote: |
Thanks in advance! |
You're welcome. |
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halfmanhalfbiscuit
Joined: 13 Oct 2007 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Fri Jul 03, 2009 7:34 pm Post subject: |
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The whiskey will be a display item at home.
If it pays off and you don't have to desk warm then it's been a good investment. |
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cruisemonkey

Joined: 04 Jul 2005 Location: Hopefully, the same place as my luggage.
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Posted: Fri Jul 03, 2009 8:07 pm Post subject: |
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halfmanhalfbiscuit wrote: |
The whiskey will be a display item at home.
If it pays off and you don't have to desk warm then it's been a good investment. |
Succinct and well put... for a PS. My principal is very proud of the bottle of Canadian rye whisky I gave him after my first contract renewal and keeps it on display in his office - he can show it to visiting dignitaries.
I keep telling him we have to 'pound it' but he keeps saying "An-aye-ohh... AJUMMA!... maek-jju, soju segae... jetorai dugae... chu-say-ohh.
P.S. We're not in a restaurant.  |
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Lukychrm42
Joined: 09 Oct 2008 Location: Cheonan
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Posted: Sat Jul 04, 2009 12:14 am Post subject: |
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I might argue against bringing alcohol.... I brought a special bottle of wine from home and found out that most of my school, particularly my boss's family, are Christian (which means no alcohol, apparently)...of course, there's surely not a gift that will please everyone, but since Christianity is growing stronger and stronger here, you never know who you might offend.
How about some English books/children's stories for the school, too? |
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cruisemonkey

Joined: 04 Jul 2005 Location: Hopefully, the same place as my luggage.
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Posted: Sat Jul 04, 2009 12:53 am Post subject: |
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Even if he is Christian (non-catholic) - I still haven't figured this one out - he won't be offended. Don't worry.
As I said - bring nothing. Practice a slight bow and the formal term of address. These will get you farther than any gift. |
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PigeonFart
Joined: 27 Apr 2006
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Posted: Sat Jul 04, 2009 3:55 am Post subject: |
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Surprise your boss by not bringing anything at all.
Just a nod and a half smile. Unconsciously let your boss know that you're the real boss. Yes, you're a guest in his/her country...but he's/she's a guest in YOUR world.
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minnesota
Joined: 21 Dec 2008
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Posted: Sat Jul 04, 2009 9:02 am Post subject: |
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Thanks for all the replies! This is a lot of good advice. The whiskey idea is great, I know he likes to drink. I'll find out more from one of my co-teachers before I go.
As a side not, and I probably shouldn't have neglected to leave this information out, I'll be teaching at a Christian International School. I was worried about what he (50 yr-old korean man) thought of drinking. But I heard from a co-worker that he bought him shots and took him to the spa (hopefully not in that order)...so I'm hoping whiskey is a safe bet.
Keep the advice coming if you think of anything! Thanks again! |
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weebil
Joined: 24 May 2009
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Posted: Sat Jul 04, 2009 3:48 pm Post subject: |
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i never would have thought to bring a gift to my boss/principal, is this a standard practice? and what else is there to give besides alcohol or spam? |
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cruisemonkey

Joined: 04 Jul 2005 Location: Hopefully, the same place as my luggage.
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Posted: Sat Jul 04, 2009 4:04 pm Post subject: |
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How about a lazer-evgraved whacking stick? |
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ChinaBoy
Joined: 17 Feb 2007
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Posted: Sat Jul 04, 2009 9:17 pm Post subject: |
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It'll be a cold day in hell before I buy a present for my tormentors. |
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hagwonnewbie

Joined: 09 Feb 2007 Location: Asia
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Posted: Sat Jul 04, 2009 9:43 pm Post subject: |
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Get him a bottle of lube. Hopefully he'll use it when he screws you over down the road.
Actually, I wouldn't get him anything. The best gift is to make yourself presentable and cause as few problems as possible. |
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AgentM
Joined: 07 Jun 2009 Location: British Columbia, Canada
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Posted: Sat Jul 04, 2009 9:50 pm Post subject: |
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Would something like chocolates be a good idea? |
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cruisemonkey

Joined: 04 Jul 2005 Location: Hopefully, the same place as my luggage.
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Posted: Sat Jul 04, 2009 10:30 pm Post subject: |
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AgentM wrote: |
Would something like chocolates be a good idea? |
No. Because chocolates represent the oppression on the indigenous people of Central/South America by the Spanish. Also, chocolate makes the brain release endorphins, encephalin and serotonin which bond to its opiate receptors and will cause him to 'fail' a TBPE test.  |
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