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bthomas14
Joined: 16 Jun 2009
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Posted: Sun Jul 05, 2009 3:36 pm Post subject: Sexism in Korea |
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I'm curious to know what Korea, Seoul specifically, is like for women. I've heard the atmosphere can be pretty sexist but perhaps this only applies to Korean women? Is it more or less pronounced in Korea as opposed to other Asian countries. Can any female teachers in Korea relate their experiences?
I ask because I'm trying to decide whether to take a job in Japan or Korea. My boyfriend has accepted a position in Korea and I'm wondering if my experience would be that much different in either country. Not just pertaining to sexism - this is just one of my bigger concerns. And that Seoul is a "concrete jungle." |
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Yu_Bum_suk

Joined: 25 Dec 2004
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Posted: Sun Jul 05, 2009 3:58 pm Post subject: |
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How old are you? It makes a bigger difference than your sex, actually. If you're looking for sexism you'll certainly find plenty of it, but if you hang around with westerners and don't learn any of the language you can also remain blissfully unaware. You'll probably also see more evidence of it if you work at a public school. |
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cj1976
Joined: 26 Oct 2005
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Posted: Sun Jul 05, 2009 4:20 pm Post subject: |
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Gender roles in Korea are fairly clear compared to many western countries. A woman's role is basically to look pretty, do what she's told, get married by 30 and pop out a son. After that she can expect to live a life of servitude being dominated by the iron will of her mother-in-law. |
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Jane

Joined: 01 Feb 2003
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Posted: Sun Jul 05, 2009 4:20 pm Post subject: |
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Nationality trumps gender; they will look at you and see an 'alien' first, and second your gender, so not so much a problem here.
However, I dress a lot more conservatively here, foregoing wearing certain things that I would wear at home, because being a non-Korean female, you will attract the wrong sort if you dress too 'sexy'. Korean women, on the other hand, can pull off a mini-skirt without recourse. |
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Scotticus
Joined: 18 Mar 2007
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Posted: Sun Jul 05, 2009 5:42 pm Post subject: |
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cj1976 wrote: |
Gender roles in Korea are fairly clear compared to many western countries. A woman's role is basically to look pretty, do what she's told, get married by 30 and pop out a son. After that she can expect to live a life of servitude being dominated by the iron will of her mother-in-law. |
True... but that's only for Korean women (or if you happen to marry a Korean man).
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Nationality trumps gender; they will look at you and see an 'alien' first, and second your gender, so not so much a problem here.
However, I dress a lot more conservatively here, foregoing wearing certain things that I would wear at home, because being a non-Korean female, you will attract the wrong sort if you dress too 'sexy'. Korean women, on the other hand, can pull off a mini-skirt without recourse. |
This is closer to the truth for a foreigner. If you're built like a Western girl *cough* you'll get stared at, especially by repulsive middle-aged men. Even wearing shirts that showed no cleavage, my well-endowed gf got her chest stared at constantly.
Having said that, in three years she only had a couple dicey situations happen. Of course, neither happened when I was around because dickless assholes only grow a pair when there's not a scary foreign guy around to put them in their place. |
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