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AaronPSU777
Joined: 18 May 2009 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Sun Jul 05, 2009 8:00 am Post subject: Is it ever ok to run? |
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I have been unable to use the search function on this site so if this is addressed elsewhere please let me know!
I know for many legitimate reasons "running" from a bad Hagwon may be seen as innapropriate, immature or unprofessional. "Be an adult and deal with your problems head on." But is it possible you could find yourself in a situation where up and leaving really is your best option?
My hagwon really sucks, we have not been getting paid on time, my boss has flat out lied to me on numerous occasions, and misled me or conveniently forgotten to mention things to me on many other occasions. She only paid me half pay my first week because it was training, however I wasn't told of this until I got here, and it's not in my contract. I'm at school for 9 hours a day with no break, we get planning periods but we are doing office work during that time, we do not get any breaks where we can simply relax (I believe this is a violation of Korean labor laws). Recently she had a bizarre and very shady discussion with me about switching me to part time status. Though I think she dropped that idea when she realized she would have to break my contract to do that and I could leave. These are only some of the things she's done, there's certainly more.
Now, what I would like to do is cut my losses and head back to the states. I'm fine with buying my own plane ticket back but I'm fairly certain she will require me to reimburse her for my flight here, even though I will have been here for over 6 months if and when I leave. Unfortunately I did not do enough research before I came out here, my contract states if I quit at any time, even after 6 months, I still have to reimburse her for the flight here. Yea I know, stupid, but I am new here, I didn't fully understand everything I was getting into.
So the way I see it I can either do this the straight forward and professional way, inform her of my intentions and then deal with her trying to hit me for as much cash as she possibly can before I leave OR I can pack my bags and take off when it's convenient for me. The way I see it my boss has treated me pretty badly the whole time I've been here and I don't really feel any sympathy towards her for any difficulties my departure might cause her. I would feel bad for my kids and coworkers as they are all great. But I think that's something I can deal with. I do not care that I won't be able to use my boss as a reference and it wouldn't really bother me if my visa got pulled and I wasn't allowed to work in Korea any more.
So I am just curious what everyones opinion is and, if I were to leave, what exactly would be the implications for me. Would I be prevented from entering Korea in the future, even as a tourist? Or would I just be prevented from getting another work visa? etc.[url][/url] |
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E_athlete
Joined: 09 Jun 2009 Location: Korea sparkling
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Posted: Sun Jul 05, 2009 8:07 am Post subject: |
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- withholding pay? Okay Refuse to come into work
- Threatening to fire you? Okay, tell them "maybe you should fire me" and ask for a letter of release and find another hagwon job.
- if you choose to run, go the day after you get your paycheck. No you wont have to reimburse any flight ticket. |
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sugarkane59
Joined: 10 Jun 2009 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Sun Jul 05, 2009 8:41 am Post subject: --> |
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I'm really sorry that you are having a rough time.
However, no one can make this decision but you, because you are the one that is having to live through this every day. I do think that deep down you have already made your decision - would anyone's advice here sway you the way you least want to go anyway? |
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soviet_man

Joined: 23 Apr 2005 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Sun Jul 05, 2009 12:20 pm Post subject: |
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| So I am just curious what everyones opinion is and, if I were to leave, what exactly would be the implications for me. Would I be prevented from entering Korea in the future, even as a tourist? Or would I just be prevented from getting another work visa? etc |
Anyone who has been around a few years will more than likely have done a runner at some stage.
It is nothing personal, just the way things are.
There should be no reason preventing you making a return to Korea after the expiration date of the original visa.
You may be pulled into that little room at immigration at Incheon airport on your return and questioned politely in Konglish for a few minutes, but that is about the worst of it. (I've been there a few times shall we say!). |
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Yu_Bum_suk

Joined: 25 Dec 2004
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Posted: Sun Jul 05, 2009 3:52 pm Post subject: |
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| If I were you, and had no intention of working in Korea again, I would leave the weekend after pay-day and leave her a letter specifying exactly why I'm leaving. If you try to get out the 'professional' way chances are about 99% she will do everything to make your life difficult, if not hell. |
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vonnegutjr
Joined: 24 Mar 2009
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Posted: Sun Jul 05, 2009 3:56 pm Post subject: |
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| If you're asking the question, "is it ok to run?" It most likely is. Everything will work out. |
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Ramen
Joined: 15 Apr 2008
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Posted: Sun Jul 05, 2009 4:01 pm Post subject: |
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What are you waiting on?  |
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kreftca
Joined: 17 Apr 2009 Location: Gyeongsongbuk
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Posted: Sun Jul 05, 2009 7:40 pm Post subject: |
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Here's what I know...and it's pretty much a give and take here. If you run without telling them you will probably NEVER be able to come back to Korea. They will cancel your Visa and put you on the "naughty" list. It will be hard for you to even VISIT if you ever wanted to again. At the same time. If you tell them you are leaving they still may "conveniently" forget to pay you for your time...so if things are as bad as they sound, then GET OUT. When they have fully paid you just book it. It may be smart to contact the Ministry of Education, Science and Technology and explain to them what happened...may not d anything, they may do something...ya never really know here.
Best of luck with that decision...If your employer did this to you in the States, would you stay in that job? |
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Theo
Joined: 04 Jul 2009
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Posted: Sun Jul 05, 2009 7:49 pm Post subject: |
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The rampant lies from my hagwon started the moment I arrived from the airport. I should have turned around that very day and split! Instead, I hung around long enough, and endured enough abuse (in the name of being "professional") that after seven months I landed back in my home country permenently disabled from the experience (and while I was in the hospital there, my visa was cancelled and I was therefore illegal -- thank you, Korea!)
I say if your gut tells you to run, then RUN!!!
I lived and worked in mainland China for five years, and wound up doing one "runner" during all that time, and I have absolutely no regrets about it. It was really the wisest course of action, considering the circumstances and the location I was in.
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OculisOrbis

Joined: 17 Jul 2006
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Posted: Sun Jul 05, 2009 10:04 pm Post subject: |
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| E_athlete wrote: |
- withholding pay? Okay Refuse to come into work
- Threatening to fire you? Okay, tell them "maybe you should fire me" and ask for a letter of release and find another hagwon job.
- if you choose to run, go the day after you get your paycheck. No you wont have to reimburse any flight ticket. |
never do the first suggestion if you hope to get your pay. you can be fired for breaching contract and the labor board will rule in favor of the hagwon.
2,3 - pretty good advice. |
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Tobias

Joined: 02 Jun 2008
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Posted: Sun Jul 05, 2009 10:44 pm Post subject: Re: Is it ever ok to run? |
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| AaronPSU777 wrote: |
| ....if I were to leave, what exactly would be the implications for me(?) Would I be prevented from entering Korea in the future, even as a tourist? Or would I just be prevented from getting another work visa? etc.[url][/url] |
You'd be fine doing a runner and then returning later. Just know you'll have to wait until your current visa expires before coming back. I did a runner a few years ago, returned to work at a new outfit after that visa expired, and had no problems with immy.
But you know...I don't think I'd pull that runner today. For one thing, I'd be smarter about choosing my employer. For another, when one does a runner, it incrementally screws things up for his/her predecessors (which may include you later). We are inching towards the day when we have to do what teachers going to places in the Middle East must do: give up passports on arrival for the duration of the contract, get special permission to leave the country, and pay out the ass when we have to leave suddenly without giving notice. Some places in the Middle East require two MONTHS' salary payment when you have to break a contract on short or no notice, and they want three months' notice from you if you want to avoid that charge. Three months' notice is far too unreasonable (no one knows that far in the future his future plans), and paying many thousands of dollars to break a contract, even if you get sick or have to return home for an emergency, is absolutely ludicrous.
It could easily get that bad in Korea. |
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Sector7G
Joined: 24 May 2008
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Posted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 1:04 am Post subject: Re: Is it ever ok to run? |
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| Tobias wrote: |
For another, when one does a runner, it incrementally screws things up for his/her predecessors (which may include you later). |
How can a runner screw things up for his predecessors? Retroactively?
And how can one become his own predecessor? With a time machine?  |
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lifeinkorea
Joined: 24 Jan 2009 Location: somewhere in China
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Posted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 1:13 am Post subject: |
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By predecessor, I think he meant the people who are there now have to pick up the slack. Those people obviously came before the new guy who is replacing the person doing the runner.
As far as doing a runner, it's probably the thing to do. If you are considering it, then either you are in a bad situation or you just aren't made out for it. So, maybe it's best you leave, open a slot for another teacher, and give the students a better education without the drama. |
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Tobias

Joined: 02 Jun 2008
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Posted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 4:56 am Post subject: Re: Is it ever ok to run? |
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| Sector7G wrote: |
| Tobias wrote: |
For another, when one does a runner, it incrementally screws things up for his/her predecessors (which may include you later). |
How can a runner screw things up for his predecessors? Retroactively?
And how can one become his own predecessor? With a time machine? 8) |
Sorry. My bad there. I was reading two threads at once. Yeah, that would be a feat. You're screwing things up now means those following you later will pay the price for your sins today. |
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Sector7G
Joined: 24 May 2008
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Posted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 6:02 am Post subject: Re: Is it ever ok to run? |
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| Tobias wrote: |
Sorry. My bad there. I was reading two threads at once. Yeah, that would be a feat. You're screwing things up now means those following you later will pay the price for your sins today. |
I figured that is what you meant. I was just being a wise ass. No slight intended.
Anyway, OP has a tough decision which boils down to either a) very likely getting shafted, or b) doing a preemptive shaft by running. Not a great choice. |
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