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fakeplastiktree

Joined: 15 Oct 2007 Location: Northeast Seoul
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 5:08 pm Post subject: SMOE, tattoos, and body piercings |
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The SMOE application form asks if you have tattoos and body piercings. Thinking it could be a dealbreaker for them, I lied and said "no" to both questions. I have one tattoo on my arm close to my shoulder and one at the top of my back, both of which can be easily hidden but are visible with certain short-sleeved shirts. I'm just wondering if it will be a serious problem if my tattoos are at some point seen by someone at my school. Also of concern to me is if someone sees one or both of them during the orientation (during which we are allowed to dress casually and the weather will likely be quite hot). Does anyone have any insight on this?
I also have a small, almost unnoticeable nose piercing (just a stud). Are they likely to have a problem with that? Thanks! |
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Demophobe

Joined: 17 May 2004
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 5:14 pm Post subject: |
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Funny how some folks choose to lie right off the bat, then expect different from the Korean bosses.
I suppose your tats will be a problem now that you have made it so; if they are where you say, then they should never be seen, right? Not often shirtless at school. Long sleeves, rolled-up a bit.
Hard to hide a hole in your ear. Just take out the earring at school?
Sorry if I offended, but... |
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romano812
Joined: 09 Dec 2008
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 5:20 pm Post subject: always be honest |
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| that's what I've learned in life. If you have to lie to get something then you probably shouldn't have it. I have tattoos and piercings and I work for a public school. I put it right on my application and there hasn't been a problem. |
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Oreovictim
Joined: 23 Aug 2006
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 5:26 pm Post subject: |
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Where exactly is the tattoo on the top of your back? Are you talking the back of your lower neck? If so, do you have long hair to cover it up? I know that you said that you can cover them, but you have to be sure. There's been times where I've known people who had tattoos, and they were surprised when they found out I knew. They thought that they were concealed.
I'd just ditch the nose ring. Even though it's small, it'll get you in trouble. Plus, why risk the chance of moving to a new country, starting a new job, and meeting new people just over a piece of jewelry? Most post-college jobs would shun it, anyway. |
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Mr. BlackCat

Joined: 30 Nov 2005 Location: Insert witty remark HERE
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 6:05 pm Post subject: |
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| I'd hardly compare someone lying about a tatoo to an employer who steals money, lies about work hours, vacation allowance, business location and housing. I'm not condoning lying, but there are degrees and exceptions. I lie about liking kimchi so I can get along with my co-teacher. Does that justify being paid late? Personally, I would be honest about it and make a note that it's easily covered. The nose ring is probably a problem. I doubt a school in the West would allow it. |
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Faunaki
Joined: 15 Jun 2007
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 6:06 pm Post subject: Re: always be honest |
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| romano812 wrote: |
| that's what I've learned in life. If you have to lie to get something then you probably shouldn't have it. |
Whattt? This is Korea. Lie away, it's part of the culture.
I work for SMOE and I've a tatt on my ankle which is easy for the students to see. Nothing has been said to me about it and I've been around for a while. |
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iammac2002
Joined: 12 Jun 2009 Location: 'n Beter plek.
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 7:50 pm Post subject: |
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| I heard if a Korean walks around with a tat he's in the Korean mafia. You could just wear a black nose ring and say it's a mole. :--------------) |
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winterfall
Joined: 21 May 2009
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 8:09 pm Post subject: Re: SMOE, tattoos, and body piercings |
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| fakeplastiktree wrote: |
The SMOE application form asks if you have tattoos and body piercings. Thinking it could be a dealbreaker for them, I lied and said "no" to both questions. I have one tattoo on my arm close to my shoulder and one at the top of my back, both of which can be easily hidden but are visible with certain short-sleeved shirts. I'm just wondering if it will be a serious problem if my tattoos are at some point seen by someone at my school. Also of concern to me is if someone sees one or both of them during the orientation (during which we are allowed to dress casually and the weather will likely be quite hot). Does anyone have any insight on this?
I also have a small, almost unnoticeable nose piercing (just a stud). Are they likely to have a problem with that? Thanks! |
Consider doing this for as long as your working for SMOE or at the orientation. Keep your tattoos covered. And take out the nose piercing. Come up with a good explanation for the hole.
Korean schools are strict. Students aren't even allowed to dye their hair. Or be sloppy in their uniforms. So this could be a deal breaker for you. |
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nero
Joined: 11 Mar 2009
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 8:27 pm Post subject: |
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I have a sleeve and work in a rural area - very conservative - never been a problem, I just cover it for work as I would in the west. My own time is my own time, but for respects sake I always wear a t shirt never a singlet when i go into town. Small tattoos? they are almost expected from whitey, aren't they?
Nose stud should be fine. Just ask your co-teacher if it's okay, it's probably up to the principal. They are more worried about you being fat or ugly to be honest. |
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romano812
Joined: 09 Dec 2008
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 9:47 pm Post subject: Faunaki |
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| you have me laughing here because you are so right. Korea is all about saving face and never being wrong. Lying and cheating are ingrained in this culture. I'm trying my best not to get sucked into it. |
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I'm no Picasso
Joined: 28 Oct 2008
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 9:55 pm Post subject: Re: SMOE, tattoos, and body piercings |
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| winterfall wrote: |
| fakeplastiktree wrote: |
The SMOE application form asks if you have tattoos and body piercings. Thinking it could be a dealbreaker for them, I lied and said "no" to both questions. I have one tattoo on my arm close to my shoulder and one at the top of my back, both of which can be easily hidden but are visible with certain short-sleeved shirts. I'm just wondering if it will be a serious problem if my tattoos are at some point seen by someone at my school. Also of concern to me is if someone sees one or both of them during the orientation (during which we are allowed to dress casually and the weather will likely be quite hot). Does anyone have any insight on this?
I also have a small, almost unnoticeable nose piercing (just a stud). Are they likely to have a problem with that? Thanks! |
Consider doing this for as long as your working for SMOE or at the orientation. Keep your tattoos covered. And take out the nose piercing. Come up with a good explanation for the hole.
Korean schools are strict. Students aren't even allowed to dye their hair. Or be sloppy in their uniforms. So this could be a deal breaker for you. |
What is your source for this? Have you had issues with you own tattoos or piercings or do you even know anyone who has?
Please don't give people who have legitimate concerns wrong information based on what you think.
I'm at a public school. I have a tattoo down my forearm. It's not of a stripper or a decapitated baby. It's never been a problem. It's visible nearly all of the time. All of the students and other teachers know about. Both my principal and my VP have seen it. I was honest about it on my application.
I had my lip peirced before I came over. I was honest about that on the application as well, and was asked to remove it for school, but was told wearing a spacer would be acceptable. Was too much of a hassle though, so I just did away with it. |
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I'm no Picasso
Joined: 28 Oct 2008
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 9:58 pm Post subject: Re: Faunaki |
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| romano812 wrote: |
| you have me laughing here because you are so right. Korea is all about saving face and never being wrong. Lying and cheating are ingrained in this culture. I'm trying my best not to get sucked into it. |
What in the blue moon has that got to do with this subject? |
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MattAwesome
Joined: 30 Jun 2008
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 11:29 pm Post subject: |
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I have a tattoo, I told them I had a tattoo, they asked about the tattoo. I told them it is covered by my shirt. They said ok and moved on.
Im sure they are only worried about having a tattoo on your face or hands. |
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Scouse Mouse
Joined: 07 Jan 2007 Location: Cloud #9
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Posted: Tue Aug 04, 2009 12:33 am Post subject: |
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When I applied for GEPIK many moons ago they asked if I had a tattoo. I said "not that can be seen at work" and it wasn't mentioned again.
When summertime came along and I was still wearing long sleeves, my school asked why. I told them. They thanked me for being respectful and wearing long sleeves at school. A few weeks later some students mentioned seeing me out of school with a T-shirt and tattoos, so the teachers did a quick speech about cultural attitudes to tattoos and how they are not seen as a bad thing in the UK where people value individualism. It was a cool way to handle it, and the kids never mentioned it in school (though did ask to look if they saw me on the street).
The male teachers saw them at drinking sessions when the sleeves came up, and some of the more curious women asked to have a look on my last day. Other than that, it was never an issue for me. |
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Bibbitybop

Joined: 22 Feb 2006 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Tue Aug 04, 2009 12:52 am Post subject: |
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I'd choose to lie about mine and keep them covered, even at orientation. Rumors are if they find out you lied, then get are apt to fire you, even for petty offenses.
If anything happens, quote them the date on your files. Explain that you got the tat or piercing right before you moved, to commemorate your journey.
But if you keep them covered, OP, it won't be a problem. It's BS for SMOE to ask about them in general and would be more professional to ask about visible modifications. |
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