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We're all human....sayeth the students..

 
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Adventurer



Joined: 28 Jan 2006

PostPosted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 4:41 am    Post subject: We're all human....sayeth the students.. Reply with quote

You get lots of people talking about non-enlightening things they hear. I smiled when one of my kids said a certain word in Korean to me. I can't remember how to pronounce it. They said "Teacher, you are ingun".
I asked "What does that mean?". I have a great rapport with that class.
I also was very generous with them that day, told them to go to the water fountain, asked who need to go the washroom. I am not sure that's why.
And they said, "We're human, and you're human".

It had nothing to do with me teasing them ages ago when we were studying "Jungle Book" and the words repeated in the book, "We are of the same blood you and I".

Frankly, I think I have very open-minded students and many weren't happy when I was going to take days off and have a substitute come in, so I could relax. They didn't want the change.

I know some folks think it's a bad thing to give snacks to the students. I don't do it all the time. Last week, I gave a couple of classes some chocolate that's from Kazakhstan and Russia. I figured it would be an exposure to something new, in terms of taste and culture. My co-worker loved the chocolate, too. The kids wanted more. It sure was good!
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Yesterday



Joined: 15 Aug 2003
Location: Land of the Morning DongChim (Kancho)

PostPosted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 6:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

congratulations!! from reading your post - I am really not sure - what we are supposed to say??

but congratlations for a new waste of space of Daves - just to slow the site down more - you did the trick!
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I'm no Picasso



Joined: 28 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 6:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm doing the movie thing this week, at the suggestion of my co-teachers, after finals, and the last few days have produced some really nice downtime with my students as a result. The co-teachers leave the room to go do whatever, and a few students from each class who are normally not so vocal in class or between in the halls, have moved back to the table I'm at and struck up the most endearing conversations. Mostly just small personal questions, one of the most common being, "Teacher happy in Korea?"

They've come to be very comfortable with me over the course of the last nine months. I work at a school in a mostly poor neighborhood with boys who have very low level English and little to no exposure to foreigners. It was rough going at first, but I really feel like a part of the 'family' at my school now. That is due almost entirely to the kindness and openness of my students. These days, they are helping me study Korean, practicing my dialogues for class with me over and over again until I can pronounce them perfectly. They're good boys. I'm going to genuinely miss nearly every one of them when they go on to high school.

Overall, my experience living and working in Korea would be a whole lot lonelier and less fulfilling without my students.
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I'm no Picasso



Joined: 28 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 6:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yesterday wrote:
congratulations!! from reading your post - I am really not sure - what we are supposed to say??

but congratlations for a new waste of space of Daves - just to slow the site down more - you did the trick!


I think it's nice to brag on your students every now and then....

God knows we complain about them enough.
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Adventurer



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PostPosted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 9:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm no Picasso wrote:
Yesterday wrote:
congratulations!! from reading your post - I am really not sure - what we are supposed to say??

but congratlations for a new waste of space of Daves - just to slow the site down more - you did the trick!


I think it's nice to brag on your students every now and then....

God knows we complain about them enough.


Yeah! I mean kids at such a young age saying such a thing shows bonding with the teach and showing universal values.
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fermentation



Joined: 22 Jun 2009

PostPosted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 5:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's sad, because after highschool they'll be robots.

A few years back when I was teaching English, I brought kit-kats and Twix bars to class to show them American candy. Only to realize they have them here, or at least, have Korean imitations of them.
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oldfatfarang



Joined: 19 May 2005
Location: On the road to somewhere.

PostPosted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 6:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Out of the mouth of babes:
Yesterday, a first year middle school girl asked me:
"Are you leaving this school?"
Me: Yes.
"Why are you leaving?"
Me: No reply.
"You changed. You old now!"

Thanks dear. Just what I need to hear right now.
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Whitey Otez



Joined: 31 May 2003
Location: The suburbs of Seoul

PostPosted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 10:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm no Picasso wrote:


They've come to be very comfortable with me over the course of the last nine months. I work at a school in a mostly poor neighborhood with boys who have very low level English and little to no exposure to foreigners. It was rough going at first, but I really feel like a part of the 'family' at my school now. That is due almost entirely to the kindness and openness of my students. These days, they are helping me study Korean, practicing my dialogues for class with me over and over again until I can pronounce them perfectly. They're good boys. I'm going to genuinely miss nearly every one of them when they go on to high school.


My director would have had a serious talk with you about who is being paid money to teach and who is paying money to learn, and which language is supposed to be taught.

Good on you for the sweet gig.

With regard to students....they're cool. In your early years, you pity them for their "hard" life of constant study. Your favorite students sometimes quit without any notice at all, and you never see them again. In your middle years, you learn that their mothers tend to their affairs hand and foot, and these kids don't have to lift a finger around the house. You try to teach the ones that want to learn, and keep the cross-eyed A.I.T.s out of your supplies. Towards the end, you see that this is not a society of people reflecting fondly on their past teachers and experiences, and you're really just teaching English and making no lasting impact. The next guy comes in, and you're just some smelly old foreign guy that spoiled their good times and freaked them out. A couple of months later, you're barely remembered as the butt of some old jokes. I find that I remember and cared for the students far more than vice versa.
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AgDragon01



Joined: 13 Nov 2008

PostPosted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 10:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yesterday wrote:
congratulations!! from reading your post - I am really not sure - what we are supposed to say??

but congratlations for a new waste of space of Daves - just to slow the site down more - you did the trick!


this, ftw.
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I'm no Picasso



Joined: 28 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Thu Jul 09, 2009 6:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Whitey Otez wrote:
I'm no Picasso wrote:


They've come to be very comfortable with me over the course of the last nine months. I work at a school in a mostly poor neighborhood with boys who have very low level English and little to no exposure to foreigners. It was rough going at first, but I really feel like a part of the 'family' at my school now. That is due almost entirely to the kindness and openness of my students. These days, they are helping me study Korean, practicing my dialogues for class with me over and over again until I can pronounce them perfectly. They're good boys. I'm going to genuinely miss nearly every one of them when they go on to high school.


My director would have had a serious talk with you about who is being paid money to teach and who is paying money to learn, and which language is supposed to be taught.

Good on you for the sweet gig.



About the students who come to visit me regularly during lunch time and their breaks to chat in English, who saw that I was working on my Korean homework and wanted to help? Well. My principal could talk away with me about that, if he spoke English.....
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Emeliu



Joined: 31 Mar 2009
Location: Korea, i'm OMW

PostPosted: Thu Jul 09, 2009 6:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I once tutored a Korean girl who was doing 8AM to 1AM every day, I had to tutor her from 12 to 1 (in the states). They're robots when they're young too.
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Whitey Otez



Joined: 31 May 2003
Location: The suburbs of Seoul

PostPosted: Tue Jul 14, 2009 1:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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About the students who come to visit me regularly during lunch time and their breaks to chat in English, who saw that I was working on my Korean homework and wanted to help? Well. My principal could talk away with me about that, if he spoke English.....


Oops, my bad. Embarassed Sorry for assuming this was how you spend time in classes.

If they are visiting you during non-class times and you don't mind, then my boss would love you.
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I'm no Picasso



Joined: 28 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Tue Jul 14, 2009 3:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Whitey Otez wrote:
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About the students who come to visit me regularly during lunch time and their breaks to chat in English, who saw that I was working on my Korean homework and wanted to help? Well. My principal could talk away with me about that, if he spoke English.....


Oops, my bad. Embarassed Sorry for assuming this was how you spend time in classes.

If they are visiting you during non-class times and you don't mind, then my boss would love you.


With 45 teenage boys to a class, I don't have time to wipe the sweat from my brow, let alone whip out ye ole Korean homework. And of course I don't mind. My job would be a dead bore without their little lunchtime antics. Plus, like I said, no one in my Korean class had a chance at outshining me on that dialogue, with their help....
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