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Pwillig



Joined: 26 Jan 2009

PostPosted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 6:49 pm    Post subject: What to Do When You Stop Caring? Reply with quote

I may catch some flak for this, but I am in my seventh month of teaching at this rural middle school, and I've all but stopped caring. I came here with no prior teaching experience, but I had ideas on how to teach from learning German and Japanese in college. I was under the impression that as an assistant teacher, classes would be planned and taught under a cooperative effort. Oops.

I "teach" classes with 30 students in them and normally I just have to make up lesson plans from nowhere and build them from scratch since my CTs don't tell me what the students should be learning or where the students are with grammar. The books are absolutely horrendous with no coherent point to the chapters (aside from the new 1st grader's book). Whenever I try to teach something that requires the slightest bit of effort, the students shut down and start using their handouts as sketchpads or paper airplanes.

The only grade that is divided by skill level is the 3rd grade, but even divided, the skill level varies so greatly I can't do anything that incorporates the whole class. Then again, it doesn't matter what I teach because the students know they won't be tested on it.

The 1st graders are the only grade I care about because they pay attention and actually try. They've shown nothing but progress and enthusiasm since day one. It also helps my CT for the 1st graders actually gives me some clue as to what I should be teaching them.

TL;DR Version: The students and the CTs don't care. Why should I?
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D.D.



Joined: 29 May 2008

PostPosted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 6:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

One of the lessons of being a leader is to keep trying when they are not. That what makes someone stand out from the crowd.
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NilesQ



Joined: 27 Nov 2006

PostPosted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 6:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have found that the key is to not care about their reaction. I care about how I prepare and the effort I put in. If I don't I feel bad about myself. I don't care whether or not the students want to participate. Find the students who do. There are always a few. Work with them and do your best. Keep focusing on good activities that you would have liked at that age, usually something that gets them to yell.
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Fishead soup



Joined: 24 Jun 2007
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 6:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You see a direct correlation between the quality of your materials and the quality of your teaching that's good. I try to seek out good materials and let the KET use the text book. Don't rely on your Korean co-teacher for good advice/feedback. Most feedback I've gotten from Korean co-teachers has been too little, too late, and too vague.

Look for the online textbook Tell Me More by Andrew Finch. Also join the website EFL Classroom 2.2 do a google/yahhoo search. I don't have the link handy or contact dduebels on this site.
Try to get a laptop computed that you can use with your schools TV sets.
Once you do that you can play a lot more games like Baam and Jeopardy.
Put the classes into teams. download Power point presentations for teaching things like directions.
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NilesQ



Joined: 27 Nov 2006

PostPosted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 7:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I play a fun game called Sentence Auction. Use whatever structures they are learning/have learned recently. Make a list of sentences, some correct, some not. Each team has a budget and they bid on the sentences. The team who buys the greatest # of correct sentences wins. This is so fun. You talk like an auctioneer, try to convince them to buy incorrect sentences, make fake money and take it when they buy sentences. They get so into it that I sometimes need 2 classes to finish one game! Give it a try. ONLY ENGLISH BIDS ACCEPTED!
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lifeinkorea



Joined: 24 Jan 2009
Location: somewhere in China

PostPosted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 7:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

With middle schoolers, the older ones study a lot. It's not that they don't want to study English, but they are under pressure to study for tests. If you talk to them between classes, they are often more receptive.

I found the first year students to be the most difficult, which I ended up dividing into boys and girls groups. I would divide the second year ones into smaller groups. Give them "play time" while you work with one group. You can try to teach them in smaller groups and you may need to go slower. I mostly did dialogues.

With the third year ones, I would get them writing a journal of some sort. This could be on the computer or just in a notebook. What did they do today, or what will they do? Weekend plans? Trips, etc..

Get them independently managing their time, and they will use their energy more effectively.

NilesQ, that is an awesome idea. I would like to add it to my bank of stuff at http://englishlessons.wikispaces.com
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andrewchon



Joined: 16 Nov 2008
Location: Back in Oz. Living in ISIS Aust.

PostPosted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 8:47 pm    Post subject: When you stop caring Reply with quote

Then I'd got nuts! Break all the rules of the game. ESL teaching rules that is. Do the things you never did before like:
-hand out a corporal punishment
-take the students out to the play ground and play 'lost patrol'
-start teasing trouble makers mercilessly
-tell some knock knock jokes
-play youtube videos non stop
-have a push up contest
-hand out some more corporal punishment
-tease trouble makers until they cry
-show them how to give a wedgee

You don't care anymore? Then go and have some fun!
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Cerulean



Joined: 19 Aug 2009

PostPosted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 10:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sorry you're feeling this way buddy. You're not alone in experiencing a low point in this job. There are some good ideas here to try. If it hasn't picked up for you after you've done all you could, then either re-think this job or change schools. Good luck and hang in there.
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Pwillig



Joined: 26 Jan 2009

PostPosted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 10:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thanks for the ideas, all. I really shouldn't take it that personally that my students don't care. Apart from the 1st graders, they have some of the worst attitudes I've ever seen. Then again, I found out my particular school receives the underachievers and troublemakers from the two neighboring cities.

Guess it's up to me to do what I can do and reach the few who actually care.
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Hornbill



Joined: 09 Sep 2009

PostPosted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 10:38 pm    Post subject: Re: What to Do When You Stop Caring? Reply with quote

Pwillig wrote:
I may catch some flak for this, but I am in my seventh month of teaching at this rural middle school, and I've all but stopped caring. I came here with no prior teaching experience, but I had ideas on how to teach from learning German and Japanese in college. I was under the impression that as an assistant teacher, classes would be planned and taught under a cooperative effort. Oops.

I "teach" classes with 30 students in them and normally I just have to make up lesson plans from nowhere and build them from scratch since my CTs don't tell me what the students should be learning or where the students are with grammar. The books are absolutely horrendous with no coherent point to the chapters (aside from the new 1st grader's book). Whenever I try to teach something that requires the slightest bit of effort, the students shut down and start using their handouts as sketchpads or paper airplanes.

The only grade that is divided by skill level is the 3rd grade, but even divided, the skill level varies so greatly I can't do anything that incorporates the whole class. Then again, it doesn't matter what I teach because the students know they won't be tested on it.

The 1st graders are the only grade I care about because they pay attention and actually try. They've shown nothing but progress and enthusiasm since day one. It also helps my CT for the 1st graders actually gives me some clue as to what I should be teaching them.

TL;DR Version: The students and the CTs don't care. Why should I?


You're not in Korea to teach. Your role is to be a walking billboard, a scapegoat, a piggy bank, and an entertainer, teacher roles that are the norm in (east) Asia. Trying to be a real teacher means you will be doing what teachers back in the west do. In the west, we believe that common people are capable of great things and that 'all men are created equal'. The far majority of the world doesn't believe in these ideals. Korea fits in this category. You start trying to be a western-style teacher in Korea, you'll inadvertently be fiddling with the Face ladder. Your trip to the airport will soon follow, as you'll be unemployed before too long.
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Hornbill



Joined: 09 Sep 2009

PostPosted: Mon Sep 14, 2009 7:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

D.D. wrote:
One of the lessons of being a leader is to keep trying when they are not. That what makes someone stand out from the crowd.


I used to think this way, and then I got realistic quit playing the fool. Now I only teach students who are willing to meet me at least part-way by accepting their responsibility as students. I've been to too many bus stations, banks, et al where I needed an enterpreter because the people running those didn't study when they were supposed to.

Playing the fool only makes you a true fool in the end. Raise your standards and stick to them. I used to teach at a Thailand high school. I spent a year there spinning my wheels when I should have been teaching real students. Today I'd not last two days in that school, assuming I'd be dumb enough to stumble into it in the first place, which I'm not.
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isthisreally



Joined: 01 Sep 2007

PostPosted: Mon Sep 14, 2009 2:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I find that teaching and living here goes in cycles. It's hard to be motivated when you came over here to pay your loans and you get the same reward no matter what you do in the classroom. Take it as it is, don't feel bad about your reaction and think about how you want to be living your life.
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TheUrbanMyth



Joined: 28 Jan 2003
Location: Retired

PostPosted: Mon Sep 14, 2009 6:40 pm    Post subject: Re: What to Do When You Stop Caring? Reply with quote

Hornbill wrote:
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You're not in Korea to teach.
Your role is to be a walking billboard, a scapegoat, a piggy bank, and an entertainer, teacher roles that are the norm in (east) Asia. Trying to be a real teacher means you will be doing what teachers back in the west do. In the west, we believe that common people are capable of great things and that 'all men are created equal'. The far majority of the world doesn't believe in these ideals. Korea fits in this category. You start trying to be a western-style teacher in Korea, you'll inadvertently be fiddling with the Face ladder. Your trip to the airport will soon follow, as you'll be unemployed before too long.



This is the biggest load of tripe I have ever read. Don't make excuses for your inability to teach by making silly claims like the above.
Yes if you can't teach you might as well be a walking billboard.

I was a teacher back home and am one here as well. Nine years and counting and I don't see a trip to the airport anytime in the near future.
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PRagic



Joined: 24 Feb 2006

PostPosted: Mon Sep 14, 2009 7:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sounds like you're in a rut. Happens. You'll sort it out soon enough. Good luck to you.
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dragon777



Joined: 06 Dec 2007

PostPosted: Mon Sep 14, 2009 7:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Change the focus of your lessons to talking(oral English) and get away from the text book for a while. Really get to know your students in groups of four or six. Adapt a carefree attitude and relax. The only one beating yourself up is you. In the end it is just not worth the stress or worry(of not doing a good job). Assign a writing task for the students to do while they wait for you to chat with them. Have some fun with the class and you will see some positive results.
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