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df1983



Joined: 15 Aug 2009
Location: Pyongtaek, Korea

PostPosted: Sun Sep 20, 2009 6:32 pm    Post subject: Asked to share apartment with korean co-worker Reply with quote

I am supposed to start in Korea Oct 1st. I signed a contract for a non-shared apartment. I got an email today asking me if I minded sharing an apartment with a Korean coworker for the first two months. After two months I would be moving into my own place. Is this normal? This is my first job in Korea and I really don't want to move into an apartment with someone I have never met before. How would the people who have more experience with private schools deal with this situation? I don't want to get off on the wrong foot but at the same time I don't want to live with someone I don't know... Especially if they are co-workers. If I absolutely HAD to do it... I would, but I really don't want to.
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halfmanhalfbiscuit



Joined: 13 Oct 2007
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Sun Sep 20, 2009 6:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

2 becomes 3, becomes 4 etc. The co-worker moves out, a random person moves in. You get the picture.

If they can't be organised enough to have your accommodation sorted out, it will merely be a sign of things to come.
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kaosjin



Joined: 06 Sep 2007

PostPosted: Sun Sep 20, 2009 6:45 pm    Post subject: shared Reply with quote

Say no and request your own flat like your contract states.
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OculisOrbis



Joined: 17 Jul 2006

PostPosted: Sun Sep 20, 2009 6:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yes, I mind. It is unacceptable. If you can't find a single, unshared apartment, like you agreed to in our contract, then I will not be working for you. I hope you can resolve this before Oct. Please send me the address and photos of the apartment that you have rented for me, otherwise I will not be getting on the plane to go to Korea.
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yingwenlaoshi



Joined: 12 Feb 2007
Location: ... location, location!

PostPosted: Sun Sep 20, 2009 7:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

These guys are getting awefully brave...

Like today. I get a call for a job and they want me to come for an interview NOW. Christ almighty. I said that tomorrow is good and they say that they can't. Haven't slept all night and now I'm going for an interview. Oh boy!
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cruisemonkey



Joined: 04 Jul 2005
Location: Hopefully, the same place as my luggage.

PostPosted: Sun Sep 20, 2009 7:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

OP,

'Listen' and repeat...
"No."
"No."
"No."

Once you have it 'down pat', this skill will serve you well in K-land.
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tenchu77491



Joined: 16 Mar 2009

PostPosted: Sun Sep 20, 2009 7:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

OculisOrbis wrote:
Yes, I mind. It is unacceptable. If you can't find a single, unshared apartment, like you agreed to in our contract, then I will not be working for you. I hope you can resolve this before Oct. Please send me the address and photos of the apartment that you have rented for me, otherwise I will not be getting on the plane to go to Korea.


Ai, could have put it a different way. I am all for sticking to your contract but you really don't want to get off on the wrong foot. These people could make your life a living hell. I would try politely and gently first. If they insist then get rock hard on their ass.
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Xuanzang



Joined: 10 Apr 2007
Location: Sadang

PostPosted: Sun Sep 20, 2009 7:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Read the thread by UCLAgirl. Then say no as many times as necessary.
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Clockout



Joined: 23 Feb 2009

PostPosted: Sun Sep 20, 2009 8:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Could be a cool experience
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spanglish



Joined: 03 Jun 2009

PostPosted: Sun Sep 20, 2009 9:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sounds like you should hold them to their word. BUT, coming from someone teaching in Latin America who's never been to Asia - where I am a contract that included shared housing would highly coveted. Typical contracts in Latin America are just enough money to eat and save up for you plane trip back home. So just a reminder to teachers in Korea - be grateful!
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tenchu77491



Joined: 16 Mar 2009

PostPosted: Sun Sep 20, 2009 9:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

spanglish wrote:
Sounds like you should hold them to their word. BUT, coming from someone teaching in Latin America who's never been to Asia - where I am a contract that included shared housing would highly coveted. Typical contracts in Latin America are just enough money to eat and save up for you plane trip back home. So just a reminder to teachers in Korea - be grateful!


Why would we be greatful? If it's such a crapshoot in Latin America why would anyone take the job? I am sure they could just as easily come to Korea or someplace better.
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T-dot



Joined: 16 May 2004
Location: bundang

PostPosted: Sun Sep 20, 2009 9:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

First ask for some necessary info on your new potential roommate.

Things like age, height, weight and marital status etc...; you know the essentials. Then ask for further proof with a picture and video call over the internet.

or you could just say No.
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Murakano



Joined: 10 Sep 2009

PostPosted: Sun Sep 20, 2009 9:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

T-dot wrote:
First ask for some necessary info on your new potential roommate.

Things like age, height, weight and marital status etc...; you know the essentials. Then ask for further proof with a picture and video call over the internet.

or you could just say No.


yep, basically......is she hot? Laughing

but in all seriousness.....no it's not the norm and I would not accept it. 2 months will more than likely not be 2 months.
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iggyb



Joined: 29 Oct 2003

PostPosted: Sun Sep 20, 2009 10:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Don't do it.

For everybody: I don't have time these days to read the forum everyday or extensively, but as I've been hunting for jobs, it seems to me institutes are shifting their contracts to meet the reality of the high demand for jobs.

I seem to see more specific job items - like females wanted or gyopos or Americans or Canadians-only, and so on.

Salaries seem to have dropped some.

And in the last couple of days I've noticed hakwons with 6-days a week classes. No housing (and not being an adult, Seoul hakwon). And now a note on shared housing...

...It sounds to me like the industry might be trying to shift back to what was normal in the late 1990s to 2001 or so...
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yingwenlaoshi



Joined: 12 Feb 2007
Location: ... location, location!

PostPosted: Sun Sep 20, 2009 11:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

iggyb wrote:
Don't do it.

For everybody: I don't have time these days to read the forum everyday or extensively, but as I've been hunting for jobs, it seems to me institutes are shifting their contracts to meet the reality of the high demand for jobs.

I seem to see more specific job items - like females wanted or gyopos or Americans or Canadians-only, and so on.

Salaries seem to have dropped some.

And in the last couple of days I've noticed hakwons with 6-days a week classes. No housing (and not being an adult, Seoul hakwon). And now a note on shared housing...

...It sounds to me like the industry might be trying to shift back to what was normal in the late 1990s to 2001 or so...


Well that's what they do here. "Oh we're in power now. Let's treat the teachers like crap." Then there will be more runners, people quitting, asserting themselves, etc and they'll blame the evil foreigners.

Gee, what came first? Hmm.
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