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toadhjo



Joined: 07 Apr 2009

PostPosted: Tue Oct 13, 2009 11:01 pm    Post subject: Giving a presentation about western table manners... Reply with quote

I'm supposed to give a short (~5 minute) presentation about western table manners. I'm just looking for a couple more things that might be useful to say. I already have the following:

1) Don�t reach across the table!
2) Don�t talk with your mouth full!
3) Say good things about the food!
4) Only eat from your plate! Each person has their own food!
5) Don�t rest your elbows on the table!

Oh, and it's for public elementary students, and my co-teacher may or may not translate, so simple suggestions that I can reinforce with pictures would be best.
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detourne_me



Joined: 26 May 2006

PostPosted: Tue Oct 13, 2009 11:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Don't chew with your mouth open
Ask politely to "pass the salt"
Place a napkin on your lap
the proper way to hold a spoon, fork and knife?
Then show them this:
http://www.ucs.louisiana.edu/~mmb4450/table_setting.jpg
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blackjack



Joined: 04 Jan 2006
Location: anyang

PostPosted: Tue Oct 13, 2009 11:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

how to hold a knife and fork.

don't eat off your knife.

eat soups with the spoon going away from away from you.

taste the food before adding salt or pepper

don't you your fork as a spoon

don't start eating till the head of the table does.

Make no sound while eating

ask before leaving the table
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benji



Joined: 21 Jul 2009

PostPosted: Tue Oct 13, 2009 11:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dont sit on the floor.
If its a restaurant, no yelling at the servers to come over.
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kabrams



Joined: 15 Mar 2008
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PostPosted: Tue Oct 13, 2009 11:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Don't play with your food!

Don't point with silverware (especially not knives, lol!)

You do not have to finish all the food on your plate, but if you want seconds, you have to finish the food on your plate first.

Don't wear a hat/cap/coat.

Put a napkin on your chair if you want to leave for a moment.

Very Happy

This is an interesting topic, not just for your class.
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blackjack



Joined: 04 Jan 2006
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PostPosted: Tue Oct 13, 2009 11:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

kabrams wrote:
Don't play with your food!
Don't point with silverware (especially not knives, lol!)
You do not have to finish all the food on your plate, but if you want seconds, you have to finish the food on your plate first.

Very Happy

This is an interesting topic, not just for your class.


In my family we did. even if it meant staying at the table to 10 at night
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proustme



Joined: 13 Jun 2009
Location: Nowon-gu

PostPosted: Tue Oct 13, 2009 11:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Don't stuff a softball-size ball of rice and galbi wrapped in lettuce into your mouth.
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kinerry



Joined: 01 Jun 2009

PostPosted: Wed Oct 14, 2009 1:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

blackjack wrote:
how to hold a knife and fork.

don't eat off your knife.

eat soups with the spoon going away from away from you.

taste the food before adding salt or pepper

don't you your fork as a spoon

don't start eating till the head of the table does.

Make no sound while eating

ask before leaving the table


We need to clarify what kind of manners. Daily manners...there really aren't any. Proper table manners...way too many to list.

I usually don't follow any unless it's out of respect.
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sugarkane59



Joined: 10 Jun 2009
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Wed Oct 14, 2009 1:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Don't lick your knife, bowl or plate clean!

If you are picking your teeth with a toothpick, cover your mouth/toothpicking action with the whole of your other hand. But who does this at the table any more anyway???
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blackjack



Joined: 04 Jan 2006
Location: anyang

PostPosted: Wed Oct 14, 2009 1:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

kinerry wrote:
blackjack wrote:
how to hold a knife and fork.

don't eat off your knife.

eat soups with the spoon going away from away from you.

taste the food before adding salt or pepper

don't you your fork as a spoon

don't start eating till the head of the table does.

Make no sound while eating

ask before leaving the table


We need to clarify what kind of manners. Daily manners...there really aren't any. Proper table manners...way too many to list.

I usually don't follow any unless it's out of respect.


My parents were very strict when it came to table manners, so I practice all of these daily.

Here's another one, never drink out of the bowl
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themagicbean



Joined: 04 Feb 2009

PostPosted: Wed Oct 14, 2009 3:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

fork and knife next to each other at about the 4:30 point on the plate indicate you are finished.

fork and knife on either side of the plate, with each utensil crossing onto the plate, heads facing each other, not touching each other though (like connecting them is an invisible horizontal line that bisects the plate) indicates you are pausing

utensils: start on the outside, work your way in

don't blow on your soup to cool it

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blackjack



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PostPosted: Wed Oct 14, 2009 3:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

At the end of the meal place the knife and forks together in a 45 degree facing away from you
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fermentation



Joined: 22 Jun 2009

PostPosted: Wed Oct 14, 2009 3:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You guys do all that? The only thing I keep in mind is to chew with my mouth shut and to not talk with my mouth full. Sometimes the latter is difficult when some people constantly ask me questions right as I'm taking a bite.
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kinerry



Joined: 01 Jun 2009

PostPosted: Wed Oct 14, 2009 5:40 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

fermentation wrote:
You guys do all that? The only thing I keep in mind is to chew with my mouth shut and to not talk with my mouth full. Sometimes the latter is difficult when some people constantly ask me questions right as I'm taking a bite.


Some of us didn't have trust funds or mommy and daddy to pay our expenses, so we get away with having some personality and not following every rule.
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jdunca12



Joined: 06 Oct 2009

PostPosted: Wed Oct 14, 2009 5:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

kinerry wrote:
fermentation wrote:
You guys do all that? The only thing I keep in mind is to chew with my mouth shut and to not talk with my mouth full. Sometimes the latter is difficult when some people constantly ask me questions right as I'm taking a bite.


Some of us didn't have trust funds or mommy and daddy to pay our expenses, so we get away with having some personality and not following every rule.


Someone needs a hug.



As to the OP, day to day, I would say chew with your mouth closed; don't talk with food in your mouth; keep your elbows off the table; also, let left handed people have a corner seat so they're not busting elbows with someone else.
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