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[DWAEJIMORIGUKBAP]

VERY OFF TOPIC. Be warned.

So a friend slept with this girl a few times recently. She never has an o.

She talked to him about it and said she never has had one. Not shy about it at all (which makes him think she's telling porkies)

He was like 'really? even if you d.i.y. or use a really fancy dil or something? (The fact that she owns one suggests to him she can have them - or why would she bother using one???) Or with the hottest / best lover you ever had?

She insists not. Other girls he's been with have had them. Or say they have and certainly seem to have ha ha... damn that movie with goldie Hawn....

A. Is this possible?
B. Would a girl lie about this? I mean all she'd need to do is just say it's him not doing it right and then give him some pointers about what she likes.... so why lie?
C. She still wants to go to bed with him! Does that indicate that she's in fact being truthful?

Lord it's very eherm, confusing and he doesn't want to keep going on about it to her. She's not in this industry and doesn't use this thread, she'd be too busy.

Some other factors. She's American. She's young still (mid thirties.) She can't possibly have any body issues that are causing this as she is pretty much a ten out of ten if you can believe that really exists.... Trust me I've seen her...

Any ideas?

I'm not sure what to tell him and I don't want to hurt his ego in anyway so I change the subject a lot or just say 'things will work out ha ha....'

Lol....

[Draz]

Female orgasm is not like male orgasm where you need the release. With men, if you don't have an orgasm through sex or whatever, it will happen anyway. It is not the same with women. It's entirely possible she's telling the truth. About everything.

The vibe? Obviously she's heard of orgasms, and would have at least tried to have one. Doesn't mean she succeeded. Sounds like she has the wrong kind, for starters. The big fancy dildos are for experienced women. Tell your friend to get her a pocket rocket.

[calicoe]

Tell your friend to go down on her. Give her a chance to feel comfortable around you - uhm - your friend. Even with the most experienced women, sometimes it just takes more time for us to relax with someone, unless of course they prefer we fake it.

I did lie once about this. It was with one of the loves of my life, and my first o. I lied, because he had a huge ego as it was, lol. But he knew. I still love that guy ....

[DWAEJIMORIGUKBAP]

[mayorgc]

Use the Nina Hartley Col. Angus technique. It's nothing like what you'd see in a porno movie and I know it works well because you can see the contractions if you're doing it right..

[Khenan]

[DWAEJIMORIGUKBAP]

^^ okay, don't ever go out drinking with me and my friend.

Your input was very useful.

Moving on.

[madtownhustl]

good luck. i hope it works out for you... buy a kama sutra book. could help.

[.38 Special]

Women got it rough, mi ami. Menstruation, pregnancy, and the difficulty of orgasm. Most women may not achieve real orgasm until their mid twenties. Some women may never. She is probably telling the truth.

Something to keep in mind: getting off and having an orgasm are two different things with a woman. Tell your friend to keep on trucking. She, it seems by what you've written thus far, isn't the worse for the wear because of it.

Bon chance.

[DrugstoreCowgirl]

Just because she's never had an o doesn't mean sex isn't enjoyable.

[mayorgc]

[DrugstoreCowgirl]

[mayorgc]

Is it a mental pleasure or a physical pleasure? Is it more pleasurable than an ?

I read for example that some girls loved doggy style more than the feeling of orgasm.

So if all you recieved from sex was this "pleasure" and no orgasm, would you be satisfied?

[DrugstoreCowgirl]

[MollyBloom]