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usaenglish13



Joined: 15 Jun 2009

PostPosted: Sun Dec 06, 2009 12:33 pm    Post subject: Marriage/Visa Questions Reply with quote

I think I am going to get married but I also don't want to be financially responsible for the woman in any way if things don't pan out. She's fine with this. I don't have any experience with the legal side of this and I am not sure about the process for changing my visa.

My first question is: How long does the F2 process actually take once the marriage is finished?

I'd be interested to hear if there are any other experiences with pre-nuptial agreements. I am more worried about being covered in Korea than the United States if a divorce happens. What are the costs for lawyer fees?



BTW: if your inclination is to respond to this by saying "if you are already worried about pre-nuptial then you should reconsider bla bla bla..." don't bother. Nobody's interested.
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storysinger81



Joined: 25 Mar 2007
Location: Daegu

PostPosted: Sun Dec 06, 2009 2:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you're planning to stay in Korea, divorce law favors the man. Should balance out if you're a foreigner to about even. Get a lawyer to deal with pre-nup stuff. Don't trust what you hear on Dave's... it's your life.

BTW dude, if a bad girl is marrying you just to fleece you, she'll figure out how to do it, pre-nup or no (like say... emptying your bank accounts and running off to Australia). Trust is important.
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mc_jc



Joined: 13 Aug 2009
Location: C4B- Cp Red Cloud, Area-I

PostPosted: Sun Dec 06, 2009 2:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

This has got to be the most interesting post I have seen all week.

Another foreigner hurrying to get married so he could get an F-2 visa because he doesn't have to go through the hassles of getting an E-2.

Sounds like a cowardly cop-out to me.

Divorce laws favor the man, but they don't really favor the foreigner.
As the poster above said- go see a lawyer and have him draw up a prenuptial agreement. Then drag her to the office to have her sign it.

Also, make sure she is not on any of your accounts and don't have access to your debit cards and make sure you hide your wallet under your pillow- I mean, why bother if you fear the worst?
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usaenglish13



Joined: 15 Jun 2009

PostPosted: Sun Dec 06, 2009 2:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

mc_jc wrote:


Another foreigner hurrying to get married so he could get an F-2 visa because he doesn't have to go through the hassles of getting an E-2.

Sounds like a cowardly cop-out to me.


That's really not true. I dont plan on staying much longer. I am, however, a heavy drinker, and Ive managed to turn more than one woman against me. Id be doing the exact same thing in the US and I think its fair to say that the K girls can get more dramatic. Id just rather have the whole thing not be an issue.

Specifically though, I am more curious about what a lawyer should cost for something like this.
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mc_jc



Joined: 13 Aug 2009
Location: C4B- Cp Red Cloud, Area-I

PostPosted: Sun Dec 06, 2009 4:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I am.... a heavy drinker

Hang off the booze and problem solved.

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I dont plan on staying much longer.

Then why apply for an F-2 visa? Applying for that implies that you intend on being in Korea on a long-term basis.

FYI- the visa in invalid if you are out of Korea longer than a year and I think you want to apply for an F-5 visa, which is permanent residency. You can divorce and stay in Korea on an F-5, not F-2. But that entails you staying married between 2-3 years before you are even entitled to that.

Do a search on the F-5 visa, there is ton of information on that.

I have an A-2 visa (SOFA), so I don't need to get married to stay in Korea long-term. And if I have legal issues, I go to the Legal Affairs office on Yongsan Army Garrison where I work.

I would advise you to contact a law office and see how much they charge for something like that. Have your "fiance" look one up that speaks English.
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