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[Wintermute321]

So I've been here a bit and been unable to meet any Korean girls. Does anybody know any good dating website to meet locals or any other places to meet Korean girls?

[seoulsucker]

How long is "a bit?" Sorry, had to ask.

[esetters21]

[jadarite]

I met my Korean girlfriend through http://koreanfriendfinder.com/

It only cost me like 25 bucks, LOL. You can also try http://www.hanlingo.com

[samcheokguy]

Everyone with a 'good' korean girlfriend is such a statistical bizzare event, that one shouldn't even try, and simply hope for the best.

[DrunkenMaster]

That hasn't been my experience (or my friends')

[bassexpander]

www.ublove.com

Some basic rules to follow:

1. If she won't kiss you within a month, dump her. In fact, if nothing happens, you should try to kiss her on the 3rd date. She will pull away at least twice (try 3 times to kiss her on that 3rd date). The third time, she should kiss you. If she doesn't, then dump her. She's using you for English practice and probably has a boyfriend.

2. If she keeps canceling on you at the last minute before a date, dump her without hesitation.

3. If she can't free up both a Friday and a Saturday night for you in a row on a weekend, then dump her. She has a boyfriend.

4. If you like a girl, you must SHOW it here. Don't play the coy western guy who decides not to call her for a few days. You'll lose out. If you don't call her at least once per day, she will assume you don't like her, or might even think you are angry. This is a cultural difference. Korean guys will call 2 to 3 times a day, often times, and text a lot, as well.

[kasain]

www..koreancupid.com

Man you got weird roles.

I been in Korea about 16 months. I met a few through online websites. Others I meet in person.

I say don't force yourself on a woman and she will be yours. Seems most korean guys are mean or two drunk and learn notto express the feelings. In addition most woman are told to keep them in.

Cook her a westen dinner. She will be yours in bed. I had many end up there that way.

Recently last 7 months. I stayed with one I met on that website. She wont let me buy her anything, with the exception of recently of a bookshelf. But she stays the night, enjoys western food, and no matter where I take her many people are always checking her out.

And she doesnt want no US card.

In the end treat the woman nicely and ANY woman will be yours.

[samcheokguy]

the women in potato land suck, and not in a good way.

[ldh2222]

So how ugly are you?

[Paddycakes]

[Papa Smurf]

[quote="bassexpander"
4. If you like a girl, you must SHOW it here. Don't play the coy western guy who decides not to call her for a few days. You'll lose out. If you don't call her at least once per day, she will assume you don't like her, or might even think you are angry. This is a cultural difference. Korean guys will call 2 to 3 times a day, often times, and text a lot, as well.[/quote]

shit....i think i've been f---ing up on this one. thanks for the heads up. i do text a fair bit tho.....if i like her i wont wait more than a day to text her.

dont want to hijack but im going to have to...lend me your ear, if you will.

i'm playing the dating game right now. there are 4 girls im dating. 3 in the past week....the other one i havent seen for 2 or 3 weeks but she sends me the odd text now and then. not too fussed about her though.

anyway....2 of the other girls will text back really quickly every single time i text and we can go through 10 or so a day (yeah maybe i need to get a life). the other one....the super hottie...not so much. she has initiated text conversations but takes ages to text back and im usually the last one to send one.....yeah i feel like a total loser for analysing it this much...but just wondering if this is showing no interest by korean standards....

cheers

[victorology]

[red_devil]

Beware of the "plastic beauties".

[samcheokguy]