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Olivencia
Joined: 08 Mar 2009
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Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 7:09 pm Post subject: Homosexual "marriage" |
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If it's ok for the queers why not:
a. Polygamists?
b. Those who want to marry their sister, brother, father, mother, etc?
c. An animal? |
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Fox

Joined: 04 Mar 2009
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Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 7:31 pm Post subject: Re: Homosexual "marriage" |
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Olivencia wrote: |
If it's ok for the queers why not:
a. Polygamists?
b. Those who want to marry their sister, brother, father, mother, etc?
c. An animal? |
All fine, they should all be legal. Good luck getting an animal to legally consent, though; the legal consent of all parties should be required. Maybe a dolphin or chimp could consent in some sense, I guess? |
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runthegauntlet

Joined: 02 Dec 2007 Location: the southlands.
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Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 8:15 pm Post subject: Re: Homosexual "marriage" |
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Olivencia wrote: |
If it's ok for the queers why not:
a. Polygamists?
b. Those who want to marry their sister, brother, father, mother, etc?
c. An animal? |
We get it. You're a fundamental bigot who denies science, love, and women's rights. And probably employs a literal interpretation of the bible, right?
Yes, that is an ad hominem. But seriously, that this mindset is both tolerated and ENCOURAGED by the religious right is egregious and absurd. And here you are projecting it as if you're setting a precedent for some sort of delusional moral high road. It's ridiculous.
Reading your last three threads is like sitting in a Southern Baptist church pew listening to some middle aged preacher thumping his bible while condemning anyone that doesn't agree to hell. |
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banjois

Joined: 14 Nov 2009
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Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 8:44 pm Post subject: |
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I grew up Catholic, walked completely away from it, but still get the occasional religious pang.
Then I encounter people like you and remember why I left.
Why do Christians consistently have to wreck Christianity and ignore some of its most fundamental precepts?
On a side note, a dolphin wife would be tons of fun. Nothing but swimming around all day, and then going fishing when you get bored or hungry. |
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banjois

Joined: 14 Nov 2009
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Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 8:48 pm Post subject: |
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I mean, I understand reservations about gay marriage. I don't have any, but I GET why people might have them. It's a pretty big change to the established order, and I respect somebody's right to say "not for me, thanks" or a church's right not to marry gay people. I'll even listen to those who would argue against it from a rational and respectful perspective. But there's no excuse for being a hateful bigot. Ever. Jesus would look down his nose at you, sigh, and walk away. |
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Olivencia
Joined: 08 Mar 2009
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Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 9:10 pm Post subject: |
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So many people to respond to so this wil be my last post. One on one debate you'd be slaughtered.
1. Yes a dolphin or chimp could consent.
2. rinthegauntlet try dealing with the facts of this thread. It's people like you I crush in one on one debates...keep up the bad work
3. banjopis one of the fundamental precepts is obedience. You simply want to pick and choose what YOU want to obey...selective obedience. Nope sorry doesn't work that way.
Hateful? We are to hate evil...that is a biblical command. And we are to obey those commands because of love. Do some investigation on what the Bible actually says rather than what you choose to superimpose. |
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Sergio Stefanuto
Joined: 14 May 2009 Location: UK
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Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 9:13 pm Post subject: Re: Homosexual "marriage" |
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Olivencia wrote: |
a. Polygamists? |
Causes too many problems with not enough women to go around. The rich men take all the girls.
One woman per man is probably the sole successful example of rationing.
Polygamy is good for women and bad for men - inequality.
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b. Those who want to marry their sister, brother, father, mother, etc? |
If two sibblings are in love and wish to purchase the product of a marriage, they're as a good a customer as any. I certainly don't think it's an appropriate use of government time and resources to interfere.
Problems with inbred kids? Private healthcare all the way.
Cruelty. |
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runthegauntlet

Joined: 02 Dec 2007 Location: the southlands.
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Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 9:17 pm Post subject: |
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Olivencia wrote: |
So many people to respond to so this wil be my last post. One on one debate you'd be slaughtered.
Hateful? We are to hate evil...that is a biblical command. And we are to obey those commands because of love. Do some investigation on what the Bible actually says rather than what you choose to superimpose. |
Slaughtered. Ha. Your trite fundy crap won't stand a chance, but I implore you to try it anyway.
I know exactly what the bible says, so feel free to invoke that as well. Not that it matters much since it's nothing more than a hodge-podge collection of stories pooled together, translated, revised, translated some more, edited a few times, and THEN, claimed to be the inerrant word of god. HA. Right.
Not to mention the incredible fallacy you've created by YOUR determination of what evil is.
In this case, two people loving each other. AWESOME! |
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banjois

Joined: 14 Nov 2009
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Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 9:17 pm Post subject: |
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Um, dude? I spent a LOT of time studying Christian theology in the middle of my exodus from organized religion, and I'm pretty sure I could beat you at a debate of ANY sort, religious or not. And you know what? "Obedience" is NOT one of the fundamental precepts of Christanity. You're confusing it with that other Abrahamic monotheistic religion that I'm sure you believe is out to destroy you.
But you're right, I do want to pick and choose what I want to obey. That's why I made a lousy Christian. But, I daresay, it's what makes a better and more complete human being. I've encountered several people who managed to combine shining intelligence with genuine faith, and honestly, I'm jealous. |
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runthegauntlet

Joined: 02 Dec 2007 Location: the southlands.
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Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 9:20 pm Post subject: |
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banjois wrote: |
But you're right, I do want to pick and choose what I want to obey. |
That's what the majority of Christians seem to do anyway.
Leviticus, anyone? |
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banjois

Joined: 14 Nov 2009
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Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 9:39 pm Post subject: |
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Man. I had a looooong debate with a friend this afternoon. He held to his opinion that religion was evil and ought to be obliterated. I tried to convince him at length that religion had its merits and while yes, some of it may be delusional, a lot of good and beauty came out of it. And that notions of humility and things larger than ourselves are good limiters to hubris. We ultimately agreed to disagree, and I went on with my day, my soft spot for religion intact.
And then this. My confusion with the crap that a lot of Christians spew is that they don't seem to have actually ingested what Christ said. If you remove all the miracles and son-of-god business, it's basically a decent compilation on how to be a decent human being. And hey, if you can make the leap of faith, keep the miracles and divinity. It gives a nice aura to the whole thing.
I don't know if Christ would have supported gay marriage. Probably not, but he certainly wouldn't have been such a dick about it. |
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Fox

Joined: 04 Mar 2009
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Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 9:46 pm Post subject: |
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banjois wrote: |
Man. I had a looooong debate with a friend this afternoon. He held to his opinion that religion was evil and ought to be obliterated. |
He is, ultimately, correct. Individual religious humans can be good (and usually are). Individual religious organizations can do good. But religion in and of itself only harms humanity. Causing people to believe lies only obstructs them from reaching the truth. Olivenica is a good example of this; he's not a bad person, he's just completely messed up in the head, and it's because of religion.
Anything good associated with religion can be had without religion. Morality can and does exist independently of religion. Charity can and does exist independently of religion. Hope can and does exist independently of religion. Obliterating religion would leave us with all of the good and none of the bad. It's the ideal.
However, religion cannot be obliterated by any external force. You can't legislate it out of existence. You can't force people to give up their faith. It never works, and only leads to attrocity. The only true way to solve the problem of religion is for people, collectively, to give it up. This will be a long time in coming, if ever. |
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runthegauntlet

Joined: 02 Dec 2007 Location: the southlands.
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Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 9:51 pm Post subject: |
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banjois wrote: |
Man. I had a looooong debate with a friend this afternoon. He held to his opinion that religion was evil and ought to be obliterated. I tried to convince him at length that religion had its merits and while yes, some of it may be delusional, a lot of good and beauty came out of it. And that notions of humility and things larger than ourselves are good limiters to hubris. We ultimately agreed to disagree, and I went on with my day, my soft spot for religion intact.
And then this. My confusion with the crap that a lot of Christians spew is that they don't seem to have actually ingested what Christ said. If you remove all the miracles and son-of-god business, it's basically a decent compilation on how to be a decent human being. And hey, if you can make the leap of faith, keep the miracles and divinity. It gives a nice aura to the whole thing.
I don't know if Christ would have supported gay marriage. Probably not, but he certainly wouldn't have been such a dick about it. |
I'm of the opinion that religion in and of itself is an awful creation of man that has been abused repeatedly throughout the generations. It's taken rational thought out of the equation and labeled ignorance as 'god'.
Obviously, there are some religious leaders that are beginning to eschew the absurd dogmatic doctrines that so many adhere to, but it's slow going.
It's the moderate religious that allows for the growth of such fanaticism, even if it's just of an intellectual sort. Disregarding that Olivencia very well could just be a troll, there are a number of people that actually believe, wholeheartedly, in the venomous things he's projecting. And from there, it's not such a big step to the fundamentalism that people like Pat Robertson or the Westboro Baptist Church or even Hezbollah or Al Quaeda adhere to.
And look how active some proponents of even 'moderate' religion (in many different forms) are in attempting to continually undermine and discredit actual science. And are all the while indoctrinating children with an absurd notion that some fairy tale in the sky created the world six thousand years ago or planted dinosaur bones in the Earth's crust to test our faith or mandated that we stone women if they talk to a man that isn't related to them. Does one really sound more ludicrous than another?
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djsmnc

Joined: 20 Jan 2003 Location: Dave's ESL Cafe
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Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 9:52 pm Post subject: |
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I say let the people decide. From both a rational and religious standpoint.
From a truly Christian perspective, people can choose to live and marry in this way, but they are living in sin. Let people marry whoever they consentually choose, but religions also should have the right not to accept their clergy, priests, shamans, or other heads being homosexuals. If that belief becomes political and affects tax free exemption et al, then so be it. All the more reason to stand up for one's principles and work to make change.
People have the democratic right to make the change in society through legal means, and religious people have the right to try and prevent it through legal means.
Before the advent of Constantinian reform, Christians took peaceful action and mostly won their battles through martyrdom and nonviolence. They knew they were Caeser's byotch and rendered what was his unto him while also practicing what they saw as right. At that time there was rampant homosexuality, abortion, and even baby-exposure which they challenged by setting up orphanages and garnering the support of others to point out flaws in people's actions. For a long time now, though, Christians have largely taken on what is unbiblical (according to New Testament teaching) by hoisting the reigns of government to establish social control.
If someone chooses to stand outside an abortion clinic or pro-gay wedding hall, then so be it, and the people inside have evey right to do what they are doing. Make threats, hurl insults, or use weapons, and you've crossed any biblical and legal lines into the personal. Hold signs that say dying soldiers are going to hell for supporting gay marriage and you're passing judgment. Vote against gay marriage and encourage your local representatives and you are working within your legal means to spread your message compassionately and responsibly. You may be hated or insulted for it, but Christianity is not and will never be the status quo, until the afterlife perhaps, if that's what you believe in. The bible even says that people will be hated and despised for their beliefs and may die in the name of Jesus. That's a choice a real Christian takes on and is ready to face, without harming or pestering others who don't follow this line of thought. |
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runthegauntlet

Joined: 02 Dec 2007 Location: the southlands.
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Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 9:52 pm Post subject: |
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Fox wrote: |
Anything good associated with religion can be had without religion. Morality can and does exist independently of religion. Charity can and does exist independently of religion. Hope can and does exist independently of religion. Obliterating religion would leave us with all of the good and none of the bad. It's the ideal.
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This 100x over. |
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