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HollyLove
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Posted: Wed Mar 10, 2010 6:42 pm Post subject: Nose Piercing, acceptable? |
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I've had my piercing since I was 18 and I'm very attached to it. I've worked at jobs where it wasn't allowed but no one ever made an issue of it (its a very small stud). I'm going to be teaching elementary school and I'm wondering if I'll be allowed to keep it. I have a ring I can put in that looks like I'm not wearing a nose ring but thats such a hassle. I'll probably just wait and see if it becomes an issue but does anyone else have any experience with this? |
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stoned
Joined: 03 Nov 2009
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Posted: Wed Mar 10, 2010 6:51 pm Post subject: |
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i don't think it should be a problem. women in many countries require to have a nose ring(or piercing) as part of their religion(or culture).
if you are a man it will be awkward  |
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kabrams

Joined: 15 Mar 2008 Location: your Dad's house
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Posted: Wed Mar 10, 2010 7:37 pm Post subject: Re: Nose Piercing, acceptable? |
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HollyLove wrote: |
I've had my piercing since I was 18 and I'm very attached to it. I've worked at jobs where it wasn't allowed but no one ever made an issue of it (its a very small stud). I'm going to be teaching elementary school and I'm wondering if I'll be allowed to keep it. I have a ring I can put in that looks like I'm not wearing a nose ring but thats such a hassle. I'll probably just wait and see if it becomes an issue but does anyone else have any experience with this? |
It should not be an issue. I know several female teachers with facial piercings.
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ChilgokBlackHole
Joined: 21 Nov 2009
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Posted: Wed Mar 10, 2010 8:34 pm Post subject: Re: Nose Piercing, acceptable? |
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HollyLove wrote: |
I'll probably just wait and see if it becomes an issue but does anyone else have any experience with this? |
Do you think the parents in an elementary school back home would have a problem with that? |
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guava
Joined: 02 Sep 2009
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Posted: Thu Mar 11, 2010 3:27 am Post subject: |
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My cow has a pierced nose |
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Sector7G
Joined: 24 May 2008
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Posted: Thu Mar 11, 2010 4:07 am Post subject: Re: Nose Piercing, acceptable? |
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HollyLove wrote: |
I've had my piercing since I was 18 and I'm very attached to it. |
Ya know, the French consider the pun the lowest form of humor! Just saying. |
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Senior
Joined: 31 Jan 2010
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Posted: Thu Mar 11, 2010 4:44 am Post subject: Re: Nose Piercing, acceptable? |
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ChilgokBlackHole wrote: |
HollyLove wrote: |
I'll probably just wait and see if it becomes an issue but does anyone else have any experience with this? |
Do you think the parents in an elementary school back home would have a problem with that? |
My elementary school had a student aid with a nose piercing. In this day and age, I don't see a small nose stud being a huge issue.
Anyway, isn't it possible to take it out during the day? |
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djsmnc

Joined: 20 Jan 2003 Location: Dave's ESL Cafe
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Posted: Thu Mar 11, 2010 5:32 am Post subject: |
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If you have a nose piercing, you will be looked at like the small food disposal bag that has sat in the parking area for a week in mid May, full of festering, rotten kimchi juice and torn by street cats. You'll be considered a sex crazed westerner with questionable morals and a penchant for hard drug use. You'll be stared at and whispered about like Hester Prynne on her way out of the letter-stitching shop (and that's "shoppe" with a p-e, mind you). Your teaching ability will be considered nil, and were you even to have a Yale degree signed in gold ink by Obama himself with an attached photo of you and the (Korean) head of the UN, piercing included, you would still be seen as no more than a low-down dirty sham of a "teacher" who has absolutely no value other than to be present for mothers to drop off their noisy, rambunctious, snot-nosed kids with while they go shopping in upscale department stores and eat prawns. |
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ChilgokBlackHole
Joined: 21 Nov 2009
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Posted: Thu Mar 11, 2010 5:42 am Post subject: Re: Nose Piercing, acceptable? |
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Senior wrote: |
ChilgokBlackHole wrote: |
HollyLove wrote: |
I'll probably just wait and see if it becomes an issue but does anyone else have any experience with this? |
Do you think the parents in an elementary school back home would have a problem with that? |
My elementary school had a student aid with a nose piercing. In this day and age, I don't see a small nose stud being a huge issue. |
Sorry, I meant a teacher, not a student aide. Should have been more clear. Sorry. |
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Senior
Joined: 31 Jan 2010
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Posted: Thu Mar 11, 2010 5:42 am Post subject: |
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djsmnc wrote: |
If you have a nose piercing, you will be looked at like the small food disposal bag that has sat in the parking area for a week in mid May, full of festering, rotten kimchi juice and torn by street cats. You'll be considered a sex crazed westerner with questionable morals and a penchant for hard drug use. You'll be stared at and whispered about like Hester Prynne on her way out of the letter-stitching shop (and that's "shoppe" with a p-e, mind you). Your teaching ability will be considered nil, and were you even to have a Yale degree signed in gold ink by Obama himself with an attached photo of you and the (Korean) head of the UN, piercing included, you would still be seen as no more than a low-down dirty sham of a "teacher" who has absolutely no value other than to be present for mothers to drop off their noisy, rambunctious, snot-nosed kids with while they go shopping in upscale department stores and eat prawns. |
Or this.one or the other. |
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miljeong
Joined: 07 Mar 2010 Location: Bundang
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Posted: Thu Mar 11, 2010 6:23 am Post subject: |
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I vote you'll be considered a sex crazed foreigner who is displaying herself in an obscene and lude manner, only interested in confusing young boys.
I do question the necessity to even ask this question considering you weren't born with it, it's not normal, you're supposed to be a professional well groomed teacher, and it doesn't serve any purpose to better your performance.
But then again, I'm biased. I think facial piercings are stupid, as are the ear kind. And tattoos. And drinking. And smoking. And anything else that if it wasn't for your friend or neighbor doing, you'd never have an interest in. |
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HollyLove
Joined: 07 Nov 2009
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Posted: Thu Mar 11, 2010 8:23 am Post subject: Re: Nose Piercing, acceptable? |
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ChilgokBlackHole wrote: |
Senior wrote: |
ChilgokBlackHole wrote: |
HollyLove wrote: |
I'll probably just wait and see if it becomes an issue but does anyone else have any experience with this? |
Do you think the parents in an elementary school back home would have a problem with that? |
My elementary school had a student aid with a nose piercing. In this day and age, I don't see a small nose stud being a huge issue. |
Sorry, I meant a teacher, not a student aide. Should have been more clear. Sorry. |
Actually I co-taught an archaeology elective at an elementary school with my boss from the museum I worked at and no one had a problem (either at the school or the museum). I pretty sure most didn't even notice. |
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ChilgokBlackHole
Joined: 21 Nov 2009
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Posted: Thu Mar 11, 2010 8:27 am Post subject: Re: Nose Piercing, acceptable? |
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HollyLove wrote: |
ChilgokBlackHole wrote: |
Senior wrote: |
ChilgokBlackHole wrote: |
HollyLove wrote: |
I'll probably just wait and see if it becomes an issue but does anyone else have any experience with this? |
Do you think the parents in an elementary school back home would have a problem with that? |
My elementary school had a student aid with a nose piercing. In this day and age, I don't see a small nose stud being a huge issue. |
Sorry, I meant a teacher, not a student aide. Should have been more clear. Sorry. |
Actually I co-taught an archaeology elective at an elementary school with my boss from the museum I worked at and no one had a problem (either at the school or the museum). I pretty sure most didn't even notice. |
Oh, well, then get down with your bad self. Let us know how it turns out. |
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HollyLove
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Posted: Thu Mar 11, 2010 8:44 am Post subject: |
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miljeong wrote: |
I vote you'll be considered a sex crazed foreigner who is displaying herself in an obscene and lude manner, only interested in confusing young boys.
I do question the necessity to even ask this question considering you weren't born with it, it's not normal, you're supposed to be a professional well groomed teacher, and it doesn't serve any purpose to better your performance.
But then again, I'm biased. I think facial piercings are stupid, as are the ear kind. And tattoos. And drinking. And smoking. And anything else that if it wasn't for your friend or neighbor doing, you'd never have an interest in. |
Normal is subjective and changes based on the culture and society from which you grew up in. If you had grown up in India or Syria or even Texas, your perception of what is socially acceptable would obviously be different from mine.
People modify their appearance in multiple ways, not just with tattoos or piercings and in every society including our own. Using the reasoning you just presented people who perm or straighten their hair, people who wear perfume or cologne or even deodorant are doing something to change their appearance (or scent) that is not "normal."
Frankly it says a lot about you, that based on nothing else but the knowledge that I have a nose ring, that I am therefore a unprofessional, badly-groomed teacher. The fact that you feel as strongly as you do against piercings/tattoos/drinking/smoking is a product of the environment you were raised in (both in the home and the way you reacted to the social factors outside of it), just as my perceptions of came from my environment.
Also on a side note, at the time of getting my piercing I knew of no one else who had one, was not conforming to any type of peer pressure and got it and have continued to keep it because I like/d the way it looks on me.
Anyways your opinion is appreciated  |
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madoka

Joined: 27 Mar 2008
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Posted: Thu Mar 11, 2010 9:29 am Post subject: |
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As a co-worker, colleague, friend, acquiantaince, I would have no problem with a small number of piercings, tattoos, etc.
As a parent, I would be a bit put off. I think this is just a natural, instinctive reaction, however irrational, on the part of parents wanting to protect their children.
Reminds me of all the hipsters I went to law school with. As soon as they had to apply for jobs, every single one of them cut their long hair and ponytails, got rid of any earrings, hid tattoos, shaved goatees/beards/soul patches, etc. In other words, they recognized the need to look professional in appearance. |
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