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loyfriend
Joined: 03 Aug 2009
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Posted: Wed Mar 17, 2010 7:19 pm Post subject: Is is ok to date your teachers? |
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I work in a public school. Many new teachers came this year. My contract does not say anything about dating coworkers.
I am not part of Epik or SMOE.
But a new teacher came two weeks ago and she is new to the city. She already offering me to go to her home town Pohong for weekends, drinking and so on.
I know in USA most companies hate peolpe dating coworkers. |
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Cerberus
Joined: 29 Oct 2009
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Posted: Wed Mar 17, 2010 7:28 pm Post subject: Re: Is is ok to date your teachers? |
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| loyfriend wrote: |
I work in a public school. Many new teachers came this year. My contract does not say anything about dating coworkers.
I am not part of Epik or SMOE.
But a new teacher came two weeks ago and she is new to the city. She already offering me to go to her home town Pohong for weekends, drinking and so on.
I know in USA most companies hate peolpe dating coworkers. |
I don't think it'd be necessarily frowned upon, but there are many disadvantages.
(I used to joke with my brass about asking one out, they'd always be intensely curious about which female teacher I liked, but I was never given a frown, or a look much less a "don't do that/cant do that edict" )
for starters, you will be constantly gossiped about and if/when things go bad, you will be uncomfortable being around your ex and or vice versa. |
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ttompatz

Joined: 05 Sep 2005 Location: Kwangju, South Korea
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Posted: Wed Mar 17, 2010 7:30 pm Post subject: Re: Is is ok to date your teachers? |
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| loyfriend wrote: |
I work in a public school. Many new teachers came this year. My contract does not say anything about dating coworkers.
I am not part of Epik or SMOE.
But a new teacher came two weeks ago and she is new to the city. She already offering me to go to her home town Pohong for weekends, drinking and so on.
I know in USA most companies hate peolpe dating coworkers. |
Are you prepared for a year in hades when it goes south on you?
Socializing is acceptable... romantic dating is asking for problems...
Oh, and if you work at a public school you ARE under the auspices of one of the POEs, even if they were not the ones to recruit you.
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ulsanchris
Joined: 19 Jun 2003 Location: take a wild guess
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Posted: Wed Mar 17, 2010 7:33 pm Post subject: |
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| don't dip your pen in company ink. |
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Banana_Man
Joined: 01 Mar 2010 Location: Busan
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Posted: Wed Mar 17, 2010 7:37 pm Post subject: |
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| Gossip will spread, but if you think it is worth it then it most probably is!!! Everywhere I have taught has been really good about encouranging co-worker relations and also about not asking questions the next day. Depends on your other co-workers and how much they like to gossip. I say go for it^^* |
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jiberish

Joined: 17 Jul 2006 Location: The Carribean Bay Wrestler
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Posted: Wed Mar 17, 2010 7:52 pm Post subject: |
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A guy I knew dated a girl at his work. It went sour, then he had to work with her for the rest of the year. He really had a bad year.
But that being said I knew many korean teachers to date other korean teachers. But they always kept it a secret and just acted as friends at work. But for some strange reason they told me. I guess they wanted to tell someone and figured who am I going to tell? |
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Rory_Calhoun27
Joined: 14 Feb 2009
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Posted: Wed Mar 17, 2010 7:56 pm Post subject: |
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I'd expect no less from Banana man......
I concur.... sometimes ya just gotta let the soju flow and let the chips fall where they may... and a few other things if ya dig...  |
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loyfriend
Joined: 03 Aug 2009
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Posted: Wed Mar 17, 2010 8:51 pm Post subject: |
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I think I may give it a try upon hearing what other people said. I only have her for three classes and she is the one inviting me out.
I will wish for the best and not expect the worst. |
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Rory_Calhoun27
Joined: 14 Feb 2009
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Posted: Wed Mar 17, 2010 8:56 pm Post subject: |
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good man.... good man.... I like the way you think.  |
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Olivencia
Joined: 08 Mar 2009
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Posted: Wed Mar 17, 2010 9:31 pm Post subject: |
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| That's awesome! Make your move. If she's a cool chick then why not? |
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thunderbird
Joined: 18 Aug 2009
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Posted: Wed Mar 17, 2010 9:36 pm Post subject: |
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| yeah why not, at my friends school one of the woman teachers has dated almost every guy whose ever worked there. |
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jonpurdy
Joined: 08 Jan 2009 Location: Ulsan
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Posted: Wed Mar 17, 2010 11:18 pm Post subject: |
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Whatever you do, don't tell anyone at the school! In fact, don't even tell any teacher anywhere ever. Delete this thread
Seriously though, Koreans gossip like mad. Although you might not care if people know you are seeing her, she will. It would take a long time for her to feel comfortable knowing about you being togeth | |