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HijackedTwilight



Joined: 15 Jan 2008
Location: Daegu

PostPosted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 7:30 am    Post subject: Looking for an Engagement Ring Reply with quote

Can anyone make a recommendation on a place to buy an engagement ring in Seoul?

Staff with some English ability preferred.

Rocks requiring less than 1 yrs salary also preferred.
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Xuanzang



Joined: 10 Apr 2007
Location: Sadang

PostPosted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 7:33 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Try Costco. Can always have it resized somewhere else. Or you could go to Shinsaegae and check out Tiffany and Co. They definitely know enough English to sell you their stuff.
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bassexpander



Joined: 13 Sep 2007
Location: Someplace you'd rather be.

PostPosted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 8:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I didn't buy there, but I second Costco.
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Kikomom



Joined: 24 Jun 2008
Location: them thar hills--Penna, USA--Zippy is my kid, the teacher in ROK. You can call me Kiko

PostPosted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 8:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

From what I've read, the engagement ring is small compared to the wedding rings themselves. So plan for that too.

While you're at it (is this a K-girl?), don't forget the wild goose.
Quote:
A Wild Goose
Before the wedding, a beautiful tradition takes place: The groom gives the bride's mother a wild goose (traditionally, a live goose was used; today it is often a wooden goose). Wild geese mate for life, so his gift is a promise that he will care for her daughter for life.
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Mr. Pink



Joined: 21 Oct 2003
Location: China

PostPosted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 2:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Koreans typically don't do engagement rings, so good luck on that. My Korean wife didn't expect one, I thought I should at least look around. If you got mega bucks to spend, then yeah Tiffany's is the place to go. They had some nice rings for 10-20mil won. I'm sorry but I'll never spend that much money on an over-inflated monopolized product (the diamond).

Beware that most Korean jewelry is complete crap. There is a reason why they don't have security guards or bars on the windows etc. The stuff is junk compared to the quality stuff we have in the West.
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ChinaBoy



Joined: 17 Feb 2007

PostPosted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 3:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Mr. Pink wrote:
Koreans typically don't do engagement rings, so good luck on that. My Korean wife didn't expect one, I thought I should at least look around.


Yeah, no sense getting one if you don't have to. You're going to be spending plenty later anyway.
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giraffe



Joined: 07 Apr 2009

PostPosted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 3:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yeah if the girl doesnt want one All teh better for you!!! Probably a good idea to give an engagement ring if the girl has no clue if your going to propose to her though.

Back in Canada when i was engagement ring shopping 2 years ago i just went around to every jewelry stores to learn as much as i could about rings and diamonds in general to see what available and how big diamonds are. Ended up buying the Ring Online and couldnt be happier. BUt i guess that doesnt help you because i probably wouldnt trust Korean jewelry stores OR even worst korean online jewelry stores. Maybe look into importing internationally might get better quality and price should be decent.
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Kikomom



Joined: 24 Jun 2008
Location: them thar hills--Penna, USA--Zippy is my kid, the teacher in ROK. You can call me Kiko

PostPosted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 4:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Some men like to decorate their women. A proposal with a ring is as sweet as it gets.

Diamonds come in a variety of qualities with four elements you'll want to familiarize yourself with.

1. Cut
2. Color
3. Clarity
4. Carat
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xCustomx



Joined: 06 Jan 2006

PostPosted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 6:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you want to educate yourself about diamonds, go to pricescope.com
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Kikomom



Joined: 24 Jun 2008
Location: them thar hills--Penna, USA--Zippy is my kid, the teacher in ROK. You can call me Kiko

PostPosted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 7:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

OTOH, the diamond business is notoriously exploitative. Being that this a life-long symbol of your love for each other, perhaps you may wish to evaluate your shared ideals and how a precious gem fits into the scheme of things.

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Rory_Calhoun27



Joined: 14 Feb 2009

PostPosted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 7:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

So when will societies start to see the paradox of big-rock diamond rings and the idea of "starter marriages" being impractical?

I say, save the big rocks for at least the 5th anniversary.... at least then there's something longer-term shaping up!

Just remember diamonds as wedding trinkets came into 20th century vogue as a result of post-WWII marketing by Debeers: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DeBeers_Diamond_Corporation#Marketing

and while we're at it, remember "There's Something About Mary!" In possibly the greatest line of dialogue in Hollywood, "Marriage... each day's better than the next!"

Usually takes most people a moment or two to consider the message it sends, but they get it! My sister-in-law didnt find the true meaning until after her divorce party. Wink
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HijackedTwilight



Joined: 15 Jan 2008
Location: Daegu

PostPosted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 7:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

So, engagement rings aren't generally given here?

Or, they are given but the wedding ring is the major ring?

Can anyone confirm/deny/provide more info?
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bassexpander



Joined: 13 Sep 2007
Location: Someplace you'd rather be.

PostPosted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 8:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Many Korean women believe in buying expensive his/her couple watches. Ask Koreans about that.
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giraffe



Joined: 07 Apr 2009

PostPosted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 8:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

bassexpander wrote:
Many Korean women believe in buying expensive his/her couple watches. Ask Koreans about that.


Not just watches .. they believe in matching anything . Underwear ,shirts , outfits You name it =p.

Doesnt seem like if theres a clear answer to this engagement ring or not issue. You could always ask the koreans you do know instead of asking the foreigners on this board. I would say it depends on the girl these days. I did it because it just felt like the right thing to do ( i didnt spend crazy amount of money on the ring BUt i did want to buy her something i think she would like. You should know your girls taste by now)

If you are thinking of proposing to a k girl im surprise you havent talked about this together a while back. Usually korean girls bring up the whole marriage thing soo when both of you decide to marry none of this is a surprise. Sooo she doesnt know youre planning to ask her to marry you?
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Yaya



Joined: 25 Feb 2003
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 8:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If were you, I'd go to Singapore on vacation and buy the ring there.
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