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todes_8ngel
Joined: 06 Jun 2010
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Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2010 4:55 pm Post subject: Are these the signs??? |
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I've been in Korea for over 3 years now and a first time poster. I have six months left on my current contract and is thinking about my next move. I've never had any problems in Korea and has had a great time so far.
However, I no longer find my job challenging. I work out in the boonies where the English ability of the students is very little to nonexistance. I have no co-teacher, just their homeroom teachers and they show no signs of interest at all in helping their students learn.
So, I'm getting to that point there I think it's time for me to head home. I pretty much drag going to work every morning and the only thing I look forward to on Monday morning is Friday 5pm. I no longer interact with students outside of class hours and I avoid any dinners with Korean teachers. My attitude has changed drastically from the first 3 years.
is it time to go home to a crappy economy? Do I just need a change of scenery (same school all this time)? Take a 3 month break or so and come back?
Anyone else have this feeling? |
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Louis VI
Joined: 05 Jul 2010 Location: In my Kingdom
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Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2010 5:01 pm Post subject: Re: Are these the signs??? |
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todes_8ngel wrote: |
My attitude has changed drastically from the first 3 years.... Do I just need a change of scenery (same school all this time)? |
Yes. I worked 3 years at my first ESL job and 3 years at my second. Perhaps you just missed some signs (in self-reflective contemplation whether to re-sign) that it was time to move on to another ESL job in another city.
Give notice, get a letter of release and move on to another place, perhaps trying the hagwon scene (where I always work). You don't know until you try it. And what's the worst that could happen? You might end up flying back home, as you're thinking about doing now. Whatever you do don't waste half a year doing something you don't like. Life is too short for that. Time to JUMP! |
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air76
Joined: 13 Nov 2007
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Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2010 5:02 pm Post subject: |
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Personally I believe that 3 years is the most that any sane individual can take in Korea without starting to lose their sanity bit by bit.
If you don't mind teaching why don't you go to Vietnam or China for a year? |
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eIn07912

Joined: 06 Dec 2008 Location: seoul
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Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2010 5:03 pm Post subject: |
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Unless you have some great skill that's in demand back home (sadly, teaching ain't one of 'em) I'd suggest look anywhere but there. The jobless situation in the states is terrible and appears it may be getting slightly worse soon before it gets better.
Bad thing is, that's kind of the story everywhere (except for Canada oddly enough, who's economy is roaring right now.) I understand what you mean about not being "in" your job anymore. That's my feeling everyday. But I have kind of convinced myself that no place is worth it right now, so I might as well stay here where at least the money is.
I have some friends that are now teaching in Vietnam. They said it's pretty cool. They have a really nice house they rent and foreign money goes a long ways there. You have to sacrifice the standard of living though. As well as common things you get used to here. Like modern hospitals, English friendly environment. New roads and shopping centers and such.
Best of luck. |
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Louis VI
Joined: 05 Jul 2010 Location: In my Kingdom
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Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2010 5:07 pm Post subject: |
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air76 wrote: |
If you don't mind teaching why don't you go to Vietnam or China for a year? |
Good idea. If you do this, you can go with your Korean pension money, about $10,000 U.S., which you can collect a mere couple of weeks after you finish teaching in Korea, as the pension refund procedure is simple and straightforward and easy, trust me, I've done it on vacation (even though I came back afterwards). |
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Died By Bear

Joined: 13 Jul 2010 Location: On the big lake they call Gitche Gumee
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Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2010 5:11 pm Post subject: |
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The job market is bad. Real bad. I have been looking for almost four months. Almost there, but it's been a real hard time. |
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Rothbard
Joined: 23 Aug 2010
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Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2010 5:13 pm Post subject: |
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Move to a bigger city. I'm coming up on the end of my third year at my first school, and am heading in that direction. I've been in Changwon for two and a half years. I'm feeling like it has done all it can for me, and me for it.
Maybe Seoul or Busan in 2011. |
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todes_8ngel
Joined: 06 Jun 2010
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Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2010 5:28 pm Post subject: |
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Louis VI wrote: |
air76 wrote: |
If you don't mind teaching why don't you go to Vietnam or China for a year? |
Good idea. If you do this, you can go with your Korean pension money, about $10,000 U.S., which you can collect a mere couple of weeks after you finish teaching in Korea, as the pension refund procedure is simple and straightforward and easy, trust me, I've done it on vacation (even though I came back afterwards). |
I don't mind teaching at all. I have been to China, Vietnam and Japan and even though I enjoyed all I don't think I can live there without some knowledge of the language. The main reason I chose Korea was because I studied the language since high school. I am a Korean adoptee and has always had interest in learning about my heritage.
I thought about hawgons, but I prefer a normal working schedule, 9-5pm.
I have been working on my resignation letter. It will be hard but I think it's time for me to take a break from Korea.
Life is too short and I have family and friends I would die to see again. |
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eIn07912

Joined: 06 Dec 2008 Location: seoul
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Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2010 5:32 pm Post subject: |
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todes_8ngel wrote: |
Louis VI wrote: |
air76 wrote: |
If you don't mind teaching why don't you go to Vietnam or China for a year? |
Good idea. If you do this, you can go with your Korean pension money, about $10,000 U.S., which you can collect a mere couple of weeks after you finish teaching in Korea, as the pension refund procedure is simple and straightforward and easy, trust me, I've done it on vacation (even though I came back afterwards). |
I don't mind teaching at all. I have been to China, Vietnam and Japan and even though I enjoyed all I don't think I can live there without some knowledge of the language. The main reason I chose Korea was because I studied the language since high school. I am a Korean adoptee and has always had interest in learning about my heritage.
I thought about hawgons, but I prefer a normal working schedule, 9-5pm.
I have been working on my resignation letter. It will be hard but I think it's time for me to take a break from Korea.
Life is too short and I have family and friends I would die to see again. |
Haha, not going to happen in Japan. Situation there is worse than any other place for English teachers. Everybody that has jobs aren't giving them up any time soon. Also, most only want people already in Japan and already have visa. Landing a new visa is close to impossible there. I gave up on the teaching dream in Tokyo years ago. Might be a good idea to go there for school though. |
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jvalmer

Joined: 06 Jun 2003
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Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2010 5:36 pm Post subject: |
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eIn07912 wrote: |
Bad thing is, that's kind of the story everywhere (except for Canada oddly enough, who's economy is roaring right now.) |
Nothing but hype on Canada's economy. Canada's social system covers up a lot of the truth. Even high school students are having trouble finding summer jobs. If you don't have a job there now, it's hard to break in unless you have connections. |
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Vagabundo
Joined: 26 Aug 2010
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Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2010 6:08 pm Post subject: Re: Are these the signs??? |
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todes_8ngel wrote: |
So, I'm getting to that point there I think it's time for me to head home. I pretty much drag going to work every morning and the only thing I look forward to on Monday morning is Friday 5pm. |
I always thought these aspects were associated with almost any job, especially most of those stateside. |
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Juregen
Joined: 30 May 2006
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Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2010 6:38 pm Post subject: Re: Are these the signs??? |
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Vagabundo wrote: |
todes_8ngel wrote: |
So, I'm getting to that point there I think it's time for me to head home. I pretty much drag going to work every morning and the only thing I look forward to on Monday morning is Friday 5pm. |
I always thought these aspects were associated with almost any job, especially most of those stateside. |
Kids still have to get used to the drag that is present in EVERY single job in the world. |
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Nester Noodlemon
Joined: 16 Jan 2009
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Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2010 6:53 pm Post subject: Re: Are these the signs??? |
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Juregen wrote: |
Vagabundo wrote: |
todes_8ngel wrote: |
So, I'm getting to that point there I think it's time for me to head home. I pretty much drag going to work every morning and the only thing I look forward to on Monday morning is Friday 5pm. |
I always thought these aspects were associated with almost any job, especially most of those stateside. |
Kids still have to get used to the drag that is present in EVERY single job in the world. |
That's why it's called work/job, and not called a vacation. |
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oldfatfarang
Joined: 19 May 2005 Location: On the road to somewhere.
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Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2010 9:34 pm Post subject: |
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OP> I think you should be congratulated. Three years in one PS. That's awesome! I change my job every year. It costs me a lot of money (reoccuring application costs, downtime not paid, stuck on entry level wages etc), but leaving Korea and having a holiday (before returning to a new school) is what has kept me teaching in Korea.
You sound burnt out - and bored. I know the feeling. Six months into my new school and I already know that I'm finished with Korea (at contract end) and probably finished with TEFL.
Why not stick it out a bit longer, bank some more cash, and then give yourself a really long (and deserved) stint on a Thailand beach. I guarantee that will recharge your batteries, and then you'll be ready for anything that life has in store for you.
Good luck. |
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oldfatfarang
Joined: 19 May 2005 Location: On the road to somewhere.
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Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2010 9:36 pm Post subject: |
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OP> I think you should be congratulated. Three years in one PS. That's awesome! I change my job every year. It costs me a lot of money (reoccuring application costs, downtime not paid, stuck on entry level wages etc), but leaving Korea and having a really long holiday (before returning to a new school) is what has kept me teaching in Korea.
You sound burnt out - and bored. I know the feeling. Six months into my new school and I already know that I'm finished with Korea (at contract end) and probably finished with TEFL.
Why not stick it out a bit longer, bank some more cash, and then give yourself a really long (and deserved) stint on a Thailand beach. I guarantee that will recharge your batteries, and then you'll be ready for anything that life has in store for you.
Good luck. |
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