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What do you do in this situation? (Disciplinary question)

 
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PatrickBateman



Joined: 08 Jun 2009
Location: American Gardens Building, West 81st Street

PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 9:56 pm    Post subject: What do you do in this situation? (Disciplinary question) Reply with quote

This hasn't come up yet within one of my classes yet, but I know it's happened in a few other classes.

Okay, so the only disciplinary measures we can take against a student is giving the student 'detention.' This means the student has to stay after all the classes are out for about an hour and do their homework.

However, here's the problem. A good majority of the Korean co-teachers have to phone the parents to inform them that the student has to stay for detention. Question is, what do/can you do when you tell a student they have detention and all they say is, 'I can't have detention my mom won't make me stay.'

Keep in mind that our director does not allow us to kick students out of class if they're misbehaving. What kind of power, if any, can I assert if a student is just acting terribly and knows there's no repercussions?


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tanklor1



Joined: 13 Jun 2006

PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 10:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I always left detention to Korean teachers. After hours stuff is a whole kettle of kettle chips that would be best to be avoided. Work with your co-teachers to see what you can do and anything outside of those lines should be agreed on with them first.

Your biggest problem is covering your ass when or if things get too far. I wouldn't worry so much about the students as I would making sure that your relationship with your co-teachers is pruned to near-perfection.

You're not on equal footing with them and they will override any decision that would bring a problem to them or the school.


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nathanrutledge



Joined: 01 May 2008
Location: Marakesh

PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 10:03 pm    Post subject: Re: What do you do in this situation? (Disciplinary question Reply with quote

PatrickBateman wrote:

Keep in mind that our director does not allow us to kick students out of class if they're misbehaving. What kind of power, if any, can I assert if a student is just acting terribly and knows there's no repercussions?


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A punishment is a repercussion. You just answered your own question. If your hands are tied, then they're tied.
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PatrickBateman



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PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 10:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You're right.

We literally have zero power when it comes down to it.
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Fishead soup



Joined: 24 Jun 2007
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 10:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Discipline is your Co-teachers job. Next time a kid fools around just look at your Korean Co-teacher and ask "Is this kind of behavour acceptable in Korean culture?'
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PatrickBateman



Joined: 08 Jun 2009
Location: American Gardens Building, West 81st Street

PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 10:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

This might sum it up as far as some co-teachers are concerned.

I was heading to class and saw this one terrible student wandering the halls during her teaching hour.(She knew he was out there)
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bobbybigfoot



Joined: 05 May 2007
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 10:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

There's little you can do.

I learned a long time ago that detentions are a waste of time. Fully 50% of the kids just walked out of the school. The Korean teachers didn't want the extra work of fighting my battles so little was done. They'd give me lipservice but that's it. The kids soon started telling other kids to just walk out, that nothing would be done. It became a joke. So I stopped altogether.

Same thing with asking a korean coteacher to help you with discipline. Most either have no idea what they are doing or they don't care or they don't want to rock the boat with the parents/admin staff.

Discipline in Korea, at least in my 3.5 years of hagwon experience, is a joke. Ergo, teaching in Korea is largely a joke.

The very first thing that should be taught/enforced at any school is discipline/respect. Without that, learning becomes haphazard.
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tanklor1



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PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 10:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

PatrickBateman wrote:
You're right.

We literally have zero power when it comes down to it.


I wouldn't say that.

I learned the hard way that you have to think about the problem differently. My impression of a teacher growing up is a sole figure who ruled all, whose punishments were to be respected by everyone. Our position here is not that: by default we are reliant on others for basic communication.


It's easy for an English speaking teacher to express their anger and disappointment in a student in an English speaking country. We don't have that luxury.

The one's who do are your co-workers; which is why a positive relationship is more important than what you, yourself, can do in a classroom.

A healthy working relationship can go very far when it comes to dealing with bratty kids.
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Pa Jan Jo A Hamnida



Joined: 27 Oct 2006
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PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 10:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

In my day the threat of the corner (arms up etc.) usually worked. Never gave a student detention. The strictest punishment I ever gave was 100 lines and verbal apology. A 13 year old boy called a female student a pig.
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le-paul



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PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 11:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

write a short letter to the kids parents telling them how I wasted time/class time/money or whatever and you are very sorry for being so bad/rude. etc.

give it to the student and tell them its their task for the lesson to translate it into korean.

when theyve finished, tell them to take it home and get their father to sign it and bring it back the next day, signed.

that usually does the trick for me
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JC VT



Joined: 02 Jul 2009
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Thu Oct 14, 2010 4:23 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

It depends on the age of the student. Many times I find that calling the student over during a break and having an adult conversation with them gets it done.

In extreme cases, however:

le-paul wrote:
write a short letter to the kids parents telling them how I wasted time/class time/money or whatever and you are very sorry for being so bad/rude. etc.

give it to the student and tell them its their task for the lesson to translate it into korean.

when theyve finished, tell them to take it home and get their father to sign it and bring it back the next day, signed.

that usually does the trick for me


Ditto this. Their parents are usually extremely embarrassed and handle the child's discipline quite well on their own. You have to understand that losing face is the worst possible thing that can happen in Korea. Even a very benign sounding letter / text message / phone call to the parents about how their child is bright but not focusing in class or disrupting the education of other children will produce miraculous results.

I've never had to resort to corporal punishment. I do sometimes make my SAT students stand for the duration of a lecture if they have not done their vocabulary journals, but this is mostly for the entertainment of the students who did do their work. It also shows that rule-breaking has consequences.
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