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Sireno
Joined: 19 Mar 2010
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Posted: Sat Oct 30, 2010 8:13 pm Post subject: Two months in and having some doubts |
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Hello - I am seeking some advice from people here. My situation is that I am new to Korea as of two months ago and have been working for a new hagwon. Some things about the job are good, and others are bad. Much of my stress and unhappiness is related to this place being new, and also the it is the first time I am working full time consistently.
Classes are okay, life is fine.., however my days are spent longing for the weekends and free time. I remember life when I had free time and things weren't so monotonous. I foresee myself enrolling in a Korean language program and working part time. Is this possible?
I am thinking about quitting and trying to work part time or perhaps at a public or after school position. Is this feasible? If so, how would it be done?
Should I just buck up and deal with a full time work life? Or should I have initiative and change things in order to be happier with life?
Any experiences or thoughts? Thanks in advance from an inexperienced person living in a strange place. |
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lifeinkorea
Joined: 24 Jan 2009 Location: somewhere in China
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Posted: Sat Oct 30, 2010 8:20 pm Post subject: |
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Hard to say, you want change, but where are you? If in Seoul, it shouldn't be hard to find a place to study on your days off.
Part-time time jobs are not going to bring in enough money to get you a place to stay. So, it's better to move somewhere that has a school you want to study at. Then get a full-time job. |
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sulperman
Joined: 14 Oct 2008
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Posted: Sat Oct 30, 2010 8:31 pm Post subject: Re: Two months in and having some doubts |
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Sireno wrote: |
Should I just buck up and deal with a full time work life? |
Yes. |
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tanklor1
Joined: 13 Jun 2006
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Posted: Sat Oct 30, 2010 8:53 pm Post subject: Re: Two months in and having some doubts |
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sulperman wrote: |
Sireno wrote: |
Should I just buck up and deal with a full time work life? |
Yes. |
Agreed.
So, yeah gots yourself one of them JOBS, huh? Well, so do the rest of us. To briefly answer your questions:
1. It's illigeal to teach privates unless you get permission from your employer or have a Korean connection i.e. Half-Korean, Korean born out of the country or married into a Korean family.
2. It is possible to switch schools but you'd just find yourself with one of them JOB things again. |
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RMNC

Joined: 21 Jul 2010
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Posted: Sat Oct 30, 2010 9:41 pm Post subject: |
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Mentally preparing yourself for working a 40 hour week is something that most new expats don't do, but should. |
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Pa Jan Jo A Hamnida
Joined: 27 Oct 2006 Location: Not Korea
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Posted: Sat Oct 30, 2010 9:41 pm Post subject: |
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You could just quit if it's not working out for you. |
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Kaypea
Joined: 09 Oct 2008
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Posted: Sat Oct 30, 2010 10:00 pm Post subject: Re: Two months in and having some doubts |
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Sireno wrote: |
Classes are okay, life is fine.., however my days are spent longing for the weekends and free time. . |
Most people in most jobs do this.
Enjoy your weekends.... try to travel around.
If you get a public school job, you have more vacation time to look forward to, plus weeks where kids have exams etc, so you can sit around on your butt and daydream, surf the net, etc. (And lesson plan, of course!)
But, you'll still be in a position where you'll have to be in the workplace 40 hrs a week, not traipsing around... traipse, traipse, traipse...
The kinda cool thing about teaching here is the kids sometimes see you as a big kid or a friendly children's entertainer/ hollywood sex symbol/ clown, which can make you feel young and irresponsible. Cherish it... |
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cragesmure
Joined: 23 Oct 2010
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Posted: Sat Oct 30, 2010 11:35 pm Post subject: |
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I think it's pretty normal to feel that way, especially at first. I was in the same boat when I started working full time. It does get easier. Just try to enjoy your work - after all, classes can be as fun as you choose to make them.
Having said that, I assume you have a standard hakwon deal - 2 weeks off a year. I did that for a few years and was pretty burnt out by the end of it. I went to China and got a few years of experience in the university system there. Now I'm in a university language centre in Korea, and the job is much better.
My advice would be to stick with it for a while. The experience will be good for you. If, after time, you are still not enjoying it, then maybe look for something different, be it a different kind of institution, different country or different line of work altogether.
Hope things get better for you. |
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AsiaESLbound
Joined: 07 Jan 2010 Location: Truck Stop Missouri
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Posted: Sun Oct 31, 2010 12:07 am Post subject: |
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Most everyone in any job always longs for the weekends and holidays to come ASAP. Getting up early to spend most or all of the daylight hours 5 days a week is a major life commitment where you are forgoing your free time for money to live and enjoy your free time. I too wished I just had money to take my entire life as free time to pursue my personal interests and didn't have to worry about this conundrum of having to work to live, but most of us are stuck with it out of the need for about roughly $1,000,000 pay over the course of a lifetime. |
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Kaypea
Joined: 09 Oct 2008
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Posted: Sun Oct 31, 2010 6:58 pm Post subject: |
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cragesmure wrote: |
I went to China and got a few years of experience in the university system there. Now I'm in a university language centre in Korea, and the job is much better.
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So, would you reccomend doing some time teaching in Chinese universities? I think about this sometimes, lured by the short, short working weeks.
This is a bit of a thread hijack, yes, but let's talk about the possibilities of lessened workloads, for the OP's sake.
One can work in a Chinese university, make less than $1000 a month, but from what I've heard, teach as many private lessons as you please and not do that badly, is that right?
The downside is you have to live in China.
The upside is you get to live in China.
It's something to think about. |
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Troglodyte

Joined: 06 Dec 2009
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Posted: Sun Oct 31, 2010 9:08 pm Post subject: |
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I've worked in China. If you get a job with a good company/school, then your salary and accommodations will be great by local standards. You can have a much better standard of living in China than you can get in Korea. The downside is that the salary is pretty much worthless outside China. But while you're there, you can live like a king. |
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