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Peacerocks



Joined: 09 Sep 2009

PostPosted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 12:52 am    Post subject: Landlord problem - Sofa Reply with quote

A few weeks ago I posted about a problem I was having with my ex-landlord. Whereby even though she had taken a sofa from our house earlier in the contract she was demanding there be one there when we left. Our nice expensive cream one. Anyway she got her way and I took the sofa back to her house 5 days later. I bought a new sofa she ended up with two. Her old one and my one.
We then settled our outstanding bills and paid 8man won for two broken door handles to be repaired despite me arguing this was wear and tare and at most we should pay 50%.

Anyway, now she is demanding 5 days full rent for the time the sofa was outside of the house. She says she could not show anyone the house for those 5 days and some how that works out at full rent. It was a big modern two bedroom, 5 days full rent is 15man won. My hagwon want me to pay. They didn't negotiate about the door handles. Their next step is to get me to go and apolagise to the woman. I can do this, behind gritted teeth, but there isn't even a guarantee that she will drop this crazy rent demand.

What can I do? Can I get any support on this? Is it worth getting a Korean friend, not colleague, to try and talk to her?
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Cerulean



Joined: 19 Aug 2009

PostPosted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 2:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you are sure you have honored the contract and this issue is not a contractual one, then I think she's taking you for a ride.

For me, it would be enough. Ask a Korean friend how to approach her and get some culture prep for the situation. And ask someone older. (I recently had to say no at my school for something not school related and a Korean teacher at another school prepared me how to do it.)

How about your hogwan? What does your boss say?

If this doesn't work, tell her it's not your problem. Tell her there's nothing in the contract. Tell her whatever, but be done with her. You've tried.

I've seen apartments without furniture when I was looking to rent. I also saw apartments with furniture and clothes strewn all over.

She's taking you for a ride.

Good luck!
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BoholDiver



Joined: 03 Oct 2009
Location: Canada

PostPosted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 2:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's a hagwon provided house, right? Awesome. Your key money isn't being held. Tell her to ModEdit.

* Cute spellings of inappropriate language in order to avoid the swear-filter is still a violation of the TOS.
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conrad2



Joined: 05 Nov 2009

PostPosted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 4:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You totally caved in on the sofa, so she figures you are a sucker and or chump, so she is pushing it as far as she can. You should never have given in on the sofa.
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Troglodyte



Joined: 06 Dec 2009

PostPosted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 11:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you don't pay for the 5 days, what will happen?

Are you leaving Korea? I suspect that you aren't. So if your school deducts it from your pay, then go to the labor board and say that you weren't paid in full.

Don't pay the landlord. The worst that can happen is that the hogwan deducts it from your pay. But then at least you can fight it. If you just pay her, the money is gone. You can't even try to get it back.
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Died By Bear



Joined: 13 Jul 2010
Location: On the big lake they call Gitche Gumee

PostPosted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 1:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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...despite me arguing this was wear and tare...



What is wear and tare?
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furtakk



Joined: 02 Jun 2009

PostPosted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 3:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

ignore her.
not your problem.
ignore your old school.
not your problem.

you caved on the couch AND door handles (which you shouldn't have) so she knows you're weak.

again.
not your problem.
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hapigokelli



Joined: 04 Aug 2009

PostPosted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 3:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You gave her your couch?!?!?!
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crossmr



Joined: 22 Nov 2008
Location: Hwayangdong, Seoul

PostPosted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 3:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

hapigokelli wrote:
You gave her your couch?!?!?!


This simply blows my mind. Why would you ever do that? If you bought the couch it's obviously not hers.
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Peacerocks



Joined: 09 Sep 2009

PostPosted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 5:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I can't ignore it, I still work for the same hagwon. Plus, I need the key money which she is refusing to release for my new house.

Wear and tare is when something just breaks over the duration of a contract, it is not purposefully done so. Like a table leg on an old table, therefore the landlord not the tenant should pay. Anyway, we paid for the door handles. My hagwon insisted this was a good idea to try and placate her.

I had to give her the couch contractually, because the contract stated their had to be a couch in the apartment when we moved out and we didn't get the contract amended when she took her couch out in the first few weeks of the contract.

Anyway, she's still demanding that 15man won. I'm off to the Seoul global center behind city hall today. Mybe they can get someone to talk to her.
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nathanrutledge



Joined: 01 May 2008
Location: Marakesh

PostPosted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 5:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Peacerocks wrote:
I can't ignore it, I still work for the same hagwon. Plus, I need the key money which she is refusing to release for my new house.

Wear and tare is when something just breaks over the duration of a contract, it is not purposefully done so. Like a table leg on an old table, therefore the landlord not the tenant should pay. Anyway, we paid for the door handles. My hagwon insisted this was a good idea to try and placate her.

I had to give her the couch contractually, because the contract stated their had to be a couch in the apartment when we moved out and we didn't get the contract amended when she took her couch out in the first few weeks of the contract.

Anyway, she's still demanding that 15man won. I'm off to the Seoul global center behind city hall today. Mybe they can get someone to talk to her.


I think he's bugging you about your spelling, it's "wear and tear".

And time the hell out.

I thought you gave the owners couch to the realtor? Are you saying that you gave the original couch to the landlord? And she has it? But the contract says that there must be a couch in the apartment, so you must put one in? EVEN THOUGH SHE HAS HER COUCH? Am I reading this right? The original couch is in her possession?

If I'm reading this right, I must say, you are a total sucker. Contract nothing, you have ZERO obligation to her other than to leave the apartment as you found it. If SHE has HER couch because YOU gave it to her, then SHE HAS HER COUCH. Who cares if it is physically in the apartment? That doesn't mean a thing!
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AsiaESLbound



Joined: 07 Jan 2010
Location: Truck Stop Missouri

PostPosted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 5:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

crossmr wrote:
hapigokelli wrote:
You gave her your couch?!?!?!


This simply blows my mind. Why would you ever do that? If you bought the couch it's obviously not hers.


Not just in Korea, but almost anywhere people will take you for a run if they think you are gullible or lacking the courage to stand up for yourself. Not everyone are ethical, virtuous, and civilized about their business dealings, especially those with a power advantage like landlords. If you showed some weakness like trying to be extra nice and letting things slide, they will most likely try to exploit you in some way or another and act like it's the right thing to do standing their ground. They do this by making unreasonable demands and holding their ground as if they are legitimately correct, but if you cut em' off early in the game with a firm NO or some correction to what you think the facts are, they are discouraged to ever start a game of hardball. Often trying to be nice by giving up part of what is yours in the first place only leads to more problems where they make more claims against you to exploit a weakness or what they think is a weak client. Not only in business dealings, this is also very true in employment relationships

Conflict is the very last thing you want while abroad, because you probably don't have a leg to stand on if an issue goes to the legal system even if you are 100% right. Back home over the years, I often had to make a threat of legal action by citing exactly what the laws and processes are in the state book to make selfish greedy slumlords shut up about bogus claims and return my deposits in full. In a foreign country, things are quite very different when it comes to fighting and defending an issue brought up against you which I hope to never have to deal with. The only way an issue is corrected in your favor or dropped is if they perceive it would be too much trouble to challenge you, they are actually honest with a warm heart, or it's simply too embarrassing to bring it to anyone's attention. You can always still say NO to anything and argue it. And I would since I'm religious about fighting those trying to unfairly exploit or wrong me. Wew, I've had many real fights on a professional, personal, and legal level in my lifetime, but that was at home where I know the language and the system with full civil rights backing me.
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Underwaterbob



Joined: 08 Jan 2005
Location: In Cognito

PostPosted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 5:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I had to deal with all kinds of insanity when I last moved too. A lot of landlords will, If you're hanging around town, try and bilk you for everything you've got if you let them. I left my last apartment in better shape than when I arrived (which was not good at the time) and they still tried to get me to pay to re-mactac the floors. I told them my responsibility to the place was over and that I would not pay, was not angry but very final with them. They relented.

Seriously, the place was a dump when I arrived, and they told me to spend my first day (back) in Korea cleaning, after 36 straight hours of travel. Then they try and get over 300'000 won in cleaning/repair fees out of me when I leave, yeah right!

Also, the local school board demanded that I replace the broken TV that I paid 5000 won to have thrown away (no way was I leaving the decent TV I bought to replace it while living there.) They fed me some line about it being a national asset since it technically belongs to the government. I went to the junkyard and picked up another broken TV for 10'000 won that someone else will have to pay 5000 won to throw away again. I suppose in the end the government will have made 10'000 won in disposal fees. Maybe that was the whole point.
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nomad-ish



Joined: 08 Oct 2007
Location: On the bottom of the food chain

PostPosted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 6:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

conrad2 wrote:
You totally caved in on the sofa, so she figures you are a sucker and or chump, so she is pushing it as far as she can. You should never have given in on the sofa.


^ this. she's now just taking you for a ride.

why don't you try dropping a name of "your" lawyer to her? don't get angry, remain calm, and mention that you think you, she, and your lawyer should make an appointment to meet next week to discuss the matter. bluffing might work, besides if you just keep giving in to her increasing demands i can't see her backing down anytime soon.
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southernman



Joined: 15 Jan 2010
Location: On the mainland again

PostPosted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 11:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dam how much is the key money... she's taking you for a ride, theres no doubt about that.

Yup, it's time to get an older Korean involved, they will sort out this resonably quickly. Lawyers cost money

I had a landlady ripping me off here, when I realised, I told my bosses wife, she (my bosses wife) put the money into my account that afternoon.
She sorted out the landlady and got repaid by her.
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