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3rdplaceRobot
Joined: 30 Jun 2013
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Posted: Tue Jul 02, 2013 5:13 am Post subject: Might have to pull a midnight run, but I have questions |
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I recently took a job at a chain hagwon. I've been here a little over a week now and just moved into my apartment. Another teacher mentioned they thought there was a mold problem in there but I was assured that it had been fixed. It hasn't been. Half the wallpaper has been ripped off and the mold is still there. They actually need to replace the wall. I'm trying to discuss it with the school now; however, they didn't handle a previous teacher's housing complaint well at all, so I'm preparing for it to get dismissed. They've also shown themselves to be somewhat deceptive in other respects. Apparently there hasn't been a midnight run at my school in years, but most of the teachers also seem so desperate for the job that they'll deal with the school's bullshit.
I have the money and resources to get home, but I want to be fully prepared for what might happen. My contract requires paying back the plane ticket as well as the housing deposit. It also requires 60 days' notice, but I'll only be able to give 30 at the most. I was planning on traveling with a friend who's also living in Korea during the summer break at the end of July. (Pay day would be shortly before that.)
I mainly want info on what unforeseen fees or obstacles I could end up dealing with and whether or not a midnight run would be best. I have no plans on returning to work in Korea. The school told me it would be about two months before I got my ARC card. Will that be an issue when it comes to leaving the country and canceling my visa? Will I have problems trying to stay in the country for an extra week if I give notice and my last day is before the break?
Like I said, I'm trying to work it out with my school, but if things look like they aren't going to be fixed, I want to have a plan in mind. |
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Swampfox10mm
Joined: 24 Mar 2011
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Posted: Tue Jul 02, 2013 5:28 am Post subject: |
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Two months to get your ARC card? Sounds like you are working illegally because they may not have actually started paperwork.
What is your home country? When is your next payday? Have you ever been paid?
Get your money and get the heck out. Hope you have not overstayed on a tourist visa. DO NOT tell anyone you are leaving or they will stick you with airfare. Do not tell other teachers either. They are not your friends and will be looking out for their own hides and sell you out while acting like your buddy. |
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CentralCali
Joined: 17 May 2007
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Posted: Tue Jul 02, 2013 5:38 am Post subject: |
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^ Sounds spot on. Also, the law says you don't have to give any notice at all. Doesn't matter what the contract says in that respect. |
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tophatcat
Joined: 09 Aug 2006 Location: under the hat
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Posted: Tue Jul 02, 2013 7:15 am Post subject: |
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CentralCali wrote: |
^ Sounds spot on. Also, the law says you don't have to give any notice at all. Doesn't matter what the contract says in that respect. |
This^ No need to live in a mold infested den of death. |
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robbie_davies
Joined: 16 Jun 2013
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Posted: Tue Jul 02, 2013 9:00 am Post subject: |
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You have been in Korea for a week? |
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3rdplaceRobot
Joined: 30 Jun 2013
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Posted: Tue Jul 02, 2013 11:06 am Post subject: |
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Thanks for your replies, I am here on a work visa, but they did hire me within a little over a month of my start date. I was given the two month estimate by a foreign supervisor, so he may have made a mistake. I'm from the US and my first pay day is going to be at the end of the month, just before the break. |
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ttompatz

Joined: 05 Sep 2005 Location: Kwangju, South Korea
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Posted: Tue Jul 02, 2013 2:39 pm Post subject: |
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3rdplaceRobot wrote: |
Thanks for your replies, I am here on a work visa, but they did hire me within a little over a month of my start date. I was given the two month estimate by a foreign supervisor, so he may have made a mistake. I'm from the US and my first pay day is going to be at the end of the month, just before the break. |
I assume they have a 10-day delay between the end of the pay period and pay-day. They have enough of your unpaid labor to actually cover your honestly due repayment costs (airfare to Korea)
If so, feel free to leave at your convenience; the day after you actually get paid may be the best.
You are not an indentured servant.
Nobody at the airport will stop you or care.
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robbie_davies
Joined: 16 Jun 2013
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Posted: Tue Jul 02, 2013 3:17 pm Post subject: |
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ttompatz wrote: |
3rdplaceRobot wrote: |
Thanks for your replies, I am here on a work visa, but they did hire me within a little over a month of my start date. I was given the two month estimate by a foreign supervisor, so he may have made a mistake. I'm from the US and my first pay day is going to be at the end of the month, just before the break. |
I assume they have a 10-day delay between the end of the pay period and pay-day. They have enough of your unpaid labor to actually cover your honestly due repayment costs (airfare to Korea)
If so, feel free to leave at your convenience; the day after you actually get paid may be the best.
You are not an indentured servant.
Nobody at the airport will stop you or care.
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True Sir Ttom - but the kid has only been here a week, he is probably suffering from culture shock and home sickness, I know when I first got there it hit me hard.
OP - give it some time and settle in. It is hard now and it may take a month or two but you are suffering from culture shock. If there hasn't been a midnight run in years, it is not because people are 'too scared to leave' it is probably because it is a reasonable outfit - by Korean standards.
Don't leave because of a bit of peeling wallpaper. Mould is part and parcel of living in Korea - the buildings are shite and are built within 6 weeks but it can be dealt with. Hardly an insurmountable problem.
Don't quit after a month, you'll be back wherever you came from and you are going to regret not giving it a proper go. |
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3rdplaceRobot
Joined: 30 Jun 2013
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Posted: Tue Jul 02, 2013 5:06 pm Post subject: |
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First, not a kid. Second, not a dude. Third, not suffering from culture shock or home sickness. And I said I've been at the school about a week, not that I've been in Korea a week.
What I have in my apartment is black mold, which can be toxic and which can cause a ton of health problems. It made the last teacher sick and he didn't even realize it was connected to the mold. I'm not complaining about the wallpaper (which isn't peeling; it was ripped off to inspect the wall). I'm complaining about the fact that there is black mold in my apartment that they've known about for months and haven't done anything about it. I also never said people were too scared to leave. I said they were too desperate to leave. Most of the teachers here don't have other options or a way to get home. I do. I have something I can return to in the US, but I have to be back by August and I have to give notice soon. I also have friends and family in the states and Korea who will help me.
And as I said, I'm trying to work this out with my school but I'm preparing for what I need to do in case it turns ugly (as I mentioned it did for another teacher).
I would appreciate responses that actually answer my questions instead of assuming that I'm just running from the culture or running home to mommy. I have no reason to keep a job that risks my health when I have other options and when I can easily return to Korea later. |
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Dalton

Joined: 26 Mar 2003
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Posted: Tue Jul 02, 2013 5:15 pm Post subject: |
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Culture shock is pretty subtle. If you start to think Koreans can read your mind, you'll know for sure. I believe it strikes about 6 weeks in give or take a week. Short temper, paranoia, other symptoms that creep up on you. Read about it.
IIRC one can buy sprays to deal with mold. IIRC mold or some molds can be hazardous to one's health. Your complaint is legitimate IMHO. You may have to take some (inexpensive) steps to deal with it on your own. The school might appreciate that you did this and ran into a wall (if that happens). They may be more likely to help if you've tried whatever you could first.
Hogwons can be worn down by small, unrealistic complaints about housing over the years and pretty much close their ears, missing important, legitimate issues.
Koreans may believe that things like molds, insect infestations are a result of foreign lifestyle and (reflexively) blame you for such things. Along the lines of the notion that AIDS is a foreigner disease for example. The funniest one I've heard is that only foreigners sweat.
So Google the mold and see if you can buy a cheap spray. Let them know that it is a health concern and you are taking some actions and will keep them apprised of your efforts.
Hope this helps. |
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robbie_davies
Joined: 16 Jun 2013
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Posted: Tue Jul 02, 2013 6:30 pm Post subject: |
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3rdplaceRobot wrote: |
First, not a kid. Second, not a dude. Third, not suffering from culture shock or home sickness. And I said I've been at the school about a week, not that I've been in Korea a week. |
If you are not a kid then stop acting like one, if you want to leave then do one and be honest about it, stop blaming peeling wallpaper? How long have you been in Korea?
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What I have in my apartment is black mold, which can be toxic and which can cause a ton of health problems. It made the last teacher sick and he didn't even realize it was connected to the mold. I'm not complaining about the wallpaper (which isn't peeling; it was ripped off to inspect the wall). I'm complaining about the fact that there is black mold in my apartment that they've known about for months and haven't done anything about it. |
You can deal with this yourself you know - do you want the hagwon to re-decorate or to move you somewhere else?
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I also never said people were too scared to leave. I said they were too desperate to leave. Most of the teachers here don't have other options or a way to get home. I do. I have something I can return to in the US, but I have to be back by August and I have to give notice soon. I also have friends and family in the states and Korea who will help me. |
You have no idea what and why people stay in a situation, they actually might like what they are doing and where they are - because you don't doesn't mean they are desperate.
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And as I said, I'm trying to work this out with my school but I'm preparing for what I need to do in case it turns ugly (as I mentioned it did for another teacher). |
At the end of payday - get yourself to the airport and fly out of there, any notice will mean you end up working that final month for next to nothing.
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I would appreciate responses that actually answer my questions instead of assuming that I'm just running from the culture or running home to mommy. I have no reason to keep a job that risks my health when I have other options and when I can easily return to Korea later. |
Stop being so melodramatic.
You are not living in an asbestos block in Bosnia - it is a bit of mold and peeling wallpaper for christs sakes!
Go home and don't try this again if a bit of peeling wallpaper and mould are going to make you run. |
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3rdplaceRobot
Joined: 30 Jun 2013
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Posted: Tue Jul 02, 2013 7:58 pm Post subject: |
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I know culture shock. This has nothing to do with culture shock. I also know about maintenance and renovation. This mold is in the drywall, which has to be replaced in order to get rid of it. You cannot get it out any other way.
I do not want to leave Korea and I do not want to leave my job. I came here for specific reasons and would prefer to stay, but I won't risk my health over it. I already said the wallpaper isn't the issue, and the fact that you keep sticking on that shows that you aren't reading anything. I don't need a nice place to live but I do need a place that isn't going to make me sick. I've worked for more than enough questionable employers and lived in more than enough substandard housing; I don't need the specific experience of doing it for a hagwon.
I've talked to the other teachers about how they feel about the school, their living situations, and what they plan to do at the end of their contracts, so yes, I do know how they feel and why they're staying. I may not know everything, but I know a lot more than you do. I'm also not keen on running because it could really screw over the other teachers. I'm not a 'get mine and go' kind of person, nor do I just quit jobs because I don't like them (especially if quitting is going to be a pretty involved process, like leaving in the dead of night and flying to a different continent).
I'm not being melodramatic. I've already said that the teacher before me got sick from living here, and I know enough about my own health to know that it's not worth it if this doesn't get resolved.
I am asking for answers to my questions so I'll be able to make a decision on the spot if necessary. If I had more time, I would wait, but I don't. Just because I'm keeping my eye on the door doesn't mean I've already decided to bolt. |
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tophatcat
Joined: 09 Aug 2006 Location: under the hat
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Posted: Tue Jul 02, 2013 8:54 pm Post subject: |
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Sir robbie has painted himself into a corner. He is making statements like the OP is wanting to have his home remodeled when clearly the OP is wanting to have a severe mold problem corrected.
you have failed Sir robbie |
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ewlandon
Joined: 30 Jan 2011 Location: teacher
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Posted: Tue Jul 02, 2013 9:23 pm Post subject: |
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You say you want to work it out but you also can only give 30 days because you have travel plans. Why do you have travel plans when you just started a job a week ago?
Sounds like you were looking for an excuse to leave this job. As for the mold, tell the school you need a mold free apartment to continue working there as it is not suitable living conditions. If they say no then they aren't holding to their end of the contract and just ask for a LOR and tell them you will report them to the labor board. They will find you a mold free place. |
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ewlandon
Joined: 30 Jan 2011 Location: teacher
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Posted: Tue Jul 02, 2013 9:27 pm Post subject: |
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also to answer your questions, which are non-questions in my opinion..
A "midnight run" by definition is running away from the obligations you are questioning. So no you wont have to pay them back because instead of paying them back you fled the country, that is why people run. It's pretty cowardly esp for someone who says they have been here awhile. |
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