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Merik Ronim
Joined: 03 Apr 2010
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Posted: Sat Dec 25, 2010 11:38 pm Post subject: Should I give notice? |
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I read the FAQ for breaking a contract, but I'm still not sure about whether I should tell my school I'm leaving.
I've been here for six months and plan to leave in two. My school is honest and the director is a kind person. I like my fellow teachers, and don't wish to make them pick up my classes on short notice.
The job is ok, but my neighborhood and apartment are terrible. I don't much like my city either. On top of all this I recently learned that my Dad is having some health problems. So, it's time to go.
What's the worst that the school can do to me if I give notice? I want to do the right thing, but I'm worried they'll shaft me for my last two paychecks.
Any thoughts, experiences?
cheers. |
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TheresaTheresa
Joined: 24 Feb 2010
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Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 12:12 am Post subject: |
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Don't give notice. |
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Troglodyte

Joined: 06 Dec 2009
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Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 1:40 am Post subject: |
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They'll likely shaft you on your last salary. They know that if they try to mess with you on your second last payday, you won't likely stick around for the last month.
It's likely that you'll also get treated badly for your remaining time.
But who knows. Sometimes they are sympathetic and understanding. From most of what I've heard (in person and online) it's more likely that they won't be very understanding. |
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hotelcalifornia
Joined: 21 Dec 2010
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Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 2:25 am Post subject: |
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Are you a gambling man?
The honorable thing here is to save face.... read that as a strong possibility that giving notice may be interpreted as a slap in the face.
It's very hard to know what the right answer is, almost impossible.
I'd say learn from others mistakes and not your own.... get your check and jet.
In a utopian society, everyone behaves like a gentleman and we all behave honorably..... but you're not in Mr Roger's Neighborhood. You're in Korea.
Understand what has happened to others in the past, understand your environment, act as selfishly or as honorably as they would (and have in the past). Simple game theory. In Korea, it's a race to the bottom, and they're already there.
Clean apt, pay the bills, jet. my 2c, but hey I'm a psychotic runner. |
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OculisOrbis

Joined: 17 Jul 2006
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Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 3:04 am Post subject: |
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hotelcalifornia wrote: |
Are you a gambling man?
The honorable thing here is to save face.... read that as a strong possibility that giving notice may be interpreted as a slap in the face.
It's very hard to know what the right answer is, almost impossible.
I'd say learn from others mistakes and not your own.... get your check and jet.
In a utopian society, everyone behaves like a gentleman and we all behave honorably..... but you're not in Mr Roger's Neighborhood. You're in Korea.
Understand what has happened to others in the past, understand your environment, act as selfishly or as honorably as they would (and have in the past). Simple game theory. In Korea, it's a race to the bottom, and they're already there.
Clean apt, pay the bills, jet. my 2c, but hey I'm a psychotic runner. |
That's not psychotic. It's honorable....if you report the employer so they can face the consequences of the reasons that made you run.
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hotelcalifornia
Joined: 21 Dec 2010
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Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 3:15 am Post subject: |
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The things making him want to go specifically do not include wrongdoing and malfeasance by his employer. Cited reasons: Neighborhood, city, apt, dad's health.
Do you mean report them if they have not paid him? Of course, but that doesn't help him in the here and now, just (maybe) someone else down the road.
Jet. They will behave selfishly. It's a job, not a marriage. It's business. Nothing personal. Jet. jet jet.
report. report. report. always..... but don't hope for good behavior from someone who can save money by not paying you. You are a profit center for them. Jet. |
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Merik Ronim
Joined: 03 Apr 2010
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Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 4:43 am Post subject: |
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There's no real reason to report my Hawgon. Like you said, they haven't broken any promises or withheld any payments.
The only reason I'm even considering giving notice is so my fellow foreign teachers don't have to cover my classes for a full month while the school finds a new sap. |
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hotelcalifornia
Joined: 21 Dec 2010
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Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 4:54 am Post subject: |
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Merik Ronim wrote: |
By report do you mean get in touch with the school after the fact and explain why I cut and ran? I suppose it's the least I could do for my fellow foreign teachers.
They're the only reason I'm even considering giving notice. |
By report, I mean if the school has done something wrong in terms of the contract, by all means report this to the labor board. Sounds like other reasons are driving you away and I'd let them know so they can make adjustments to make life better. Not much they can do about the city/neighborhood/your dad's health, but the apt. may be below health standards, and that is part of the contract, to provide a decent place.
It would be good to let them know why you left. Sounds like otherwise they might be left guessing.... |
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OculisOrbis

Joined: 17 Jul 2006
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Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 4:54 am Post subject: |
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No, your school likely is fully aware of why you ran and doesnt care. Make them care by reporting them to any government agency that they lied to or cheated you out of benefits for....tax, pension, health are the standards. Wages and workings conditions are the labor board. They will tell your employer, along with applying a sizable penalty, that your employer is wrong and that might possibly change your employer's practices. |
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Troglodyte

Joined: 06 Dec 2009
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Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 11:08 pm Post subject: |
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Another thing that I forgot to mention before, and no one else has since mentioned, is that sometimes if you give notice, they will fire you on the spot or well before the time that you told them you'd leave.
e.g.
You: "Mr. Kim, I'm giving you notice that in 1 month from now, I'm leaving." Kim: "Blah blah blah. You can't do that! Blah blah blah. You bad teacher. Blah blah blah. Not acceptable....."
Four days later...
Kim: "This is your last day. You must leave your apartment tomorrow."
You: "You can't do that. I have a contract. I have no where to go."
Kim: "I have too many complaints about you. I lose a lot of students because of you. blah blah blah."
You move out. New teacher starts work there 2 days afterwards.
So, unless you have all your documents ready and COULD move out the same day, don't tell them anything. Sure it's illegal and you could probably win if you took them to court, but where are you going to stay until then? What will you THAT night if you go home and your stuff is out on the curb (in the rain maybe) and the locks have been changed? Unless you're prepared for that situation, don't tell them. |
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CentralCali
Joined: 17 May 2007
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Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 11:19 pm Post subject: Re: Should I give notice? |
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Merik Ronim wrote: |
the director is a kind person. |
Merik Ronim wrote: |
The job is ok, but my neighborhood and apartment are terrible. |
You're contradicting yourself. |
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TheresaTheresa
Joined: 24 Feb 2010
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Posted: Mon Dec 27, 2010 1:06 am Post subject: |
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Troglodyte wrote: |
Another thing that I forgot to mention before, and no one else has since mentioned, is that sometimes if you give notice, they will fire you on the spot or well before the time that you told them you'd leave.
e.g.
You: "Mr. Kim, I'm giving you notice that in 1 month from now, I'm leaving." Kim: "Blah blah blah. You can't do that! Blah blah blah. You bad teacher. Blah blah blah. Not acceptable....."
Four days later...
Kim: "This is your last day. You must leave your apartment tomorrow."
You: "You can't do that. I have a contract. I have no where to go."
Kim: "I have too many complaints about you. I lose a lot of students because of you. blah blah blah."
You move out. New teacher starts work there 2 days afterwards.
So, unless you have all your documents ready and COULD move out the same day, don't tell them anything. Sure it's illegal and you could probably win if you took them to court, but where are you going to stay until then? What will you THAT night if you go home and your stuff is out on the curb (in the rain maybe) and the locks have been changed? Unless you're prepared for that situation, don't tell them. |
True. That is one of the many things that can go wrong if someone gives notice which is why it is simply best not to. |
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Merik Ronim
Joined: 03 Apr 2010
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Posted: Mon Dec 27, 2010 4:13 am Post subject: Re: Should I give notice? |
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CentralCali wrote: |
Merik Ronim wrote: |
the director is a kind person. |
Merik Ronim wrote: |
The job is ok, but my neighborhood and apartment are terrible. |
You're contradicting yourself. |
Haha. What I should have said is that the Director is an honest and kind person who also happens to be completely incompetent at their job.
The school has done me no real harm. I don't begrudge them the god awful apartment, from a business standpoint it makes perfect sense to stick your teachers in the cheapest place possible. It's also not their fault the neighborhood is a trash filled slum where the air tastes like radioactive sand.
Again, it's really a matter of me possibly getting screwed over vs. screwing over my fellow foreign teachers with a month of extra classes. |
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lawyertood

Joined: 17 Jan 2003 Location: Seoul, Incheon and the World--working undercover for the MOJ
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Posted: Mon Dec 27, 2010 4:20 am Post subject: |
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The only reason I'm even considering giving notice is so my fellow foreign teachers don't have to cover my classes for a full month while the school finds a new sap. |
Curious why you used this word then? |
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CentralCali
Joined: 17 May 2007
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Posted: Mon Dec 27, 2010 5:54 am Post subject: Re: Should I give notice? |
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Merik Ronim wrote: |
CentralCali wrote: |
Merik Ronim wrote: |
the director is a kind person. |
Merik Ronim wrote: |
The job is ok, but my neighborhood and apartment are terrible. |
You're contradicting yourself. |
Haha. What I should have said is that the Director is an honest and kind person who also happens to be completely incompetent at their job.
The school has done me no real harm. I don't begrudge them the god awful apartment, from a business standpoint it makes perfect sense to stick your teachers in the cheapest place possible. It's also not their fault the neighborhood is a trash filled slum where the air tastes like radioactive sand.
Again, it's really a matter of me possibly getting screwed over vs. screwing over my fellow foreign teachers with a month of extra classes. |
I think it's a matter of you making excuses for the boss. The boss should make his own excuses for his own bad business practices. It's 100% the boss's fault for choosing the particular neighborhood to place you. |
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