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daveeslcafe888
Joined: 09 Apr 2011
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Posted: Wed May 11, 2011 8:26 am Post subject: Anything to Prevent Homesickness? |
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Hi Everyone,
I'm leaving for Korea in about two weeks. While I know that I won't know anything until I try it out for myself, I am still worried about feeling trapped and homesick.
Do you guys have any potential remedies?
(I'm guessing merely going out and meeting as many people as possible can help).
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CarolinaTHeels
Joined: 07 Apr 2011
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Posted: Wed May 11, 2011 8:36 am Post subject: |
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keep urself busy!
workout
play a sport
go out 3 nights a week
take salsa lessons
tons of stuff to do! |
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cragesmure
Joined: 23 Oct 2010
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Posted: Wed May 11, 2011 8:36 am Post subject: |
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No worries for the first few months. Everything is new and different, which serves as enough of a distraction. If you feel a little down after the honeymoon period has worn off, travel a bunch and ignore the neg-heads. Get out of the shoebox apartment as much as possible. Vacation time permitting, get out of the country. You will almost certainly get homesick at times, but it passes. Look at the positives of where you are and what you are doing, and remember that you can leave at any time if things get too bad. |
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Zackback
Joined: 05 Nov 2010 Location: Kyungbuk
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Posted: Wed May 11, 2011 2:32 pm Post subject: |
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1. Log on to, post and read a lot on Dave's. It helps me keep what little if any sanity I have left.
2. Get involved with any hobby/hobbies you have...and/or pick up new ones here.
3. Get a girlfriend. It makes life so much better here.
4. Try to really do well with your teaching...planning etc.
5. Watch television programs/movies from home. |
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joeteacher
Joined: 11 Jul 2007
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Posted: Wed May 11, 2011 3:11 pm Post subject: |
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Just to add to others:
Get/bring a computer. Get skype and call family and friends often.
I think listening to podcasts keeps me from getting homesick. I've always enjoyed talk radio so I download some from my country to kind of "keep in touch" with home. |
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Yaya

Joined: 25 Feb 2003 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Wed May 11, 2011 8:37 pm Post subject: |
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Grow a pair or go home. |
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isitts
Joined: 25 Dec 2008 Location: Korea
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Posted: Wed May 11, 2011 8:40 pm Post subject: Re: Anything to Prevent Homesickness? |
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daveeslcafe888 wrote: |
Hi Everyone,
I'm leaving for Korea in about two weeks. While I know that I won't know anything until I try it out for myself, I am still worried about feeling trapped and homesick.
Do you guys have any potential remedies?
(I'm guessing merely going out and meeting as many people as possible can help).
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DVDs of your favorite television shows.
...and what the others said...except Yaya.  |
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lithium

Joined: 18 Jun 2008
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Posted: Thu May 12, 2011 10:47 am Post subject: |
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joeteacher wrote: |
Just to add to others:
Get/bring a computer. Get skype and call family and friends often.
I think listening to podcasts keeps me from getting homesick. I've always enjoyed talk radio so I download some from my country to kind of "keep in touch" with home. |
dittos! |
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Setaro
Joined: 08 Aug 2010
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Posted: Thu May 12, 2011 3:06 pm Post subject: |
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I've found hating your own country and countrymen to be a great immunization against home sickness. |
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eamo

Joined: 08 Mar 2003 Location: Shepherd's Bush, 1964.
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Posted: Thu May 12, 2011 3:18 pm Post subject: |
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Yaya wrote: |
Grow a pair or go home. |
More or less my opinion.
If you're the kind of person who gets overly homesick then it's probably better to just not travel.
Your experience in Korea will be entirely unpredictable. You could have the time of your life and feel quickly at home here.........or you could find yourself in a living hell. Or somewhere in between.
Just be optimistic and do it! |
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Jane

Joined: 01 Feb 2003
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Posted: Thu May 12, 2011 3:50 pm Post subject: |
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Food for me is the big thing. Bring with you to Korea certain snacks or spices, etc. you like from back home, because Korea is still a highly protective market, and any import stuff is still a delicacy. |
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D-Man

Joined: 17 Jun 2008
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Posted: Thu May 12, 2011 6:19 pm Post subject: |
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Whisky. |
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Yaya

Joined: 25 Feb 2003 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Thu May 12, 2011 8:43 pm Post subject: |
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eamo wrote: |
Yaya wrote: |
Grow a pair or go home. |
More or less my opinion.
If you're the kind of person who gets overly homesick then it's probably better to just not travel.
Your experience in Korea will be entirely unpredictable. You could have the time of your life and feel quickly at home here.........or you could find yourself in a living hell. Or somewhere in between.
Just be optimistic and do it! |
Considering the OP is asking just about every question on this board about living in Korea, I wonder if he won't ask whether bringing his mommy would be a good idea. |
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SoylaMBPolymath
Joined: 21 Jan 2011
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Posted: Fri May 13, 2011 6:28 am Post subject: |
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I came to Korea because I was tired of home. And I'm not even the type of "foreigner" who goes out every night, or seeks out other foreigners.
My favorite things to do in Korea, thus far?
Hit the batting cage, take walks, watch baseball (on TV), see some of my students, and...come home and read/watch movies/Skype/surf the net.
Maybe you should wait to see if you'll even feel "homesick?"
I'm an Earthling, not just a U.S. citizen. Sounds dumb, but this type of attitude has served me well, and I intend to use it until the day I die. |
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Hokie21
Joined: 01 Mar 2011
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Posted: Fri May 13, 2011 6:57 am Post subject: |
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SoylaMBPolymath wrote: |
I came to Korea because I was tired of home. And I'm not even the type of "foreigner" who goes out every night, or seeks out other foreigners.
My favorite things to do in Korea, thus far?
Hit the batting cage, take walks, watch baseball (on TV), see some of my students, and...come home and read/watch movies/Skype/surf the net.
Maybe you should wait to see if you'll even feel "homesick?"
I'm an Earthling, not just a U.S. citizen. Sounds dumb, but this type of attitude has served me well, and I intend to use it until the day I die. |
Greetings Earthling. |
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