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Should I feel guilty that I prematurely quit my job?

 
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NohopeSeriously



Joined: 17 Jan 2011
Location: The Christian Right-Wing Educational Republic of Korea

PostPosted: Fri May 27, 2011 4:47 am    Post subject: Should I feel guilty that I prematurely quit my job? Reply with quote

Things have bugged me lately. Especially I'm starting to feel guilty that I couldn't accomplish my contract (screw GEPIK). Is this normal? I couldn't care about this draconian VP and that bitchy co-teacher. I feel guilty that I didn't serve the kids well.

Should I feel very guilty about this? Especially that I figuratively ignored the kids?

FML.
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lifeinkorea



Joined: 24 Jan 2009
Location: somewhere in China

PostPosted: Fri May 27, 2011 5:18 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

First of all, many people look at doing 1 year contracts like a religious person thinking it's their duty to spread the word of their god. 1 year is an easy increment to use, like the number 10 or 12 for a dozen.

However, your time at one school could be 194 days and 13 hours, 38 minutes. It doesn't matter. Maybe since a lot of teachers come after finishing college, where they spent 4 years, they feel it is necessary to follow this way of thinking. You aren't earning credit though, so stop thinking in terms of semesters or years. The severance and airfare are just carrots on a stick to make you finish what might end up being nothing more than a slave factory job.

So, what you should do is really work on your teaching. If your teaching improves, your students will benefit, and then you will see results without trying to directly "serve" the kids.

What exactly do you think you did not do? Was it just not finishing the contract? Were there chapters or units you could have taught better?

You need to address the content of the problem, not the emotional paranoia you might feel from this mystery problem.
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NohopeSeriously



Joined: 17 Jan 2011
Location: The Christian Right-Wing Educational Republic of Korea

PostPosted: Fri May 27, 2011 6:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

lifeinkorea wrote:
You need to address the content of the problem, not the emotional paranoia you might feel from this mystery problem.


Sorry for the emotional paranoia. It seems that I really got the self-disappointment.

I was more disappointed that I didn't finish the contract. Anybody can do poorly for their first year. It's a learning process.
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lifeinkorea



Joined: 24 Jan 2009
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PostPosted: Fri May 27, 2011 7:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I was more disappointed that I didn't finish the contract. Anybody can do poorly for their first year. It's a learning process.


I don't know what that means. You want to feel bad because you are not programmed like a robot to finish one year?

If you did poorly, then that is the reason hiding behind your excuse you didn't finish the contract.

Is that the problem? Do you feel you did poorly? Come out and say it if it is. Don't hide behind the excuse, "Well I didn't finish the year."

You could easily finish many 1 year contracts and still teach poorly. I feel confident with elementary school and adult classes. Now I am trying to teach high school and some higher level middle school classes. It's all new, yet I am experienced.
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NohopeSeriously



Joined: 17 Jan 2011
Location: The Christian Right-Wing Educational Republic of Korea

PostPosted: Fri May 27, 2011 7:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

lifeinkorea wrote:
I don't know what that means.


Tip: mixed feelings
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