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morrison



Joined: 02 Mar 2003

PostPosted: Tue Mar 11, 2003 1:02 am    Post subject: appearances Reply with quote

I'm looking at heading over to Korea fairly shortly to teach English - just wanting to know whether any piercings are acceptable or whether I should take them out straight away?
Cheers.
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gang ah jee



Joined: 14 Jan 2003
Location: city of paper

PostPosted: Tue Mar 11, 2003 1:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

There is a strong negative correlation between the number of visible piercings you have and the quality of your working conditions.

Although if you can take your piercings out at work, it's fine to wear them in public... just expect more stares than usual.
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william beckerson
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PostPosted: Tue Mar 11, 2003 4:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Pluck them out. Koreans can be incredable busy-bodies and if a mom catches you and your chin-spike around town, she's gonna complain to your boss.
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Ya-ta Boy



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: Established in 1994

PostPosted: Tue Mar 11, 2003 4:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

This is a free world, but it might help to know that (generally speaking) Koreans are not into 'expressions of individualism'. What is liked and respected here, are the fashion model types. Koreans are openly 'success oriented' in terms of money and status.

Conformity at home has a kind of negative connotation, but here it does not. Things outside the norm are considered odd, selfish and untrustworthy.

Use your own best judgement.
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Corporal



Joined: 25 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Tue Mar 11, 2003 4:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ya-ta Boy wrote:
...it might help to know that (generally speaking) Koreans are not into 'expressions of individualism'. .


That is very true. However, piercings can hardly be considered expressions of individualism, nor can tattoos. Body mutilation has been around for centuries and in many cultures.
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Cabbit



Joined: 19 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Tue Mar 11, 2003 5:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have seen many pierced bodies in Korea but most of them tend to have jobs in fashion or computers. Generally teachers in any country are advised not to have facial piercings. I know that teaching in Oz the only piercings that are acceptable are nose studs on women.
I think that you could get away with a tongue piercing in a hagwon (a friend of mine has one) or even a nose stud on a lady. Anything else and I advise you to take it out if you want to be seen as professional.

I love peircings and tatoos but I understand that they are not really things you want to see on someone teaching your child.

what kind of piercing do you have?

oh and earings and belly rings are ok...heh
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Magog



Joined: 09 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Tue Mar 11, 2003 5:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If your a handsome devil then they wont give a monkeys although you had better take that 3 inch thick bar out of your cheek grow a beard and dont chew your food in public Razz
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The Great Wall of Whiner



Joined: 24 Jan 2003
Location: Middle Land

PostPosted: Tue Mar 11, 2003 1:45 pm    Post subject: well Reply with quote

I had an eyebrow ring for a while, and to be honest...

When I took and out and went back to Korea, people treated me better.

Just something I noticed.
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morrison



Joined: 02 Mar 2003

PostPosted: Tue Mar 11, 2003 10:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

thanks for the advice - guess I'll just hve to put up with having strangly located holes in my face rather than metal.....
there seems to be some disagreement over whether it's acceptable to wear peircings outside working hours?
Cabbit - labret, lip, eyebrow, tongue
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Weigookin74



Joined: 26 Oct 2009

PostPosted: Sun Jul 10, 2011 7:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ya-ta Boy wrote:
This is a free world, but it might help to know that (generally speaking) Koreans are not into 'expressions of individualism'. What is liked and respected here, are the fashion model types. Koreans are openly 'success oriented' in terms of money and status.

Conformity at home has a kind of negative connotation, but here it does not. Things outside the norm are considered odd, selfish and untrustworthy.

Use your own best judgement.


Wondering what attitudes in Seoul would be nowadays. (Countryside still seems to have much of this attitude.)
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SeoulNate



Joined: 04 Jun 2010
Location: Hyehwa

PostPosted: Sun Jul 10, 2011 8:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Weigookin74 wrote:


Wondering what attitudes in Seoul would be nowadays. (Countryside still seems to have much of this attitude.)


It is more accepted than it was 5-10 years ago, but you will still get more sneers and rude comments than anything else.

Also, your school may ask you to remove the perceived when you come to work depending on where they are. Guys will probably be okay with pierced ears and girls can get away with an extra small one in the nose, but that seems to be about the limit of tolerance.
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uhnothanks



Joined: 23 Nov 2009

PostPosted: Mon Jul 11, 2011 6:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have a nose stud. The only comments I've ever gotten were from my kindergartners.
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No_hite_pls



Joined: 05 Mar 2007
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PostPosted: Mon Jul 11, 2011 6:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Just like home, people with lots of piercings are not treated professionally.
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sadguy



Joined: 13 Feb 2011

PostPosted: Tue Jul 12, 2011 12:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

i have two gauges. i always take them out the first few weeks of school. then i slowly test the school by wearing them. they never say anything, so i keep 'em in. however, i'm getting old (29) and have recently been keeping them off.
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wishfullthinkng



Joined: 05 Mar 2010

PostPosted: Tue Jul 12, 2011 1:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

No_hite_pls wrote:
Just like home, people with lots of piercings are not treated professionally.


^ this. you are in a professional environment as a teacher no matter what people might lead you to believe otherwise. i'm not judging you as i've had my fair share of piercings, but college is over and we are not rock stars and we are expected to reflect that failure in life.
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