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Zackback
Joined: 05 Nov 2010 Location: Kyungbuk
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Posted: Mon Jul 11, 2011 4:41 am Post subject: Korean women smoking in public |
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Many years back a Korean female friend of mine told me this was a no-no to do in public (she was from Jeju). She smoked but did so in "proper" places - bars, etc. Where I live now in Korea I never see women smoking in plain view of others but on my way through Incheon I saw a young woman (university age) just walking on the sidewalk in the middle of the day and she lit up.
Is it acceptable for women to smoke in public in bigger cities now?
And a question for the western ladies here....do you refrain from doing so in public in Korea?
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danwom
Joined: 31 May 2011
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Posted: Mon Jul 11, 2011 6:03 am Post subject: |
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Women are not supposed to smoke in general. Smoking is a way for a girl to quietly rebel against society. If she smokes while walking down the street, that just means she is more of a rebel.
Yay for this male dominated society right? *sarcasm* |
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CarolinaTHeels
Joined: 07 Apr 2011
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Posted: Mon Jul 11, 2011 6:12 am Post subject: |
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you know they saying.....
if she smokes she pokes! |
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420trader
Joined: 22 May 2011
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Posted: Mon Jul 11, 2011 6:43 am Post subject: |
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Back a few years ago (even up until 10-15 years ago), females smoking in public was really, really looked down upon. I know a lot of older Korean hyungs that used to smack random females just becaused they smoked in the open. I asked them why they did it and they replied "because it's disrespectful" (I have no idea how their reasoning went). It might be lost in translation but they said: "제수 없어서, 싸가지 없어서." I know older males (40's-70's) that did the same thing.
It's not like that anymore. There are still people that think it's really horrible for a woman to smoke in public but they are not the majority anymore. |
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marsavalanche

Joined: 27 Aug 2010 Location: where pretty lies perish
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Posted: Mon Jul 11, 2011 7:46 am Post subject: |
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Wait it's considered rude for women to smoke in public?
Which Korea do I live in? |
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myenglishisno
Joined: 08 Mar 2011 Location: Geumchon
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Posted: Mon Jul 11, 2011 8:04 am Post subject: |
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marsavalanche wrote: |
Wait it's considered rude for women to smoke in public?
Which Korea do I live in? |
I noticed when I lived in Seoul I saw it a lot, even though girls seemed more secretive about it.
Here in Anyang, I never see it.
Take into account we're talking about 'outside', not in bars. You see women smoking in bars all the time but you never see it on the streets, even if every second adjosshi has a cigarette dangling from their mouths... |
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Steelrails

Joined: 12 Mar 2009 Location: Earth, Solar System
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Posted: Mon Jul 11, 2011 8:07 am Post subject: |
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Walk into any of the ubiquitous coffee shops in Seoul and look at the smoking room.
These days I see more girls than guys in there. No one cares. If anything it seems the guys are trying to smoke less because the girls see it as a turnoff and a sign of the "old mentality", not to mention they themselves probably have horrid memories of all the smoke and don't like it either, meanwhile the girls are passively-aggressively rebelling. |
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marsavalanche

Joined: 27 Aug 2010 Location: where pretty lies perish
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Posted: Mon Jul 11, 2011 8:10 am Post subject: |
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I know a Korean girl that smokes when walking down the street. She wears a leather jacket and speaks Russian.
Everything makes sense now. |
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Moondoggy
Joined: 07 Jun 2011
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Posted: Mon Jul 11, 2011 8:26 am Post subject: |
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danwom wrote: |
Women are not supposed to smoke in general. Smoking is a way for a girl to quietly rebel against society. If she smokes while walking down the street, that just means she is more of a rebel.
Yay for this male dominated society right? *sarcasm* |
That's what it seems but the truth is that in Korea men are controlled by their women. Anyway smoking is deleterious. |
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Skippy

Joined: 18 Jan 2003 Location: Daejeon
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Posted: Mon Jul 11, 2011 10:37 am Post subject: |
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CarolinaTHeels wrote: |
you know they saying.....
if she smokes she pokes! |
That pretty much sums it up. Only whores smoke was and still is part of the Korean mindset of about women smoking.
Most girls and women will be secretive about it. It is changing but their will be certain places that a girl will not smoke. One Canadian teacher at a past school was told to smoke so far in the corner at the back of a building. Yet a American guy could smoke a little off to the side of the front of the building. |
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northway
Joined: 05 Jul 2010
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Posted: Mon Jul 11, 2011 2:53 pm Post subject: |
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myenglishisno wrote: |
marsavalanche wrote: |
Wait it's considered rude for women to smoke in public?
Which Korea do I live in? |
I noticed when I lived in Seoul I saw it a lot, even though girls seemed more secretive about it.
Here in Anyang, I never see it.
Take into account we're talking about 'outside', not in bars. You see women smoking in bars all the time but you never see it on the streets, even if every second adjosshi has a cigarette dangling from their mouths... |
I live in Anyang, and there are a fair number of women who work in my building and regularly go outside for a puff with the boys. |
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RangerMcGreggor
Joined: 12 Jan 2011 Location: Somewhere in Korea
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Posted: Mon Jul 11, 2011 2:53 pm Post subject: |
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I remember a few years ago it was considered a good dating tip that if a girl smoked she was probably "western" but it's slightly changing |
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Weigookin74
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Posted: Mon Jul 11, 2011 4:49 pm Post subject: |
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My current understanding is that women in Seoul can smoke in public or at a public place and it really doesn't mean anything. In regional cities, provinces, guns, etc, it means they're a *beep*. Or at least that's the attitudes. I saw one girl in my town smoking walking on the street. She was wearing a short skirt then walked into the Noraebang. |
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Kaypea
Joined: 09 Oct 2008
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Posted: Mon Jul 11, 2011 5:23 pm Post subject: |
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Where I live, I see more younger girls (high school age, early 20's) smoking in public, outdoors, but in sort of discreet places (shadowy areas under the overpass, etc). I live in Gyeonggi-do. At my school, several older man teachers smoke sort of openly, in the photocopy room or behind the school, but I've never, ever seen signs of a woman teacher smoking. I've become a secret smoker again. I'd better stop, because I'm dreading the day my addiction drives me to sneaking furtive puffs in the yard. |
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Captain Corea

Joined: 28 Feb 2005 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Mon Jul 11, 2011 5:47 pm Post subject: |
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In Gangnam I see girls smoking outside on a daily basis. |
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