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August is just about here...decisions must be made
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Zackback



Joined: 05 Nov 2010
Location: Kyungbuk

PostPosted: Thu Jul 28, 2011 4:19 pm    Post subject: August is just about here...decisions must be made Reply with quote

ok listen up. ill be up front. it may come off crass but hey deal with it. here's the skinny on what's going on. have a job set up for me in thailand when i leave this place which will be very soon. jokes aside ill be working at an all girls high school. now it gets pretty sticky because the chick im seeing is in korea. she just finished her first semester of university in which academically she did real lousy in. hey no problem. if she were to come with me to thailand (which she wants so very bad to do) what can a 20 year old korean woman do there? i mean she ain't too bright but that's what i really like about her - at least she just does pretty much what i say or want to do - no problems very few if any questions asked.


thanks
the zackback
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marsavalanche



Joined: 27 Aug 2010
Location: where pretty lies perish

PostPosted: Thu Jul 28, 2011 4:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

www.livejournal.com
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isisaredead



Joined: 18 May 2010

PostPosted: Thu Jul 28, 2011 5:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

provided this isn't a funking joke, i would suggest she go with you on a tourist visa for 90 days and scope it out. if her english is any good, i'm assuming she could do illegal private tutoring for a bit of coin. i really don't know what a korean could do there for employment. i googled it for a bit, and nothing came up at all. maybe a few of the ol' boys here could help you out.

that's if they're not scared off by the fact that you're an unmitigated tool.

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i mean she ain't too bright but that's what i really like about her - at least she just does pretty much what i say or want to do - no problems very few if any questions asked.


you're in for a very fulfilling life.
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hack



Joined: 24 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Thu Jul 28, 2011 8:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dump her. She has no chance of getting past immigration unless she lies and says she is going on vacation there and then has to show a return ticket and will have to show proof that she has enough money to support herself the length of time she says she's going to be there.

What are you thinking? Have you been to Thailand? Taking a 20 yr old Korean there? Thailand is a much more difficult country to live in than Korea if you're a female. She'll be homesick within days no matter how much she loves you. And once you see a 20 yr old Thai you won't be able to get her on the next flight to Seoul fast enough.

This is just a bad idea from start to finish. I know you are probably crazy about her but I'm guessing this is your first taste of Asian and take it from someone who has experience with women from most Asian countries, Thais are the best.

In order to avoid the drama, tell her she's coming and you have a ticket all ready for her etc. You'll enjoy all the benefits of a hero and she won't do the whiny, threatening suicide thing with you. Just make sure you actually leave a few days before you told her the 2 of you are leaving and by the time she's figured things out, you'll be enjoying the delights of Thailand.

Start thinking with the big head and the little head will be looked after.
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cert43



Joined: 17 Jun 2010

PostPosted: Thu Jul 28, 2011 8:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Threatning suicide? That isn't funny.. Shocked I know he dates Russians.
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Savant



Joined: 25 May 2007

PostPosted: Thu Jul 28, 2011 9:22 pm    Post subject: Re: August is just about here...decisions must be made Reply with quote

Zackback wrote:
i mean she ain't too bright but that's what i really like about her.


A match made in Heaven then.
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ReeseDog



Joined: 05 Apr 2008
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 28, 2011 9:45 pm    Post subject: Re: August is just about here...decisions must be made Reply with quote

Savant wrote:
Zackback wrote:
i mean she ain't too bright but that's what i really like about her.


A match made in Heaven then.


Yup.
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Zyzyfer



Joined: 29 Jan 2003
Location: who, what, where, when, why, how?

PostPosted: Thu Jul 28, 2011 9:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

marsavalanche wrote:
www.livejournal.com


Zing!
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CentralCali



Joined: 17 May 2007

PostPosted: Thu Jul 28, 2011 10:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Learn to use capital letters?
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Zackback



Joined: 05 Nov 2010
Location: Kyungbuk

PostPosted: Thu Jul 28, 2011 10:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

In terms of problems with immigration couldn't I just marry her. Problem solved (?)
Anyway you piqued my insterest...why are Thai chicks the best?
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hack



Joined: 24 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Fri Jul 29, 2011 8:33 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Zackback wrote:
In terms of problems with immigration couldn't I just marry her. Problem solved (?)
Anyway you piqued my insterest...why are Thai chicks the best?


Marry her? Are you serious? I'm worried about you.

I can't post here about why Thai women are great-I'd get censored so hopefully you get my drift.

Just go to Thailand and you'll understand. I go to Asia on business once or twice a year and always make Thailand my longest stop. No, it's not because of Thai hookers, it's because of regular Thai women. I plan to sell my business and retire within 5 years and it'll be straight to Thailand forever.

Whatever you do, don't marry her
. You'll regret it big time regardless of where you end up. If you do, read this post when you finally dump her and ask yourself why you didn't listen to hack.
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rainism



Joined: 13 Apr 2011

PostPosted: Fri Jul 29, 2011 12:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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No, it's not because of Thai hookers, it's because of regular Thai women.


ever been to Indonesia?

try it once and let me know if you change your mind about which females you prefer more Smile
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Zackback



Joined: 05 Nov 2010
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PostPosted: Fri Jul 29, 2011 4:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ok thanks for your advice hack. Just really hard to let a girl like the one I am with now slip through my fingers.

rainism: In terms of Indonesia...aren't they mostly Muslims. Wouldn't they want me to convert? That sounds frightening.
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rainism



Joined: 13 Apr 2011

PostPosted: Sat Jul 30, 2011 2:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Zackback wrote:
Ok thanks for your advice hack. Just really hard to let a girl like the one I am with now slip through my fingers.

rainism: In terms of Indonesia...aren't they mostly Muslims. Wouldn't they want me to convert? That sounds frightening.


No. If most of the world practiced the Indo variant of Islam, very few of us would have problems with that religion or its practitioners.

Indo society and culture is similar to the Filipino in that "bules"(local term for white man) are prized err.. 'acquisitions', and not just because they tend to have more money than the locals.

as in the Phillippines, many of your local models, celebrities, etc are biracial (half local, half bule).

if you can find a way to make a half decent living here (teaching ESL isn't really a viable option), the world is your oyster.
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Mr. Peabody



Joined: 24 Sep 2010
Location: here

PostPosted: Sat Jul 30, 2011 3:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

@Zakbak - Why take sand to the beach?
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