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joshuascott



Joined: 01 Jun 2011
Location: Minneapolis, MN/Daegu

PostPosted: Thu Sep 01, 2011 8:01 pm    Post subject: Looks and getting a job. Reply with quote

I just finished a very strange interview for a position in Ulsan. The director (female) flat out said she was concerned that I was too good looking to teach? She went on to say that she thought the students would not be able to concentrate and that someone who is too good looking might not be a good teacher..
I had no idea how to handle this other than say i'll get a bad haircut and wear dirty clothes...she didn't get the joke.

I know how important looks and first impressions are in Korea, but I never ever thought that this is something that would come up as a potential barrier to getting a teaching job. I find it deeply disturbing that someone would tie in looks with job performance.

I can't help but think that this was an isolated incident, but has anyone else ever ran into this problem?
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wishfullthinkng



Joined: 05 Mar 2010

PostPosted: Thu Sep 01, 2011 9:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

if that is an actually a problem then find a well paying teaching gig in gangnam/apujeong/cheongdam. you will be working in an environment that actually wants supermodels as teachers and after work you can hop over to one of many establishments that also cater to the young and beautiful to play.
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Unposter



Joined: 04 Jun 2006

PostPosted: Thu Sep 01, 2011 9:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Maybe, she was letting you down easy.
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joshuascott



Joined: 01 Jun 2011
Location: Minneapolis, MN/Daegu

PostPosted: Thu Sep 01, 2011 9:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Haha yes maybe that was just a clever Korean way of letting me go without making me feel bad. Well at least I'll have the awkwardness as a small memento...


I guess my whole purpose of starting this thread was to maybe open up a dialogue on the role looks play in Korean culture in respects to finding a job. I know that presentation and looks play a role in landing a job just about anywhere, but I guess looks going against someone in the hiring process is something that could be discussed as well.


wishfulthinking:Ultimately I would like to stay out of Seoul as I have started to harvest a slight distaste for the mountains of chain hagwon garbage that has been coming my way. I don't think my teacher's salary would be able to support the prices that places to see/be seen demand anyways, and plus that is not something that particularly interests me. Do they have hole in the wall bars where it is cool to be unseen? Then we might be talking!
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Setaro



Joined: 08 Aug 2010

PostPosted: Thu Sep 01, 2011 10:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

This thread is useless without pics. Show us your face so we can judge!
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joshuascott



Joined: 01 Jun 2011
Location: Minneapolis, MN/Daegu

PostPosted: Thu Sep 01, 2011 11:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hahahaha, some say I look like a combination of Dave Sperling and Brad Pitt so I'll leave that up to your imagination. Plus I'm a guy and I don't know if your a guy or girl so let's do ourselves a favor and not make this awkward. I think I just accepted a job in Daegu as of a minute ago so maybe I will fare better there.
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Swampfox10mm



Joined: 24 Mar 2011

PostPosted: Fri Sep 02, 2011 1:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You could have been in a yagwon with her in under 30 minutes, but you failed.

Go home. You obviously don't have what it takes to be here.
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whatisinmyhead



Joined: 31 Oct 2010

PostPosted: Sun Sep 04, 2011 6:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

you're a mix between dave sperling and brad pitt???

"yeah, my girlfriend looks a little like charlize theron... and a lot like dog the bounty hunter"

- zach galifianakis
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No_hite_pls



Joined: 05 Mar 2007
Location: Don't hate me because I'm right

PostPosted: Sun Sep 04, 2011 7:51 pm    Post subject: Re: Looks and getting a job. Reply with quote

joshuascott wrote:
I just finished a very strange interview for a position in Ulsan. The director (female) flat out said she was concerned that I was too good looking to teach? She went on to say that she thought the students would not be able to concentrate and that someone who is too good looking might not be a good teacher..
I had no idea how to handle this other than say i'll get a bad haircut and wear dirty clothes...she didn't get the joke.

I know how important looks and first impressions are in Korea, but I never ever thought that this is something that would come up as a potential barrier to getting a teaching job. I find it deeply disturbing that someone would tie in looks with job performance.

I can't help but think that this was an isolated incident, but has anyone else ever ran into this problem?


Finally someone who knows how I feel. LOL
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jeremysums



Joined: 08 Apr 2011

PostPosted: Thu Sep 22, 2011 8:40 am    Post subject: Re: Looks and getting a job. Reply with quote

Did she flirted with you. Lol about the dirty clothes comment. Man in the U.S. you get places with look, other places they try to turn you down. But a lot of people are saying blondes get jobs in korea. Not sure if its true or not.


joshuascott wrote:
I just finished a very strange interview for a position in Ulsan. The director (female) flat out said she was concerned that I was too good looking to teach? She went on to say that she thought the students would not be able to concentrate and that someone who is too good looking might not be a good teacher..
I had no idea how to handle this other than say i'll get a bad haircut and wear dirty clothes...she didn't get the joke.

I know how important looks and first impressions are in Korea, but I never ever thought that this is something that would come up as a potential barrier to getting a teaching job. I find it deeply disturbing that someone would tie in looks with job performance.

I can't help but think that this was an isolated incident, but has anyone else ever ran into this problem?
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Ribena



Joined: 07 Apr 2011
Location: UK

PostPosted: Thu Sep 22, 2011 9:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well I am glad I am ugly enough to avoid this problem. Laughing
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Died By Bear



Joined: 13 Jul 2010
Location: On the big lake they call Gitche Gumee

PostPosted: Thu Sep 22, 2011 2:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ribena wrote:
Well I am glad I am ugly enough to avoid this problem. Laughing



Damn straight Very Happy Very Happy
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Ribena



Joined: 07 Apr 2011
Location: UK

PostPosted: Thu Sep 22, 2011 2:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Died By Bear wrote:
Ribena wrote:
Well I am glad I am ugly enough to avoid this problem. Laughing



Damn straight Very Happy Very Happy


Since you seem hard at work I assume you too aren't blessed with distracting good looks either. Laughing
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shifty



Joined: 21 Jun 2004

PostPosted: Fri Sep 23, 2011 11:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

joshuascott wrote:
Some say I look like a combination of Dave Sperling and Brad Pitt so I'll leave that up to your imagination.


You haven't reached Korea yet and have interacted with some of Dave's posters!!! That's amazing!!

You must have a big future!
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