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lyonhead



Joined: 05 Oct 2011

PostPosted: Thu Dec 01, 2011 8:45 pm    Post subject: Awkward question *update Reply with quote

I'm not going to go into great detail, but it appears my Kgf and I have had an "accident." We were careful, but no protection is 100%.

Anyway, neither of us are ready for this. It's not the right time, place, or anything for us to bring another life into this world. I know some of you may feel ardently opposed to ending a pregnancy, but please spare me the sermon.

I know traditional ways to terminate are here (the surgery.) But I know back home we can get the pill that works for up to nine weeks. I would prefer this option for reasons of cost and convenience, but I'm not sure if it is available here? Anyone know for sure?

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jimmyjames1982



Joined: 13 Nov 2008

PostPosted: Thu Dec 01, 2011 9:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Womenonweb.org

They will send you the pills in the mail. It's legit. You have to donate 90 euros. Worth it, much cheaper than surgery plus less invasive. Read up on the site you will find all the info you're looking for.

Source: Someone who was in your exact shoes
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itistime



Joined: 23 Jul 2010

PostPosted: Thu Dec 01, 2011 9:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Looks like you're stuck in the Land of the Morning Calm, forever!!

Seriously, I've heard of those pills too.
Read up on the site. Good luck.
Have fun, but be careful next time.
Read the Korean STD thread, also.
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swinewho



Joined: 17 Aug 2009

PostPosted: Thu Dec 01, 2011 10:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You can only get the 'morning after pill here in Korea' thats good for 1 day or so after the 'incident'....

After that it's a grey area. Techically you can only have an abortion in Korea for medical reasons - Of course i'm sure there are places that do them everywhere for a price......

Best of luck on whatever you decide!

The pill the other OP mentioned sounds like a much easier way!
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travel zen



Joined: 22 Feb 2005
Location: Good old Toronto, Canada

PostPosted: Fri Dec 02, 2011 8:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Buddy,

How do you feel about killing a life ??


DONT ABORT A HUMAN BABY.
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jonbowman88



Joined: 20 Jan 2009
Location: gwangju, s korea

PostPosted: Fri Dec 02, 2011 8:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You might not be ready for it, but I'm pretty sure the baby isn't ready to be killed. Your excuses are totally illegitimate and you should have thought about these things before even taking it out of your pants. Your selfishness reigns supreme.

Killing people is something to oppose ardently.
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GrasshopperKR



Joined: 14 Oct 2011

PostPosted: Fri Dec 02, 2011 8:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I am pro-choice, that does not mean i pro abortion, just that it's up to the couple to decide what's best for them. Do what you feel is right, but just know their are consequences both good and bad to the choice you will make.
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jfromtheway



Joined: 20 Nov 2010

PostPosted: Fri Dec 02, 2011 9:15 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Nonsense. Do what's best for you and her, not the indistinguishable mush of cells that exist inside this chick's... wherever babies come from. Let's focus on the humans who already exist before we waste our time calling them murderers for not wanting to raise cells they would fail at raising. Murderer, no. Responsible, yes. But fools often mistake the two.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gqtcb66Yeyo


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jonbowman88



Joined: 20 Jan 2009
Location: gwangju, s korea

PostPosted: Fri Dec 02, 2011 9:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The Nazis thought the Jews were a problem, and that they would be better off without them. They began spreading the lie that they weren't human, which made it much easier to slaughter them. It's amazing how many people believed that lie.

You think you too smart to believe such a lie? Germany was one of the most brilliant liberal cultures in the world that produced great writings, poetry, philosophy, theology and was made into an instrument for the massive annihilation of the Jewish people.

Don't be fooled, the same thing is happening today.
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jfromtheway



Joined: 20 Nov 2010

PostPosted: Fri Dec 02, 2011 10:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

jonbowman88 wrote:
The Nazis thought the Jews were a problem, and that they would be better off without them. They began spreading the lie that they weren't human, which made it much easier to slaughter them. It's amazing how many people believed that lie.

You think you too smart to believe such a lie? Germany was one of the most brilliant liberal cultures in the world that produced great writings, poetry, philosophy, theology and was made into an instrument for the massive annihilation of the Jewish people.

Don't be fooled, the same thing is happening today.


Self-cracked nut.
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jonbowman88



Joined: 20 Jan 2009
Location: gwangju, s korea

PostPosted: Fri Dec 02, 2011 10:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

jfromtheway wrote:
jonbowman88 wrote:
The Nazis thought the Jews were a problem, and that they would be better off without them. They began spreading the lie that they weren't human, which made it much easier to slaughter them. It's amazing how many people believed that lie.

You think you too smart to believe such a lie? Germany was one of the most brilliant liberal cultures in the world that produced great writings, poetry, philosophy, theology and was made into an instrument for the massive annihilation of the Jewish people.

Don't be fooled, the same thing is happening today.


Self-cracked nut.


When people can't reply, they start name calling.
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jfromtheway



Joined: 20 Nov 2010

PostPosted: Fri Dec 02, 2011 10:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

jonbowman88 wrote:
jfromtheway wrote:
jonbowman88 wrote:
The Nazis thought the Jews were a problem, and that they would be better off without them. They began spreading the lie that they weren't human, which made it much easier to slaughter them. It's amazing how many people believed that lie.

You think you too smart to believe such a lie? Germany was one of the most brilliant liberal cultures in the world that produced great writings, poetry, philosophy, theology and was made into an instrument for the massive annihilation of the Jewish people.

Don't be fooled, the same thing is happening today.


Self-cracked nut.


When people can't reply, they start name calling.


Can't reply to what? The neo-Nazi, abortion pandemic? Have a nice, relaxed weekend, buddy. Keep stretching.
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radcon



Joined: 23 May 2011

PostPosted: Fri Dec 02, 2011 12:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

jonbowman88 wrote:
You might not be ready for it, but I'm pretty sure the baby isn't ready to be killed. Your excuses are totally illegitimate and you should have thought about these things before even taking it out of your pants. Your selfishness reigns supreme.

Killing people is something to oppose ardently.


How do you know the baby isnt ready to be killed? Have you talked to it? Maybe this baby is of the opinion that he would rather not exist than be brought up by people unable to do so.
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eat_yeot



Joined: 11 Dec 2009

PostPosted: Fri Dec 02, 2011 4:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

jonbowman88 wrote:
The Nazis ...


Godwin's Law, subsection 2. You lose.
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jonbowman88



Joined: 20 Jan 2009
Location: gwangju, s korea

PostPosted: Fri Dec 02, 2011 4:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

radcon wrote:
jonbowman88 wrote:
You might not be ready for it, but I'm pretty sure the baby isn't ready to be killed. Your excuses are totally illegitimate and you should have thought about these things before even taking it out of your pants. Your selfishness reigns supreme.

Killing people is something to oppose ardently.


How do you know the baby isnt ready to be killed? Have you talked to it? Maybe this baby is of the opinion that he would rather not exist than be brought up by people unable to do so.


Can you talk to a two month old baby? A one year old? I guess until the baby is ready to make an intelligent response as to whether or not he/she wants to live you should just go ahead and assume that it wants to be killed and do so.

I'm holding my 6 month old girl right now, it just occurred to me that I never properly consulted with her as to whether or not she wishes to live. But she can't speak. Her life might be hard, I suppose the only intelligent things to do now is to kill her.

I guess all babies born in an impoverished state such as North Korea ought to be killed then? Surely their life will be hard, and it will be better to have never lived at all. Are you in favor of killing all babies born in circumstances that might not be ideal?
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