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myenglishisno
Joined: 08 Mar 2011 Location: Geumchon
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Posted: Sun Dec 18, 2011 4:31 pm Post subject: To continue teaching in Korea or to move on... |
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I came over in 2007. I'm 27 years old. I've taught at hagwons, then I taught at a public school, then at hagwons again.
On the one hand, I love Korea. I have a lot of close friends here, my girlfriend is Korean, I enjoy my lifestyle here and it feels like home. When I'm not at work, there is really no place I would rather be.
On the other hand, I'm working at a hagwon. It's not even the first hagwon I've worked at this year actually as I got screwed over (badly) twice this year and this is actually my third hagwon in one year. While this particular hagwon is alright, it's still a hagwon. My boss did try to rip me off but thanks to the thick skin I've grown since I came over here, I got what was owed to me without anyone losing face.
It's just the fact that I'm 27 years old and working at a hagwon (still). I do like teaching but I want to do so in a more professional capacity. You don't meet many (any) people above 25 doing this kind of thing, nor do you meet people who are doing it four years after they did it the first time.
I'd love to be at a public school again but when I tried this year, it seemed impossible due to the cutbacks. I'd move to another province but everyone I care about lives in Seoul which means Seoul/Gyeonggi-do are where I want to be.
I just hate being stuck at the bottom rung. I feel like I'm just repeating my first year over and over again. If it weren't for the girlfriend, the dire job prospects back home (I'm still making more than my friends back home) and for the student loans which I just finished paying off, I might have taken off already. The things outside of work are what keeps me here but I'm sick of working in hagwons (even "good" hagwons aren't good places to work for a long time).
I'm thinking about becoming a student this year at one of the universities in Seoul. If I get my Master's Degree, then I can teach at a university here or do something else. The thing is, with the way everything is going, will that even be possible after a couple years? It's already difficult for people with MAs to find work at K-unis now. It's something I want to be sure of before I invest a lot of money in another degree. Had I known in the beginning that my BA would only get me into the lowest level of ESL or to a management position at a local McDonald's in Canada, I wouldn't have done it.
With all these public programmes crashing and the English industry in Korea as a whole shrinking, I don't know how long I can stay here before my options run out.
So yeah, I have a lot of reasons to stay and a lot of reasons to give up and go back to Canada.
Will things improve here? Got any advice for the guy having a quarter life crisis?  |
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chrisinkorea2011
Joined: 16 Jan 2011
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Posted: Sun Dec 18, 2011 5:01 pm Post subject: |
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Actually i was like that kinda during my first year. I felt like bottom rung But then i met my korean gf and started to be much more active and the such and STOPPED drinking lol.
A lot of uni. hire with MA however i do know some that hire with a Bach degree, u just need experience teaching at uni level or in some cases just use teaching adults as leverage. Im F4 and have more chances at side teaching, etc and STILL i feel like one more year is adequete for me then off stateside to get a MA. A lot of people are worried that this market for teachers will come crashing eventually and then all k- teachers will take over. I firmly believe this will NOT happen. cuts will happen yes, BUT its gonna get better again. The education system is gonna realize that even if you have a good number of k-teachers who can speak english and went to high school or college in the states, there will STILL be a demand for non koreans to teach english. its just that way.
(and on a side note my gf's older brother works for samsung and was in a contest for english speaking korean workers. A bunch of koreans who went to high school/college in the states and presented in this contest, STILL had horrible english writing AND speaking skills.) im not saying all koreans will be like that, but im sure companies pay attention to that and the such.
Just hang in there, eventually if youre at the bottom all you can do is go up right? |
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strange_brew
Joined: 12 Oct 2008
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Posted: Sun Dec 18, 2011 5:11 pm Post subject: |
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One thing I've noticed is that people whine and moan about there isn't anything back home comparable. Or that if they went to university, they would step out and get paid a great starting wage right away. Sorry to break it to you, but you're the bottom rung here, and you'll be the bottom rung back home, at least at the beginning. However, earning potential back home is much higher. Yes, you start low, but you have to build experience. I'm not too worried, I leave soon, but I had plenty of work experience back home, but wanted to try something different, so I came here, and left my old position.
It was the same thing with previous generations, they started low, and worked their way up. The longer you stay here, then the longer you put that off. It's one reason I'm heading back soon. I need to get back on track back home. I had fun, I had a new experience, yet, for most of people, who probably won't make a life of ESL, you will need to start something else. Or, if you enjoy the life and what you have here, stick with that too. There's a short and a long term view. Most people here, they seem stuck on the short term. Perhaps you will have to sacrifice a bit when you go back. |
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pegasus64128

Joined: 20 Aug 2011
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Posted: Sun Dec 18, 2011 9:10 pm Post subject: Re: To continue teaching in Korea or to move on... |
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myenglishisno wrote: |
I came over in 2007. I'm 27 years old. I've taught at hagwons, then I taught at a public school, then at hagwons again.
On the one hand, I love Korea. I have a lot of close friends here, my girlfriend is Korean, I enjoy my lifestyle here and it feels like home. When I'm not at work, there is really no place I would rather be.
On the other hand, I'm working at a hagwon. It's not even the first hagwon I've worked at this year actually as I got screwed over (badly) twice this year and this is actually my third hagwon in one year. While this particular hagwon is alright, it's still a hagwon. My boss did try to rip me off but thanks to the thick skin I've grown since I came over here, I got what was owed to me without anyone losing face.
It's just the fact that I'm 27 years old and working at a hagwon (still). I do like teaching but I want to do so in a more professional capacity. You don't meet many (any) people above 25 doing this kind of thing, nor do you meet people who are doing it four years after they did it the first time.
I'd love to be at a public school again but when I tried this year, it seemed impossible due to the cutbacks. I'd move to another province but everyone I care about lives in Seoul which means Seoul/Gyeonggi-do are where I want to be.
I just hate being stuck at the bottom rung. I feel like I'm just repeating my first year over and over again. If it weren't for the girlfriend, the dire job prospects back home (I'm still making more than my friends back home) and for the student loans which I just finished paying off, I might have taken off already. The things outside of work are what keeps me here but I'm sick of working in hagwons (even "good" hagwons aren't good places to work for a long time). |
My honest advice is save your money and propose to your girlfriend. You know the old saying, "behind every good man is a good woman". What wears you out is doing it alone. Many Koreans look down on us over our struggles, but it's so easy for them with their supportive families and wives etc. Whether you're in Canada or in Korea or wherever, it's easier if you're not doing it alone. Also, on the bright side, you managed to get out of debt. Big congratulations for that.
myenglishisno wrote: |
I'm thinking about becoming a student this year at one of the universities in Seoul. If I get my Master's Degree, then I can teach at a university here or do something else. The thing is, with the way everything is going, will that even be possible after a couple years? It's already difficult for people with MAs to find work at K-unis now. It's something I want to be sure of before I invest a lot of money in another degree. Had I known in the beginning that my BA would only get me into the lowest level of ESL or to a management position at a local McDonald's in Canada, I wouldn't have done it.
With all these public programmes crashing and the English industry in Korea as a whole shrinking, I don't know how long I can stay here before my options run out.
So yeah, I have a lot of reasons to stay and a lot of reasons to give up and go back to Canada.
Will things improve here? Got any advice for the guy having a quarter life crisis?  |
Korea's smartened up. They're not interested in MA's/MSc's/PhD's from people to teach English. They know that's a waste of money. There will be jobs in Korea for teaching English, but you'll be making less money. If you were married on the other hand, you could be making more money, and at least have a clearer set of goals.
myenglishisno wrote: |
There's a short and a long term view. Most people here, they seem stuck on the short term. Perhaps you will have to sacrifice a bit when you go back. |
True also, but I'd make sure you have a rock solid plan and are disciplined enough to implement it if you go back. You also need to know if it's remotely realistic. There's allot of questions you need to ask yourself: How will your likely limited social life be if you're up-skilling and/or taking a modest job? Many of your friends if not all will be married or have moved on. Things will be different. You will have withdrawal symptoms from Korea - the frenetic pace of life here, the food, the beautiful women everywhere, the bland apartment buildings everywhere, being in Asia, the climate - that's all in your psyche now and it's impossible to shake fully.
After 6 months back home you'll feel restless if you haven't landed an opportunity or a means towards an opportunity. If you are back home for 1+1/2 years and still haven't secured anything worthwhile (in a place you want to live that's not hicksville, with a life that's not dire) you'll be burning to come back to Korea, and then you might come back.
If/when you do come back then, your girlfriend will have moved on and probably be gone forever. You'll be even more on the lower rung (if you're lucky), you'll have lost contact and drifted apart from many of your friends in Seoul, and you'll have considerably less money than when you first left... |
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matthews_world
Joined: 15 Feb 2003
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Posted: Sun Dec 18, 2011 10:20 pm Post subject: |
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You were fresh faced when you got here and probably new to the world as far as work experience goes. You got the Asian fever and have yet to settle down.
Depends on your bills and how much you've saved.
If you got some saved up then go back and look at other job possibilities, start a business or get a Master's if teaching is what you want to do. |
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isitts
Joined: 25 Dec 2008 Location: Korea
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Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2011 5:07 pm Post subject: Re: To continue teaching in Korea or to move on... |
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myenglishisno wrote: |
I came over in 2007. I'm 27 years old. I've taught at hagwons, then I taught at a public school, then at hagwons again.
On the one hand, I love Korea. I have a lot of close friends here, my girlfriend is Korean, I enjoy my lifestyle here and it feels like home. When I'm not at work, there is really no place I would rather be.
On the other hand, I'm working at a hagwon... |
Marry your girlfriend and get on an F visa. Problem(s) solved. |
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weso1
Joined: 26 Aug 2010
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Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2011 5:12 pm Post subject: |
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Don't be so sure an MA will get you a uni gig. There are loads of PhDs coming over now and unis a bit more selective.
On a second note, you sound exactly like me. Even down to the age and bouncing back and forth from hagwon to ps and back to hagwon. I switched back because I maxed out the salary for ps and make more money in a hagwon. Plus I get to sleep late.
My cure: move to Japan. I'm going to get started after the new year. It can take a while to land a job and get a visa. So I'm hoping if I start in January, I should have everything ready to go by Fall. A new culture would be nice. I'm so tired of the ubber xenophobic nationalism that exists here. I actually wish I could have another year like my first year here, it was amazing. It just seems ever since then, I've been sliding down hill. |
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isitts
Joined: 25 Dec 2008 Location: Korea
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Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2011 5:20 pm Post subject: |
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weso1 wrote: |
I'm so tired of the ubber xenophobic nationalism that exists here. |
And so you're going to Japan??  |
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myenglishisno
Joined: 08 Mar 2011 Location: Geumchon
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Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2011 5:35 pm Post subject: |
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weso1 wrote: |
Don't be so sure an MA will get you a uni gig. There are loads of PhDs coming over now and unis a bit more selective.
On a second note, you sound exactly like me. Even down to the age and bouncing back and forth from hagwon to ps and back to hagwon. I switched back because I maxed out the salary for ps and make more money in a hagwon. Plus I get to sleep late. |
Yeah, we do sound alike. I started working at a hagwon again because I got tired of all the BS in the public school system both here and in Japan. In both cases, I had too much down time and the schools didn't really know what to do with me.
At least at a hagwon, you get constant feedback and you have a sense of purpose. Unfortunately, it took me three tries to find a decent hagwon so far this year. The first one tricked me into teaching 10+ hours a day for six days a week, the second one paid well and gave a nice apartment but treated teachers like absolute garbage and they fired me for god knows what (I actually don't know exactly why I got fired other than the fact that I didn't go drinking with them and am not a "team player").
Anyway, the hagwon I'm at now isn't perfect but it'll do. Far less BS.
The problem is that I just want more out of life, I guess.
As for the future, it doesn't have to be a uni. I'm thinking of making connections during the programme and hopefully getting a uni job or some other kind of job (even at a company).
weso1 wrote: |
My cure: move to Japan. I'm going to get started after the new year. It can take a while to land a job and get a visa. So I'm hoping if I start in January, I should have everything ready to go by Fall. A new culture would be nice. I'm so tired of the ubber xenophobic nationalism that exists here. I actually wish I could have another year like my first year here, it was amazing. It just seems ever since then, I've been sliding down hill. |
I went to Japan for a year last year for the same reasons you are thinking about going.
It was the worst year I've had in Asia. I DO NOT recommend teaching in Japan unless you can get over 250k Yen per month in a good eikaiwa or on the JET Programme. Working for a dispatch company in Japan (Heart, Interac, RCS et. al) is much worse than the worst Hagwon jobs in Korea in just about every way (especially salary) and I found the xenophobia to actually be worse than Korea. You have to pay your own rent, rent a car and a bunch of other things on top of getting paid peanuts to be a tape recorder at a public school that clearly doesn't want you there.
I missed Korea the entire time. I think Japan used to be more open than Korea and a better place to teach but now Korea has greatly surpassed it. These days, I mostly hang out with Koreans and I don't even really feel like there is a culture gap most of the time. Don't know anyone in Japan who can do that unless they are fluent in Japanese.
Stay here! |
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DanielP
Joined: 25 Nov 2006
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Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2011 7:01 pm Post subject: |
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Hey man -
Just wanted to let you know that Im in the same boat.
After 5 years in Korea I'm giving the 'move' a try.
If you really like Korea and your girlfriend then yeah - why not get
married? You can more easily get a teaching job.
Also many foreign companies are looking into doing business in Korea
and Korea is opening up business-wise. Great chances to help bring a Western company into the country and give you a new career (and more prestige than hogwan teaching.)
Or you can do what I'm doing which is go to another country for a while (I'm going to Thailand). It will give you the time away to rethink your future and your relationship with Korea. If you find yourself really missing the place you can always come back.
Sure it might mean starting anew but at least you'll have your mind made up and a newfound sense of purpose.
Good luck man - I can totally relate.
Dan |
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weso1
Joined: 26 Aug 2010
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Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2011 8:49 pm Post subject: |
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lol at all the people saying "just get married"
To me, that's not something you just up and do. |
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Lunar Groove Gardener
Joined: 05 Jan 2005 Location: 1987 Subaru
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Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2011 8:58 pm Post subject: |
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University experience will open the door for more university jobs.
Had you applied and interviewed this past round for the March semester,
you'd likely have had some luck, believe it or not. This would require
being willing and ready to apply to outlying universities in the more remote
areas farther from Seoul or Busan. With just a year or two as such, you'd have a chance at uni jobs in Seoul.
The university jobs in the major cities draw the masses of people who will never want to live outside of Seoul. It is a game of luck and perhaps connections toget those jobs with or without the advanced degree.
So, instead of a couple of years working at the masters, I'd suggest that you interview for one of these jobs in the May/June interview season. You can do the masters while working and gaining experience at that level. Then, two years later, you'll have it all: experience, degree, references and a proven track record.
Good luck. |
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Yaya

Joined: 25 Feb 2003 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2011 11:02 pm Post subject: |
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weso1 wrote: |
lol at all the people saying "just get married"
To me, that's not something you just up and do. |
I concur. Of course, having the F-2 visa is handy for doing your own private teaching but there seems to be quite a few horror stories among expats who've married women in Korea. Yes, I'm sure you're into her now but what happens down the road? And people do change, as many will attest to.
All I can say is good luck to the OP in whatever he does. |
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The Floating World
Joined: 01 Oct 2011 Location: Here
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Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2011 11:09 pm Post subject: |
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weso1 wrote: |
lol at all the people saying "just get married"
To me, that's not something you just up and do. |
Some people don't have the stones to get through life by themselves and wait until they fall in love. Or work themselves hard to get into a financial position they are happy with. So they become co-dependant on others. |
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pegasus64128

Joined: 20 Aug 2011
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Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2011 11:42 pm Post subject: |
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The Floating World wrote: |
weso1 wrote: |
lol at all the people saying "just get married"
To me, that's not something you just up and do. |
Some people don't have the stones to get through life by themselves and wait until they fall in love. Or work themselves hard to get into a financial position they are happy with. So they become co-dependant on others. |
Haha
People should do whatever they want and decide for themselves what love is or if they have it. Why does everyone have to be such a judger. If your advice differs from someone else, then get over it. It's just a matter of opinion. I've never not been independent, so much so that it's hard to imagine co-dependence, so for me I need stones to become co-dependent. |
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